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(@wanderer)
Noble Member     Stoney Creek , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Fine.  I shall volunteer to sound like a broken record and sacrifice myself on the alter of information.

I just want to again say I love the friends I've made here, and I'm one who likes to get to know my friends.  I guess I'm funny that way....

And the best, quickest method?  AHEM, that would be the profile page we all have and love.  Before tuning  me out, give it a moment's thought.  You do not have to give a street address or exact time of birth you know, but I enjoy knowing if a friend lives across town or across country.  Even a clue would be appreciated!   I understand privacy and discomfort for some, but give what you can, please?  Pretty please??

Yes, it does make a difference.  I just want us to be one big happy family, that's all.  FINE Lol!  Call me an idealist then, just dont hate me for asking. 🙂

I now return you to your regularly scheduled programming  .

Stevie

 

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Baroness
(@amylove2dress)
Famed Member     South Western Ontario, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

I think mine is somewhat specific. I for one, don't hide that I in live in a small town in Southwestern Ontario, and spent the majority of my adult life in Toronto and Scarborough.

Amy

 

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

a little info go's a longway. More will always make friends 🙂   🌷

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Stevie,

Great points brought forward.  And a good reminder for new members.

One other consideration is many view the profile page when receiving a friendship request.  If the profile is blank someone may ignore the request.  We all love new friends and getting to know another here on CDH can be fun.

Alice

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a Torontarian   🙂

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Ask away anytime   ill probably have a thought or opinion on most everything . cant chat too if you like

Sandi

 

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(@lizk)
Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

I agree with you Stevie. A little info goes a long way. The girls I've connected with made the effort to fill their profiles. We may or may not be friends.

I'll sit on a friend request if a girl's profile is empty and there's no compelling circumstances. If there's been no activity after a couple weeks I usually decline the request.

That said, once in a while I encounter a girl in crisis. She's posted the gritty details in the forums, but her profile is empty. So besides checking her profile section, I have a look at her wall. I can get a feel for who she is from reading her posts. If she sends a friend request, I'm accepting. I might send her a friend request if I think I can help.

Finishing on a lighter note, have a look at a girl's wall before tuning out. Some girls don't like filling forms. But there might be a treasure trove of info on her wall.  You might find a friend in the making.

Emily

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(@wanderer)
Noble Member     Stoney Creek , Ontario, Canada
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Agree with that 100% Emily.  Have done the same.

Stevie

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(@stephanier)
Noble Member     Adelaide, South Australia, Australia
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Stevie,

 

Yes, I agree. Putting some info in the profile page really helps. Everyone needs to be comfortable with what they put there though.

 

Love, Stephanie ❤️

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(@ria)
Honorable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

I totally agree.  I came to this site to find friends and share experiences and find support from others . After 60 years of trying to express my femininity I still need help.

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Thanks Stevie

a good prompt. Where we live is not so important. We can be vague but characteristics certainly come through. I have made good friends here based on common interests, which is a good start. Perhaps we need to offer guidance to new comers?

any way all good

Averyl

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Hey Stevie, I messaged you over a week ago and haven't heard back, drop me a line.

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(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Stevie!

Got a friend request, went to profile, they were born 4 days after joining CDH........ Some people have a bit of trouble with the technical end of filling out their profile. That's fine, we all understand, but you are right, inquiring minds want to know.....

Like I want to know who is on the album cover on your profile picture?

Hugs

Autumn

 

 

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(@wanderer)
Noble Member     Stoney Creek , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

That Stevie!!  (From her 1st album.)

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(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

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I should have known. I don't think that I have seen that album cover before.

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