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Hi Ladies.
I was wondering with the cost of crossdressing/dressing full time does the amount of clothing, makeup, wigs, and all the accessories matter to how much quantity or minimum purchases you make?
The real issue of this question is do you purchase a girdle, panty, hosiery, garter belt, half slip, and camisole (the quantity), or instead by a panty and pantyhose and forego the other articles of undergarments mentioned above (minimum purchase)?
Does time constraints or the ability for how long you have to feminized yourself go into your decision?
Does your favorite decade of fashion reflect in your decision in the numbers game?
Does money come into your decision, and/or where you purchase your female clothing make a difference for the number of articles you purchase and wear when you get into your female mode?
So ladies, what is your preference(s) on this question - what say you?
Hugs,
Brandi XOXOXO
Brandi, a interesting, and yet a personal topic.. when I dress all the intimates are included with the addition of shapewear. My purchase criteria is within budget and must be “on sale”. Although retired my part time job helps pay for my feminine wardrobe lol.. Leonara 🌹
Brandi,
Most of my clothing comes from thrift stores. I have bought a few items at retail store but only things that were on sale. All my wigs are from Paula Young and all were less than $100. If I were more full time I would get something of higher quality or grow my hair out.
Kerri
Oh gosh Brandi. It depends on budget and how much clothing you need due to circumstances and opportunities. It could be enough essentials to enjoy a quick moment in private or enough to have a few changes of look.
I used to buy cheap when beginning as it gave me an idea of what my look should be. As I progressed more expensive purchases were made knowing my size and style.
As the opportunities grew so did the range. I am a 'careful' shopper looking out for bargains and what I need. However there are so many bargains out there and needs become wants so my wardrobe is full.
Yes I am lucky to have spare income to spend on my wardrobe as there is little need for any mens clothes as they last for years and no fashion sense required as there are no 'wants' just needs, I'm sure you know what I mean...
For myself, I wouldn't qualify my wardrobe as "extensive", though it's all relative. I don't spend too much on any one piece because I go out 3-5x/month and so things get worn a couple of times/year.
I think I paid ~$160 for my gown and ~$90 for my knee boots - but those were splurges.
I think everyone finds their own comfort level 😉
Brandi =
First, for fashion sense I like the 50's early 60's housewife look but really anything in dresses, skirt/blouse combos. I do have jeans, slacks, leggings and capris which I wear on occasion.
Second, as to time, I don't have much time to dress but do try and dress every day in the early morning (especially when I am on here). As a result I am able to wear bra, panties, sometimes pantyhose or tights, and a dress or skirt/blouse combo. On occasion a pair of leggings with a top on cold mornings (makes it easier to slip on sweatpants over them for warmth to take the dog for a walk). As a result I don't do make up or put on a wig.
Third, wardrobe is a combination of thrift store purchases, items bought in a store or catalog (online) and items given to me by my wife that she no longer wears. I have 2 wigs that I purchased from Paula Young for less than $100 which work well for me as I only dress at home. One of them (a shorter one) would probably work for going out if I were able to do that.
Overall I have a pretty good wardrobe but what girl couldn't or wouldn't want more. Since starting to shop at Thrift Stores I find it to be enjoyable. So much to choose from (clothes, but also shoes, jewelry, handbags/purses) and the prices are great. Considering I still have to have a drab wardrobe there isn't too much in the budget for Suzanne so careful shopping is important.
XOXO
Suzanne
Hi Brandi, I'll wear anything that I think that I look good in and my shape rarely changes. I will shop at Kohl's, Macy's, Posh and high and low end resale for key items that I think would really work for me. I can usually get ready for almost any event in about a half hour and my wardrobe reflects that. I will also recut, dye and alter items to make a perfect fit and presentation. I have a few undergarments, makeup and shoes that are stable pieces but most of my $ goes to out and about or daily wear and I'll just buy what I need. I'm out and open so my clothes get a good yearly workout. The glam stuff is for weekends and is treated carefully so that it lasts long and is ready for another fun time. Unless somebody has x-ray vision they really won't know if my underthings are 1 or 5 years old. I hope that helps, Marg
Brandi,
I keep a well-balanced wardrobe that reflects my personal style more than it does fashion.
Expense wise, I shop thrift stores, Amazon, Shein, Temu, Torrid, as well as local stores in my area. As any girl, I watch for clearance and sales.
One does not have to spend huge amounts of money to look beautiful. Although I know a few girls who buy only from high-end expensive brand name stores only. Walmart sells Covergirl and Mabelline cosmetics for far less than most items sold at Ulta and Sepphora, but I do shop for high-end cosmetics too, as needed.
I think it all depends on personal preference and experience. Moreover, some girls are satisfied wearing a dress and wig, while others want to look as effeminate as possible.