Notifications
Clear all

Welcome to Crossdresser Heaven, a safe and welcoming place for everyone in the crossdresser community.

Join Crossdresser Heaven today to participate in the forums.

My Friday night out.

27 Posts
11 Users
74 Reactions
538 Views
Posts: 1488
Lady
Topic starter
(@cdashley)
Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Well some asked for a follow up on my night out this past Friday. 
Friday morning I tried on a few outfits and asked wife’s opinion on them. We both selected my new gray sweater dress with black pantyhose and my black over the knee boots. 
All day I was super nervous and had second thoughts about going out. My wife kept encouraging me to go through with it and pushed me to go. Shower , full shave , apply some lotion and start my makeup . After completing my makeup I got dressed then it was which wig do I go with , again with wife’s help we picked my shirt black Bob style one. Now ready I realized I would have to leave while it was still light out and once again wife said “ just hold your head up and walk out there and get in the car. “. She was a big part of me going through with this event. Once in car and on my way I settled in and drove to the city which was crazy traffic. I pulled in to where parking garage was and was shocked to see a sign saying garage closed due to construction. Yikes now what do I do. I turned around and went back out in street to find some parking and went about 2 1/2 blocks down to find street parking. Parked the car and now the nerves set in again that I have to walk the distance back to the pub.  So I got out of car, paid for my parking , placed it on the dash , put my purse on on my shoulder and started the walk down the very busy sidewalk.  Like most say ,people are in there own space and no funny looks, smirks or anything g as I made my way to the pub . Walked in and met the hostess and asked where the Xpressions group was sitting. She directed me to the table and I introduced myself to all the ladies already there. After that drive there I ordered a drink ( just the one as I was driving ). Amy wasn’t there yet who I was considering my contact person as I had mentioned I was coming . Chatted with a few ladies , was asked about my story and where I’m at in my journey. Once Amy showed up we had a great chat about everything and ordered our meals. I had the fish tacos which were absolutely delicious. While the evening went on I noticed that all the other patrons didn’t show any signs of disapproval and I think one man actually checked me iut as I walked by.  lol. Anyway all in all it was a great experience for me as I do many functions like this. Another new girl was there and we chatted for a bit and as I was ready to go she asked if I could drop her off on my way home we I did. So now we walked the 2 1/2 blocks down the street, our heels making the sound I enjoy with not a care in the world. Just 2 girls out on the town.  Thanks so much to Amy Myers for having me with the Xpressions group and I hope to do this again soon. 
Ashley❤️

Reply
26 Replies
18 Replies
Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@cdashley 

Wow! What a fantastic experience for you! I can understand why you were so nervous, but your wife is an absolute treasure for giving you so much encouragement! I think she played a bit more than a big part in making your day so special.

Well done, Ashley, and thank you for sharing.

Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@jacquelinelarkspur thanks so much Jacqueline. Yes she pretty much pushed me out the door.   I very lucky to have her on board.

Reply
Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2155

@cdashley Hi, Ashley, your evening out sounds amazing, apart from the parking! The more stories like yours I read, the more I think, "Hmm, I wonder..." A bit more work needed yet though.

Thanks for sharing your experience with us 👠

Allie x

Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@alexina Thank you Allie, once your out the nerves seem to go away.

Reply
Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Posts: 2296

@cdashley Going out can be such a wonderful an special experience. Still, I can feel the fear and nervousness you felt at some points in your adventure. I've been there so many times. In fact, way more times then not, I chickened out. Then afterwards I was always disappointed.

Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@pattyphose 

Yes Patty I find that I still get nervous at times when out either fully dressed or when I present as a man in woman’s clothes . But once I’m out then I settle in and enjoy the experience.  
Reply
Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Posts: 2296

@cdashley I had been out several times wearing pantyhose with guy shorts, shoes and clothes. I guess it was getting acclimated, building confidence or just testing myself for going out fully femme.

Still, if I got seen by someone I know and they noticed I was wearing pantyhose, it might not be a positive experience or outcome. I thought going fully femme and looking a lot different would be a better way to go.

Besides it had been a long time and ongoing dream and fantasy. I wanted to know how it would feel to be a sexy girl with great legs, nice breasts and pretty hair and be out knowing you looked so great.

When I saw Daisy Duke, I knew that was the look I wanted. Great, sexy legs in pantyhose, shown off in little shorts, heels and wonderful pretty hair.

I went and bought a pair of platform wedge heels, some short girl's shorts, a few bras and a couple of wigs. I made some breast forms from some old pantyhose.

When I got into my Daisy Duke outfit and looked in the mirror, I really liked what I saw, but when I looked above my neck, it was me in a Daisy Duke outfit. Putting on a wig changed everything. I was a sexy girl with great legs. My breasts were nice and my hair was so wonderful and femme.

I was shocked, euphoric, excited and amazed. The sexy girl looking back at me was me. I had dreamed of this moment for so long. Now they way I felt exceeded my wildest dreams.

I was nervous but insanely excited the first time out. That didn't change as I began getting bolder, more daring and going out more and more.

So even now after being out countless times, I'm still very nervous at first. Sometimes that nervousness makes me chicken out. but if I can get past that fear, it's usually and exciting or non eventful experience.

Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@pattyphose My wife sometimes says that I’ve become very brazen when wearing certain things out in public.

Reply
Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Posts: 2296

@cdashley I found that every time I would go out I would get a little bolder. From just driving around in the car to getting out and walking around near or with people to going into stores and browsing women's attire, to actually buying pantyhose, trying on and buying shoes, then every kind of women's clothes you can imagine.

Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@pattyphose I hear ya Patty. I took Monday off work and dressed in all women’s clothes, makeup and perfume and went shopping for clothes and then went and tried on a few pairs of heels . I find that now a days I don’t hide and do it but rather find a pair of heels I like , take the box and go sit down and try them in without a care in the world who sees me doing it. Plus I love when they see in wearing pantyhose under my skinny jeans.

Reply
Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Posts: 2296

@cdashley That's fantastic Ashley. I can so understand and relate to those feelings and experiences. Maybe not surprisingly, I became a CD so I could wear pantyhose and show off my legs in public. I figured if I looked like a female, with my sexy legs in pantyhose, nice breasts and pretty hair, I would look like a girl and feel like a girl. I wanted the feelings and experiences.

Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@pattyphose And such a great feeling.

Reply
Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Posts: 2296

@cdashley Oh my yes. The feelings and experiences far exceeded what they were in my dreams and fantasies. At times it was such a powerful of emotions, like some sort of intense orgasm of sorts.

Reply
Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
Posts: 159

@cdashley sounds like a wonderful experience which your wife thoroughly supports. I'm looking forward to hearing about your next outing.

Jamie

Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@jwhite It was a great experience and a special thanks to Amy Myers for making me feel so welcomed. I too look forward to more outings. And my wife had been amazing with this side of me and constantly encourages me to be out and make new cd friends.

Reply
Duchess
(@loneleycd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 2147

@cdashley So happy for you, Ashley. Glad you have the support of your wife. Hoping this breaks the ice and you can have regular adventures exploring the world as Ashley. 

 

Cassie 

Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@loneleycd thank you Cassie,  wife on board it such a big help. I hope I can get out more often as well.

Reply
Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3991

@cdashley Well done, Ashley! I hope to join everyone at Xpressions, some day.

Reply
Posts: 2095
Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

 Ashley -

Thank you for sharing, what a wonderful evening for you. Hope you have the opportunity to have more experiences like that.

XOXO
Suzanne

Reply
1 Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@cdsue Yes it was great and I do hope I can do it more often. Sure I get out for short shopping trips but to be out with the general public was super nice. All the people in the pub were super nice.

Reply
Posts: 16
(@cherisnylons)
Eminent Member     Anchorage, Alaska, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

I loved your story.  How fortunate you are to have a supportive wife, that even pushes you to expand your feminine self.  Your stories bring back memories when I was much younger, and I would go to a hotel in a different town, than I lived in.  Unfortunately, back then there was no internet, no supportive people that I knew and I was always alone, but the thrill was still there, taking a bath, shaving, then putting on the panties, bra, pantyhose make up, flared skirt, and blouse, and wig.  Now as I'm older, I wait anxiously for the few times, my wife travels, and I can spend the few days, getting dressed at home.  Reading stories like yours, keeps me inspired for my times alone, to be enfeme. 

Reply
1 Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@cherisnylons Thank you Cheri, your never to old to show your feminine side hun.

Reply
Posts: 232
Baroness Annual
(@conniech)
Reputable Member     Fairfax , Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

"...once again wife said “ just hold your head up and walk out there and get in the car. “. She was a big part of me going through with this event." ("She nearly pushed me out the door"👠) What an encouraging woman your wife is!! 🏆I know that you know that. Just emphasizing. 🌹

 

Reply
1 Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@conniech Yes Connie i am very fortunate to have her in my life and on board with my feminine side.

Reply
Posts: 3402
Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Another girl who has a wonderful partner Ashley. A lovely evening too, thank you for sharing.

Reply
1 Reply
(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@ab123 Angela I’m super lucky to have her on board with everything.

Reply

©[current-year] Crossdresser Heaven | Privacy Terms of Use | Link to usContact Vanessa | Advertise with Crossdresser Heaven

 
[kleo_social_icons]
Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Join our mailing list to receive the latest news and updates from Crossdresser Heaven.

You have Successfully Subscribed!