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I have a new gf and I was struggling with how and when to tell her about my panties. I thought I will tell her before we have sex the first time. We were making out and when we took a break she told me her secrets and I said I wear panties. She said ladies panties? I said yes and she asked if I was wearing them at the time and after I said yes she asked to see them. When I dropped my pants she said yep those are panties. She then said if you like them wear them. She is a keeper. She was happy I told her early on.
How nice!! I am glad your GF is supportive of your wearing panties
Well sweetie it sounds a positive start, wish you both well, and it all works out for you.
Lol Amanda xx
Good for you Jeannie! That is what we all dream of in a partner, open minded acceptance. I'm a bit jealous, does she have a like minded sister living in Ontario?? 😁
Yup, sounds like a keeper!!
Stevie
Jeannie...
Great idea to mention it early....problem now is, will she be borrowing yours????....haha.
well done, grace x
Thanks. I thought the time was right. So glad she immediately accepted the panties.
Stevie, she has a sister but she lives in Idaho.
We are not the same size so there will be no panty borrowing. Fun thing she said mine were nicer than hers so she would be panty shopping.😊
That's so nice.
Hugs, Liara
Glad she was accepting of the panties... Too bad far too many ladies are not accepting, will there be more sharing or do you just war panties....for now?
Thanks for sharing, Jeannie. It's great that you felt comfortable enough to share that early on with her and even better that she was accepting of it. Big first step for you both to accept each other as you each are.
-Chloé
I wish i had the courage to tell my wife early on that i like to wear women's clothes,
I think it's a little late in the day to tell her now, we have been married for 49 years and i think she would feel betrayed that i didn't tell her before we got married X
If we got divorced and i met someone else i would tell them before we started dating about me being a crossdresser then she could decide for herself if there was a future for us together,
Hugs Roz X
Panties are all I wear all the time. I have some dresses and skorts and some sleep shirts that I wear sometimes but if she has an issue with any more than panties I would happily give them up. She and I are so comparable that I plan on one day proposing. So if she is not ok with other clothes besides panties I will happily give them up. She is becoming very special to me. Date I say the word live?
Congratulations. I told my wife shortly after we first met. I too felt she was a keeper and wanted to be open from the start.
Good luck to you both.
Amy. xx
If you share a panty drawer, she’s a keeper!