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Hi ladies
it’s a bit of a sad one, not everyone story can have a happy ending where their SO embraces their partners choices.
I had a long talk with my SO last night. Essentially me being Amy is hurting her, causing her no end of stress, and is damaging the marriage. I can see no other options before me but to bring to an end my dressing at home. I might still try going out, it won’t be as frequent, but most of all, I can’t be rubbing the subject in her face. So being on websites like this one I feel is just too much. Who knows, sometime in the future when time has past, I may return. My SO may have come to terms with me having Amy in my life, if that does, this goth gurl will definitely be back.
But for now, Amy will be a part of me, just not visually or vocally.
My love to you all, may your journey be a positive one.
Amethyst 🖤🖤🖤
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Oh wow - I don't know where to begin to express my sadness at this turn of events.
Just remember, the hurt is not from your cross dressing, it's from her reaction to it, which will take time to come to terms with.
The pain is emotional, based on assumptions and shock - again, it is not caused by you.
It's not "rubbing it in her face" to want to be yourself and find out more about the subject.
It's the lack of education that causes the stress and suffering not the act or desire, which is not only intrinsically harmless, but the source of healing for so many of us.
Peace to you both.
Love Laura.
Best Wishes to you both I hope you can find an acceptance that's suits you both.
Love Sarah xx
So sorry to hear this, Amy,
I hope you get this message, your family will all be here for you,
Take care,sweet sister
Hugs, Regi👩💕
I'm so sad to read this. I wish you well and hope to see you again on here one day.
Bridgette
From one Amy to another Amy, I wish you well, and that you will be able to rejoin us here sometime. Take Care!
Amy
A black day, a blood day, a dark and sombre day 💣🔪⚰️🕳🖤🖤🖤🎵🎶♣️♠️🏴☠️🏴🌑🌚
I’m sorry for your loss! I know the tragedy of disavowal...
Keep the faith, Amethyst 🥀🔥🍄🧛🏼♀️
Polly ❤️