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My 1st night out dressed

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Lady
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(@randialex)
Estimable Member     Shaftesbury, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

Well I did it, went out with friends to a local restaurant en fem, make up the lot, had a fab evening after a nervous start. 

I've posted a pic in my public gallery. You can see it by clicking on the link below. My stature is a bit bent as I suffer from MS.

Night out dressed – Crossdresser Heaven

Randi

(Apologies, but I had to remove the original posted pics as these aren't allowed in the general forums. So sorry ... they were lovely photos! Ellie x)

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@randialex Well done, Randi!

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

@randialex 

Randi, thanks for sharing this, what a lovely thing to read with my morning cup!

I'm so glad you had a good time, and why not? You look like (an admittedly more mature) lady enjoying her evening. And, even better, you got curry! 

I hope this was the first of many such curries [Outings, Allie] oh yes, many such outings. But, if there are curries too...🥘

Allie x

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Lady
(@wendye47)
Joined: 9 months ago

Estimable Member     Clwyd, United Kingdom
Posts: 79

@randialex Hi Randi.

Glad you had such a great time. Thank you for sharing with us,

Wendy xx

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(@finallyfiona)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1461

@randialex Oh well done Randi!  What lovely photos, you look so happy, you were clearly having a wonderful time.  How nice to see some good news of a morning - thank you for this little slice of joy, and I hope that's opened the door to many more such occasions 🙂

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1839

@randialex Well done! You look great too,

Hugs,

Anna xx

 

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Duchess
(@mkat3874)
Joined: 4 months ago

Reputable Member     Northeast GA , Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 231

@randialex 

Fantastic! So happy you got to go out. Hope your first time out is the beginning of many more to come. 

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1142

@randialex 

Randi, 

 So glad that you got your girly on and went out. Seemingly small steps into a big world! 

 There's no stopping you now!

 Fran 🥰 

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(@carolinecd306)
Joined: 7 months ago

Estimable Member     Fraser Valley, British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 119

@randialex Awesome, sounds like a good time was had by all. 

 

C💋

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1209

@randialex Good for you Randi!  I'm very happy for you that you had such a nice evening.  Every time you do it, it gets a little easier.   After a while, it will be second nature for you!

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 Lisa
Lady
(@lisagurlll)
Estimable Member     Diamond Bar, California, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

You look great, Randi! 🥰

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Ambassador
(@leonara)
Noble Member     Long Island,, New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Randi,

may I say welcome to CDH … I thank you for sharing your 1st night out with friends you are an inspiration to us ladies who are shy to take that step to be out ‘n about for the first time, including me…        BTW you are a pretty lady and the smile says it all .. you go girl!  
Warmest regards, Leonara 🌹

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Duchess
(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

WTG Randi!! Happy Woman Face  

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(@Anonymous 100087)
Reputable Member
Joined: 2 months ago

it wasn't as scary as you thought, was it? welcome to my world. Smile  

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Randi -

How wonderful for you, an inspiration to us all. You look gorgeous. Glad you had a nice evening.

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@rebeccabaxter)
    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

You've stolen my style! 🙂

Looking good.

Becca

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

You look great Randi and radiate happiness. Such a wonderful experience for you and much encouragement for others too.

So happy for you.

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Lady
Topic starter
(@randialex)
Estimable Member     Shaftesbury, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

Ellie

No pics seems a silly rule, where are my pics now and if you have deleted them where should I put them up. You have ruined a happy good news thread by removing the pics, the least you could have done was place them else where and advise people where to see them

R (no longer happy)

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Lady
(@sailor2000)
Joined: 2 years ago

Reputable Member     Houston, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 164

@randialex you can post them to your profile 😎

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

@randialex 

Randi, as Megan says you can post them to your profile. In fact, as you have duchess membership, you can create both public and private galleries.

Then, just tell us that and we can look for ourselves.

I hope this information goes some way to make you happy again. 

Regarding rules, they are created to help ensure CDH stays the safe place for us all that we know and love. We regularly review these rules to make sure they are still fit for purpose and I can assure you that your opinion will be considered when we look again at the rules concerning forum posts.

Allie x

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@randialex 

Dear Randi

I'm sorry if 'No pics' seems like a silly rule, but nevertheless it IS the rule. Here is the exact wording from our Code of Conduct:

'Please do not post photos in the forums. Photos posted in forums will be removed without notice. Public and private photo galleries are available for these instead.'

Community Code of Conduct – Crossdresser Heaven

You'll see that although the rule says that photos in the forums will be removed without notice, I did add a message to your forum post explaining what I'd done:

'(Apologies, but I've had to remove the pics as these aren't allowed in the general forums. So sorry ... they were lovely photos! Ellie x)'

As Allie and Megan have said, you can post the two photos in your public gallery. Then, if you wish, we can edit your opening post so that it links directly to them. This might be the best solution - as I say, they were lovely photos. Sadly, I'm not able to copy photos and move them to your gallery for you, or I would have done that.

I'm sorry if you think that I've ruined a happy good news thread; this is a long-standing rule and all I'm doing is implementing it.

Ellie

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Lady
(@randialex)
Joined: 4 months ago

Estimable Member     Shaftesbury, Dorset, United Kingdom
Posts: 57

OK Ellie I have placed a pic in the public photo area

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@randialex 

Thank you Randi.

I'll have a look, and see if I can link it in to your opening post for you.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@randialex 

Done 🙂

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Lady
(@paulapantyhose)
Estimable Member     western part of state, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

I am so happy for you. Glad you had a great time.

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(@Anonymous 100087)
Reputable Member
Joined: 2 months ago

Happy you accomplished this.  My first time out was wonderful and I will never forget that night.

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Duchess
(@joannat)
Reputable Member     Gwynedd, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

Well done you! It’s going to get ever-easier from here on in!

Joanna💕

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Good for you, glad you had a nice night out.

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Congratulations, lady. 

First night out is unforgettable. Thankss for sharing, Randi.

Mine was at Carrabba's restaurant during Keystone 2024. What a night!

Gisela

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