Noticed Or Unnoticed/Stand Out Or Blend In

Hmm, good one Jackie, I'm going with a little bit of both. I like to look nice, so maybe someone will pass me a compliment but I don't want to be the centre of attention especially in a bad way, like some of the girls you see on the sleeve sites. [come on, we've all seen them] I was at a Christmas party years back and was wearing these really beautiful red suede boots with a white leather skirt and I had one women over the course of the evening trying to by them right off my feet. I let her try them on and she looked me very disappointed and said, no, they look way better on you. Probably on of the best feelings I've ever had. Still go to that same party every  year and she still always comes over to me and kids lets see what you're wearing this year that I can't wear. She's an extremely beautiful woman but she's short and doesn't have the legs for boots. I feel like saying to here, I'll give you my legs and all my boots and I get your hair and your boobs, she's hot.

Blend in

Guy or girl, I prefer to blend in. The difference is that in girl mode, I want to look nice doing it, while my guy side doesn't pay much attention.

While I will generally dress to blend in, I have definitely done things where I stand out.  It does depend on what I am doing and where I am going.

One time I attended a party in a hotel dressed in a fuchsia, ruffly quinceanera gown with a train, and wearing a tiara.  It was an event for CD/trans and supporters.  But I did have to walk through the parking lot and hotel lobby, and before the event, hung out with some friends in the hotel bar.

Other times my friend holds parties with themes, and I sometimes have fun with my outfits.  Some of them do stand out.  And sometimes literally.  Last month I went to a red, white and blue party wearing three petticoats, one each red, white and blue!

blend in

Blending in I would think is paramount at least for me anyways . There's enough to worry about by just being out there and putting undue attention on oneself certainly doesn't  help things . I try flying under the radar when possible so I can truly enjoy the experience with little or no issues.

Stephanie..

In guy mode I generally try to blend in as much as possible. And as a guy that's usually pretty easy.

But as a girl who is 6' 1" barefoot, I feel like I would have no choice but to stand out. I've met very few GGs close to my height.

It depends... hehe.

Oddly enough, given my 6'4" height, I mostly feel like I blend in. I dress conservatively, albeit with a tendency towards 3" heels whenever I can - except when going out, when I love to glam up to the 9s.

Luckily, I haven't turned it up to 11...

Love Laura

When I dress and go out I like to get noticed. It's flattering, exciting and a thrill and rush I can't get from anything else. On the downside thought, sometimes I get noticed and get attention from those I would rather not get attention from.

That's when I wish I wasn't dressed or dressed more blend in. Still the temptation most of the time is to stand out.

To blend into the crowd.

Rachel

I’m a blender inner!

Think I relax more if I’m not attracting attention, and if I’m relaxed, I can just be me and enjoy being out as I want to be. It is nice if interacting with others to get positive and accepting attention, but don’t go out of my way to attract it.

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B

I would like to say that Ibtry to blend in.  And with respect that I wear the clothes the fit the occasion and a woman of my age, I do just that.  However, as I usually make no effort to present as a woman, I am sure that I do stand out.

MacKenzie Alexandra

Personally I truly feel it qualifies you and elects you to fit perfect in the unique position. Who really cares what someone else thinks or says behind your back. It's your life and prerogative to live it the way you choose or was meant to, Unless you are trying to direct how someone else lives!

<p>I tend to try very hard to blend in when out en femme. That is the whole idea for me.</p>