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Hello all,
It's a crazy world at the best of times, but this covid s**t has meant I hadn't had anyone stay over for more than a year! But things have eased a bit, and now I'm double dosed too.
So an old friend came up for a few days. Now my house is the opposite of 'minimalist'. Stuff all over the place, of all descriptions. And since lockdown started the latest stuff to add to the mix is Marti stuff, and Marti is not out to the world.
Well, I've a 'let sleeping dogs lie' sort of attitude to my cross dressing. I made an effort to remove 'evidence'. The first thing I realised that once everything was washed, dried and put away properly, my knicker drawer is now full to bursting, as is my socks drawer and bra drawer. And guess what, once I'd cleared out the other wardrobe in my guest room, my own bedroom was full to overflowing.
My clear away more or less worked, but after the visit I took stock of what I'd missed, among which was:
- a book with the word 'cross dressing' on the spine randomly piled on a bookshelf
- at one point a a lap top opened on the cdh forum tab - d'oh! Don't think he spotted that.
- random stuff in the bathroom - women's razors, hair removal cream, epilator
- a manicure set and random nail polish on a shelf
- a tub of moisturiser by my chair
- me! I'd forgotten that my arms are now hairless, my long hair has been professionally trimmed and looks almost tidy, my skin looks healthier, my nails are getting long again,and the longest - my little pinkie - had sparkle nail varnish on it. And androgenous or not, no way did one of my tops come from the mens rack.
My friend didn't bat an eyelid. Maybe I've inadvertently trained him up to 'expect the unexpected' because I've never been exactly conventional. We just had a good time catching up, too much drinking, too much smoking, and have already planned the next get together. Result!
... and today one of my two step daughters and her husband are due for a few days. Wonderful! But I'm just thinking, what will I miss this time? And dare I say it? - if I do, will it matter?
Marti xxx
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Marti, I think it would depend a lot on how long their travels would have taken to get to your place (long tiring drive or over crowded airport?), and how busy they are going to be while there. Are they usually nosey about things?
You did okay with your friend and now know what you missed, so one more sweep through your home should take care of it.
PaulaF
Thanks Paula,
They'll have had a soggy few days 'enjoying' camping in the Welsh countryside apparently (at what age do you realise you will never willingly camp again?) Don't worry, I'm not stressing out on things. really looking forward to catching up. Thanks all the same.
Marti xxx
Marti, I am in the same boat. My closet is over flowing with my fem clothes, Some I know are much too small but still very cute. I know they will fit again once i rid myself of this covid fat. Today I just say screw it let everyone find out.
Stephanie
- agreed, sometimes there's a little imp inside of you challenging you to say 'Eff it!"
Marti xxx
Hi Marti! Yes, there is all too often something we forget. That forgotten necklace around the neck, the nail polish you remember just as you take your socks off.... and yes, there always seems to be a rogue bottle of nail polish laying around somewhere 😅. I like your "Eff it" attitude though. That works!
Will it matter? Hopefully it will in a good way, in that it won't matter that it matters, and everyone else says "so what". 🙂
Stevie
Thanks Stevie 😉
