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Well I finally got out and about fully dressed as Clara on Saturday 7/12/24 it must of been back in January when I last got out, it has been a long year with my wife or SO as they are referred to on here having had a major ear infection that required 2 major surgeries and a lengthy course of at home IV antibiotics and now with on the mend the Male me Glenn felt it was time for some Clara time! This meant I finally got to try out my new a front closing butterfly bra well OMG my god with my breast forms it looked like I had real breasts and it was so comfortable, didn't even feel like I was wearing a bra! Rest of my out fit comprised of Knickers (obviously) pantyhose, girdle, cami, half slip, skirt, top and my new heels that are tad too big, so I will have or order a half size down, with my hair currently long enough I was able to get it into a little pony tail plus wearing my clip on ear rings. What a marvelous day, on the way home is where the firsts happened, at a previous stop I meant to put my legins on and take my skirt off as I had to go into the service station to get fuel but forgot, pulling into the servo I had no choice but to alight form the car dressed fully feme, put the fuel in the car and then go in and pay for it! Well I just did it, fuel in and when in and paid for it, no dramas from the person behind the counter but this argonaut woman came in behind demanding I hurry up and pay for my fuel so she could use the other side of the pump but nothing was said about my appearance. The next stop was further down the State where I stopped to get something to eat, I just went in and got what I wanted and left. I thought to my self well done Clara as that was the first time I had alighted from the car dressed feme around people. My confidence is not 100% there yet that I could go into a more public place with people around, but feel confident enough to do things like this at least.
Interesting story.
It seems that when pressed when dressed we just go on and about the business in hand.
One night while enfem. I stopped to refuel my car. Carefully getting out knees together. (Wearing a dress). A woman some distance away called out Ma'am. She mentioned something about her children. I think she wanted some money to get something to pacify them. I didn't speak to her, just shrugged me shoulders. That was enough to answer her question. Lol.
You gotta do what you gotta do to make the best of a situation!
Glad you're situation went well for you!
Fran 🥰
@kelgels Well done! That beats my driving and trips out. I always make sure the car has a lot of fuel before I drive en-femme. Apart from a couple of friends who know me as Anna, I keep away from people whilst out in the wild.
My confidence is not 100% there yet that I could go into a more public place with people around, but feel confident enough to do things like this at least.
If you felt comfortable being dressed en femme in close quarters, imagine your sense of freedom while surrounded by people who never even know that you exist (forest / trees)?
Go to a busy mall around Christmas time and see for yourself just how little people will notice you. I am struggling with how little people interact with me even when being face-to-face with someone. Very annoying. 🥴
Hey Clara,
Congratulations on a successful outing! Hope Clara gets another opportunity soon.
Alice
Some time ago, my wife was working away in London and was getting the train home. I was going to meet her at the local station. I was in Cerys mode. This was before I was out and open. I often used to get her from the satin in Cerys mode. No one would see.
My wife phoned to say she was on the train.
An hour later she told me that the train was faulty, and that it would be stopping at Bristol. She asked if I could meet her there. I looked at the clock and knew that I had to leave almost immediately if it were too get there in time. I agreed.
It was then I remembered that my car was low on charge. I only had 40 or so miles range left. No worries, I'll take my son's car. I got in his car only to find out had very little fuel in it. I HAD to stop and get petrol. So ten minutes later, there is was, in a miniskirt, boots, jumper and a nice furry jacket, putting petrol in at a local supermarket. The pay at pump option wasn't working, so if had to go in and pay. I went in, joined the queue. I'd had had no time to shave or put a face on before I'll left, so obviously male.
I paid for the fuel. The man behind the counter gave me a smile, but that was it. No one pointed. No one laughed. No one attacked me. Totally uneventful.
I got you the station just as my wife was coming out.
These days, I practically live as Cerys. No more nerves. No more worries. Quite often I forget that I'm presenting as a woman.
The confidence grows with every adventure!
Cerys
Thanks for the support folks. Just got to slowly build up to being around more people at a time when dressed. When I don't care what the service station attended or the Subway staff said after I left, I wasn't there to hear that. The day will come when I am out and about around people regardless as my confidence builds.
Well done you! First experiences are always exciting. The more positive experiences you have the your confidence builds. The more your confidence builds the more places you are anxious to try going to. There are few places I won’t go fully dressed now. Also, going out can be addictive! The you do it, the more you want to do it! Have fun and be careful!
I second the suggestion to go to a mall to do some shopping. I love wandering around, seeing who reacts or not (almost exclusively NO reactions!), the occasional smiles and “Ma’am” and of course TRYING ON CLOTHES!!! It is addictive!
