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A few days ago Stephanie spent a lovely afternoon baking with her wife. Stephanie used recipes from her mother who was a fantastic baker. The experience of baking as Stephanie made me feel that I really am my mother's daughter.
I was wondering what activities the other ladies at CDH participate in that make them fell that they are really their mother's daughter. Please let us know.
Hugs,
Stephanie
Does your wife know you CHD? How does she accept it? What support does she give you?
I sometimes sit in front of the telly chain smoking and swearing at anybody that leaves the door open.
(sorry couldn't resist)
Xxx
Krisy
My wife asked me to limit my time on the CDH website even though
I explained how safe and secure this site is. She is afraid of my male alter-ego being identified. So I only log on to this site a few times a week. Otherwise she does allow myself as Stephanie to bake with her every so often but even that is proving to be traumatic for her so I will need to limit my Stephanie time to when I am by myself for a few hours each week. Oh well, I will take what I can get.
I do sympathise, my wife is OK with me underdressing around the house now and then but I have to hide away in the bedroom if she around for anything more overt.
Xx
Krisy
This is an interesting concept and creates a lot of area for much thought. I don't think I have ever seen myself as anything more than my mother's oldest son. In fact, even now, I cannot perceive myself as my mother's daughter. I accepted my femininity is truly a part of who I am fairly recently and have only been exploring it as a dynamic of my personality for little less than a year. Perhaps, as I grow in understanding who I am, my thoughts on this area my change, but right now, being my mother's daughter is not part of the equation.
MacKenzie
Not a concept that I've ever even considered. My mom passed when I was 13 so I never had her guidance through my teen years
I'll have to think on this one for a while.
Jillian
I enjoy some of the things we used to do together, cooking in general, doing my house work and particularly my gardening, although the miserable old fart down the street called the cops on me one time for cutting my lawn wearing my Daisy Duke shorts and a tank top with sandals. He told them I was indecently exposed, the cops got a good laugh out of it when they showed up. LOL The most enjoyable thing I do like my Mom used to is sit in the garden with a nice cup of tea and read, it's just so peaceful and relaxing. Heather
Heather,
Like you, I enjoy activities around the home. Its funny, but vacuuming, sweeping and especially cleaning the kitchen is so satisfying when I am Stephanie. These activities allow me to experience my female self. Also like you, I enjoy just sitting on the back patio in the sunshine with my morning coffee and read. It is such a peaceful feeling to be outside as Stephanie and allows me to feel a feminine bonding with nature.
Hugs,
Stephanie
Dear Steph, being outside for some reason just makes me feel free, I guess it's from all the years of hiding and peeking through the drapes. I have a small pool in the back and I love to put on my bathing suit, a nice one piece, and just float around. You've just got to watch for the shoulder strap tan lines. My wife saw them one day ad told me to take my top down and get some even sun for a while. Whoops, we had a good laugh about that one.
Take care, LOL Heather.
I am my mother's daughter as well. I havlearned from her and she taught me well. I love her and she was attuned to my needs and wanted me to be happy with my own self as a part of the person who I am.
Hello and welcome Mom’s little girl Stephanie. It looks like your wife accepts you somewhat, as you were baking with her dressed. I understand her concern. It is up to you to make her understand you’re Stephanie side. Let her visit the site with you to see the chat, to ask questions. We all live different lives and all have our own story to tell. We are who we are. It’s the life we live and the road we travel .all are so nice here . Hope to see you in the chat room. Hugs Jennifer1
I too am my mother's daughter. I learned how to carry one's self as a woman will class and pride. My mother knew I wore her clothes but never said anything to me till one day I was seventeen and she asked me is I liked dressing as a woman. At first I said I didn't but I couldn't lie. Then one day she asked me since I was going to the prom at school if I wanted to experience a prom like experience. I didn't know how to answer. So her and her girlfriend gave me a complete makeover dress makeup the works. She took pictures and shared them years later with my wife.
I am very much in the same boat as MacKenzie in that even though I have accepted my feminine side, I can still never think of my self as my mother's daughter, only her only son. Maybe that is part of why I haven't told her, since I am her only child.
I actually think about this subject often. I think that when I do get the feeling of being a daughter I will have come a long way towards true acceptance.
Maybe we are the daughters they might have wanted.
