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- So my wife and I got a greeenhouse delivered to the house, and the installation seems like it will fall on Rebecca of course lol. As I was getting ready to start, I got dressed for the day. Knowing I’d be working hard and bending etc, decided I’d need more sturdy clothes of course. Finally decided on wearing some exercise high waist leggings, crop top exercise shirt and sports bra, cute socks. All of this is going under my drab yard work clothes of jeans and a coat, but still some underdressing. My thought was that this was just so casual and routine now, almost a sad feeling when the excitement of dressing becomes the norm isn’t it? Buuuut, last night I was able to try on a new dress I got, a really pretty long sleeve midi sweater dress with a plunging neck line (pics at some point). So I guess it’s just a more natural feeling when it’s just normal day to day? Even in day to day male dressing I only feel like a nice suit or something can make me feel excited about my outfit, so I can’t judge too harshly. Have a great day today ladies!
Know the feeling Rebecca. At some point as they say "the thrill is gone". However... why after a few days or a vacation away from her is it that we can't wait to toss those men clothes in the hamper and pull on panties and a bra. My ex said after noticing me readjusting my bra strap..."still like wearing a bra, honey?" She had a point, but I didn't burn my bra. I got a proper bra fitting and have worn my bras most days since. It's reassuring and reaffirmation and I can live with the occasional discomfort.
Women dress accordingly for the jobs they do and the heavy work needs heavy outer wear so you are no different.
Hi everybody; Several things here......
It's only natural that things become familiar. I mean, most people could go out right now, jump in a car and zoom off to somewhere exciting. But we don't, and that's because we have got so used to it that it's now no longer something exciting or special. In the same way I wonder if this might explain why lots of ladies find the level of interest that men have in their garmets to be strange and inexplicable. To them, because they are hugged up all day in their things, it actually borders on being boring. Sarah's point about wearing a bra was interesting. In the average household it's usually the man who does all the heavy jobs such as lifting and carrying and so on. So, logically he is the one who is actually more in NEED of a bra, -not the woman. In cases of marked Gynacomastia when heavy jobs are to be done it can actually be a great help to use a bra. The man is then the one whose breasts are swinging about and bouncing up and down, not the woman. It makes logical sense.
It's nice to feel cute, girly, sexy. It makes any boring task or event more interesting. I used to gladly vacuum the house wearing flats. I've done yard work underdressed. It makes it more interesting.
