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Today I got to experience what some GGs do all of the time.
I went into an unnamed, unique Japanese clothing store while underdressing and was looking for a certain long-sleeved T-shirt. When I asked for some help, a female sales clerk was saying what she had to say but she intently stared at a small chest bump while talking. I started to get a bit self-conscious, but she finished and took off before it got awkward. That's a first.
On my way home, I thought that I could have said that "my eyes are up here", but there was another clerk beside her. I will have to keep this in my memory bank for another time.
Have any of you had similar GG incidents and how did you handle it? With humour, I hope.
A few years back I was out with a friend and wore a summer dress that was low cut. We were in a store and at the checkout I was served by a teenage boy, he was quite polite and after we left my friend asked if I was watching him. I hadn't really and she said that he kept glancing at my boobs! I didn't realize and was quite proud.
I have never understood that comment. Women can easily reduce the visual impact of their boobs if they so desired. Instead, most wear things that emphasize if not show off their lovely form. If they are going to show them, I am going to look. If I am wearing forms.it is because I want to have boobs and look femme, so I am happy to have people look at my boobs.
If they are going to show them, I am going to look.
That is exactly my attitude also. Best, Marlene.
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this is exactly my take on the situation…
I have small but noticeable boobs and a padded bra only emphasises them especially in a fitted top …so when I’m out , I do occasionally get people having a glance at them , which I think is only natural . I’d be lying if I said I didn’t take the occasional glance at other women’s boobs - mainly because I’ve noticed if they are wearing a nice top or dress and I’m thinking if that would look good on me !
There is at least a subtle difference between looking and what this young lady did, though.
I am a little bit of an exhibitionist so I don't mind. I have an ample bosom and don't mind if people want to look.
Unfortunately, not everyone feels the same way so it is hard to regulate the eyes of others.
Sophie
Thanks, Gabriela. You summed the situation up well.
I was subtly underdressed and my forms barely were bigger than maybe moobs, so it felt a bit odd seeing it happen for the first time. Next time I hope to be more prepared.
