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Palm Springs: no longer dressing and looking to purge

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Lady
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(@jennycdinps)
Eminent Member     Palm Springs, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hey Girls,

I am no longer dressing and am looking to purge all of my CD stuff. I have clothing, lingerie, shoes, hosiery, breast forms and so on.  Not sure where to post this but thought one of the new girls may want some stuff to get started.

I am 5'8" and 170lbs and shoe size is woman's 11.  So if you are close to my size email me to come see the stuff. I am in the Palm Springs area.

Thanks,

Jenny

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@jennycdinps 

Hi Jenny

I hope you don't mind, but as this wasn't a new member intro I've moved your thread to the 'General Chat - As Life Goes On' Forum.

We have lot of members in Palm Springs, so hopefully some of them will be in touch.

However I'm sure I won't be the only one to say, as you probably already know, purging is cyclic.

Although you're not dressing now you may well feel the need to do so again in the future. My advice is always the same; if you have a way of storing the clothes rather than giving them away then do it!

Hugs

Ellie x

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 1079

@ellyd22 Exactly

 

(...unless her shoe size was 12, in which case she should find some nice redhead to donate those to 😊 )

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@melodeescarlet 

Why ... do you know any nice redheads?

Jenny's shoe size is 11 though, so you might have to squish your toes up a bit.

Ellie x

 

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 1079

@ellyd22 😝

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Lady
(@jennycdinps)
Joined: 3 years ago

Eminent Member     Palm Springs, California, United States of America
Posts: 34

@ellyd22 

They are all open toe so no worries! LOL 

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Lady
(@jennycdinps)
Joined: 3 years ago

Eminent Member     Palm Springs, California, United States of America
Posts: 34

@ellyd22 

I understand, I was just looking to help out somebody just starting out. 😀 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@jennycdinps 

I know, and that's really considerate. But It's just that so many girls on the site will have been at the same point in the past ... and later wished that they'd kept hold of their things. Purging can seem like the only way forward at the time, but is later regretted as an expensive mistake.

Stick everything in the attic Bundle it all into bin bags and bury it in the desert*.

But, if you can help it, don't get rid of it 🙂

Ellie x

*Don't let the cops see you doing this.

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Lady
(@jennycdinps)
Joined: 3 years ago

Eminent Member     Palm Springs, California, United States of America
Posts: 34

@ellyd22 

This is my third and final purge.  I have regretted it in the past, but at this point in my life both the desire and the pleasure of dressing have been lost.

 The desert thing was very funny! 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@jennycdinps

Just so long as you don't mis-read it and bury everything in the dessert.

That's very bad advice.

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@ellyd22 

Not the sort of thing to trifle with.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@jacquelinelarkspur If I saw the cops coming, my legs would turn to jelly.

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@ellyd22 

In that case they'd have no problem catching you and taking you into custardy

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
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Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
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@jacquelinelarkspur I'd escape easily. Piece of cake.

 

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
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Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@ellyd22 

There might be lots and lots of cops. Maybe hundreds and thousands.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
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Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
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@jacquelinelarkspur Then again ... maybe just sprinkles.

 

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
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Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@ellyd22 

Now you're just pudding it on.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
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Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
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@jacquelinelarkspur When you said that ... did you think I'd crumble?

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
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Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@ellyd22 

That was part of the flan.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
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Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
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@jacquelinelarkspur You know ... this is a Rocky Road.

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Duchess
(@flatlander48)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Cathedral City, California, United States of America
Posts: 1470

@ellyd22 Yes. Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind is temporary.

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Guest
(@Anonymous 93795)
Joined: 1 year ago

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@flatlander48 very insightful…

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Lady
(@tiffany8)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Ontario, Canada
Posts: 119

@jennycdinps 

I purged all my stuff and DEEPLY regret it. Just letting you know

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Guest
(@Anonymous 93795)
Joined: 1 year ago

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@jennycdinps Don't purge . Do not get rid of half (or more of yourself). 

Your desires , whatever you feel at the moment will not leave you. They may go dormant for a while be it a week or a year. One thing is certain you will regret it and you will be in a worse state of mind. 

I've been there several times during my lifetime and regretted every one after the dust has settled . Whether its the whole lot, that fave pair of shoes or that dress that makes you feel so good you will miss them.

Pm me of you want to chat . 

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Lady
(@lillie)
Reputable Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Jenny, sorry to here. Wish I lived closer, we are very close to the same size.

 

Lynne

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Lady
(@jennycdinps)
Joined: 3 years ago

Eminent Member     Palm Springs, California, United States of America
Posts: 34

Thank you Lynne,

 Shipping the stuff would likely be expensive. 

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Lady
(@lillie)
Joined: 4 years ago

Reputable Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Posts: 210

@jennycdinps Yes it would.

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 Leah
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(@leah63)
Noble Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

I have some things that I do not wear or care for as well,  wish we had a good options to donate to anyone on here that would like them   hate bringing them to goodwill

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@leah63 Suggestions in the past are to donate unwanted clothes to good LGBTQ support groups.

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(@vermonta)
Eminent Member     Georgetown/Crescent City, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Don't do it, but as a last resort, I buy them, sell them on e-bay at a small profit after donating 10% to the IOLA foundation dba "It get better which supports young LGBTQs. 

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