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My Turkey Day

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(@bren58)
Honorable Member     Apache Junction, Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Girls,
I have read the forum posts about other people's Thanksgiving Day experience, and I'm so happy that everyone had a good day, so I thought I would share my day with all of you.
First, the only family I have left is my 84 y//o Mother and my 64 y/o sister, both own homes in Arizona 15 minutes from me. However, because I came out as transgender my family wants NOTHING to do with me, so naturally I did not spend Thanksgiving Day with my blood relatives. Instead, my SO of 20+ years and I spent the day at home, cleaning the house. My dinner consisted of a bowl of Campbell's Bean and Bacon Soup and a Salad, which I must say, tasted very good.. We both got too pre-occupied around the house to find a restaurant open, and I did not feel like fighting the crowds. As I sat eating my soup and salad, my mind drifted to better times when I was young, and there was always plenty of relatives around on holidays. For a moment I began to feel sorry for myself because I don't have any blood relatives left....I felt very alone. But then, I remembered just how fortunate I really am!! Here I sit, living as a girl on HRT, doing electrolysis and I own a beautiful, feminine wardrobe. NO longer do I hide who I am, I am living and working as a woman with all of my freinds, co-workers and acquaintances, accepting me. Everyday, I live a life I could only dream about 30 to 40 years ago, a life as myself, who I am, not pretending to be someone I'm not. No longer do I wear clothing that feels wrong on my body, no longer do I participate in, and laugh at the ignorant jokes men often make about woman. I am finally FREE!! To be myself, everyday, for the rest of my life!! Yes, I still have a long way to go, as I have not done top or bottom surgery, and I am really looking forward to the day that I have the money saved for surgery! Things are not perfect, my health has not done well in 2019 and I still experience a lot of depression and anxiety stemming from my dysphoria. But I am finally on the right road and I feel and know that fact. I am much more feminine in my body movements and gesters, my voice feminization has come a long way, electrolysis has taken away a lot of un-wanted hair and I am comfortable and confident with myself, as a woman. With so many people struggling to get out of the closet, I feel so fortunate and thankful to have made so many accomplishments in such a short time. My dinner was so much better than sitting at the table with family members who sit across from me making remarks and giving looks I can do without!!

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!!! May your journey be a wonderful experience!!!

Big Hugs and Much Love, Breanna

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(@rubycd)
Reputable Member     Malvern, Arkansas, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

It’s sad that people can’t accept that everyone is different and can’t find the tolerance. Glad you had a great day as it was.
Hugs, Ruby

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(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Happy Thanksgiving Bren !

Hugs

Autumn

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