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Amanda....

I've never seen you so angry....

but on the subject...tonight I have once again had a request from someone who has no profile to speak of and a revolting wall.....

While this is quite distressing, I am who I am, and if looking presentable and trying to be the best I can, attracts this sort of thing....then so be it...but I will not wear a bag over my head to stop this.....I will carry on being me and posting my pictures.....I'm grace...live with it.

This is in no way having a go at the beautiful girls who patrol this site...I accept that some rubbish gets through....you do a wonderful job and I for one love you all....

Grace Scarlett...❤️❤️

What I don't understand stand Grace is why aren't those at the top not looking at the walls and thinking "Nuke CT"
Ps don't you ever change, and don't ever let them get to you. Send them my way sweetie and I will deal with them for you.
Mrs Angry Burton xx

This is a great discussion among very knowledgeable ladies and would welcome any and all insights on choosing the right breast plate for me.

First a little info on me.

1. I am 5'10", weight 155 lbs. with fair (light) skin

2. Am a novice, never worn a breastplate before

3. Curious about what cup size to purchase. Eventually would like to aim for D or DD size

I am interested in the low cut styles because I think the high neck styles would be too uncomfortable to wear for prolonged periods. It appears that silicone is the best option to achieve the most natural looking, feel and weight.

Any assistance on the subject is greatly appreciated thank you.

Hi Kayla,

For what it's worth: I'm also 5'10" and 148 lb; I recently tried an Athena, size B small plate, which filled a 40C bra, and which I felt was a bit too much for me, and which I passed along to a CD friend. You might find that size just right; that "small" label is misleading, unless you are in the "bigger is better" club, which I'm not.

Hugs,
Bettylou

Amanda, I think there are certainly trolls, but they tend to go straight to sex talk and don't really waste time engaging in pleasant conversation. On a freely open website like CDH, there's no way the moderators can keep all of the trolls out. I think you can only handle it the way Grace does...with class and, well, grace  🙂  (And if they won't leave you alone,  tell Amanda and she will start cracking some heads!)

I think there are a faction of people that come here legitimately, although perhaps confused, and may start up some friendly conversations and then, after a short time, question EVERYTHING and POOF, they're gone.

I can't really get irritated with them for doing that. Heck, sometimes I question my path here as well.  That said, I just love CDH and it appears you all are stuck with me for the foreseeable future  🙂

*kisses* tara 🙂

That happens a lot Amanda.

Let me send you a PM.

I do send some private messages, but only if it is something that for whatever reason, should not be posted in the public forums.
Im not great at chatting even in person, so to have long message meetings would never work, lol
Hugs, Regi👩💕

I would think that it might have a lot to do with the shame and guilt many of us have had to deal with, to get here. I haven't been here very long myself. From time to  time I look over older postings or topics.  I've been amazed at how often people haven't been on CDH in months or their page is gone. I suppose it goes hand in hand with the purging and guilt that many endure.

Hi Amanda!  Yeah.... a lot of answers have already addressed this quite accurately.   Lord knows I have a mushy heart and I too have had my fair share of hunters and trolls complimenting certain, uhhh...  aspects of me.  "Sorry, you dont have the looks or the money to get anywhere with me" is my usual response to them and they are quickly dismissed.  Treated with the same respect I give a cockroach.  I do feel for the girls who join up uncertain and a little terrified about the whole thing and can understand their getting scared, doubting themselves, and running for cover, as it were.  Or having their SO finding out....  I wanna think many mean no disrespect to us if they suddenly vanish.  They tried to open up and failed.... I do hope they try again!  We all know how overwhelming this can be.  A lot of us have been here quite some time and still have our momentary lapses ( me too ) so I can understand that feeling in some new members.    I will say it sucks when you get to know some, become friends and grow fond of them, and then poof, they are gone.  That's happened and that's what makes me the most sad.

There are all kinds - The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly.   And to the ugly I say - Go ahead, make my day....

Not even sure if I addressed this properly or went off on a tangent there Amanda, lol.

Stevie   😊

Oh, P.S. hon,

There's nothing wrong with saying Fuss Off... 😉

Actually they do look at the walls, and everywhere else.  If they didnt there would be a hell of a lot more of them here!

Stevie

Amanda there are people on here who just seem to want to claim friends. I have people on here request friendship which I have accepted and messaged thanks to them, and they have never ever responded quite bizarre. Like you I am willing to talk to anyone friendly, I have had 2 people making suggestive comments to me, so I removed them from friends.

Love Sarah xx

PS - I yet to try peanut butter.

Hi Stevie, absolutely fine, and I understand many points the girls have said. But if you want to be friends and message me great, fabulous, even magic, I don't expect many obviously to message everyday or hour, I am a big girl and understand the world. But I just can't stand those that pretend to be friends and puff, just annoying. Yeah message me, chat but all I ask is be honest, I fully expect some may like me other not, that's life.

I understand that Roberta and my heart goes out to genuine girls struggling. But it's the ones that join and use it as a game that make me angry nothing remotely genuine, except to waste time.