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God knows I've objectified my fair share of women. I've looked at them, I hope, more like pieces of art than a piece of meat, but it's still objectifying.
I was driving the other day, when I saw a drop dead GORGEOUS young woman walking down the street. I mean, jaw dropping hot. She had curly blonde hair, petite build and was wearing a tiny blue top and tiny matching blue skirt. And you know the only think I could think about, OMG, I LOVE HER OUTFIT! I wish *I* could be wearing that and walking down the sidewalk.
Funny how our perspective changes once we let our femme side out (or take over 🙂 )
*kisses* tara 🙂
I think about the outfit, and think not just that is love to have the outfit, but wish I could look as good in the outfit. Sometimes I look and say to myself "girl, what were you thinkin?" Still other times I look and wonder "wow, I'll never be able to pull that off without a major changes in diet, and a couple surgeries. I suppose that's still objectification though. I guess I can't help myself.
Can't stop lookin Bridgette
I find myself doing much the same thing. I admire her for her loveliness, her outfit, and then wish I had a beautiful feminine body like she does!
Amy
This is why I like this site so much. I saw a very attractive woman in the grocery store the other day and my first thought was "I would love to wear that outfit and I think I could pull it off." lol.
I feel much the same way Tara. I'm not sure if it is objectifying them as it is admiring them. Since Covid I have especially been focusing on eyes..... I think women and especially the younger women seem to be watching the same makeup videos that I have and have perfected really sexy eyeliner looks. I wouldn't even attempt some of the different eyeliner hacks that I have watched but really enjoy seeing a girl who has perfected her look.
I've began watching my wife's soap operas with her, but my focus is on their wardrobes: how I like/dislike them and whether I could wear them.
To be clear, I know I was NOT objectifying her. I was definitely admiring her style and beauty, but I wasn't objectifying her and that was my point. Before I let me femme side (mostly) take over, I WOULD have been objectifying her, but not anymore.
I totally agree with the other gals that have already posted in that I see women in an entirely new light. When I watch the news, what am I looking at? How they did their eye shadow and their hair. If I see a pretty girl out in public, I'm watching her movements and seeing if I can get any tips that or her style. And, like Bridgette said, there are DEFINITELY, Girl, what were you thinking moments!
Letting my femme side out has actually made me a BETTER and more well rounded person! As I've heard many say, I wish it hadn't taken me this long to come to this conclusion!
*kisses* tara 🙂
Tara Jeane.
Good morning....
Reading the replies already, I can see I'm not alone....I'm looking all the time, whether it's for clothes, shoes, makeup or hair tips...
I have some very pretty women who pass my flat on their way into town each day. It never fails to amaze me the different looks and styles the same girl can achieve each trip
I think it's quite humourous the difference between the staring " he - man" who fancies her body.........
.....and the staring " she - man" who fancies her look and her clothes!!!
Grace xx
My body just burn inside when I see a hot woman. At that moment I just want to be like the alien dude in a horror movie and to take over her body for myself.
The first thing that I notice about a woman is her hair. My thoughts are, can my hair look like that. I then notice her makeup then clothes.
Lol, I do the same, Tara, checking their makeup, their clothes, and their movements. What a difference being Femme has made in me.
Hugs, Regi👸💕
Reading all the replies and the post unbelievable how many of us feel the same way. I work in retail and I seen a lot if ladies come and go I don't know if it's jealousy Envy when my female self coming out. But I say the same thing if I can only wear that but one lady had a nice tunic top on one day and I really loved it I wanted so bad to ask her where she got it
Well I don't need to say anything. For the most part I agree with all of you. But Any hit the nail on the head for me.
Hi Tara When I see a beautiful now I say to my self I would give anything to look like that just for a day. Now it has to be permanently. I would only get depressed when that day was up, It is just not fair.
Luv Stephanie
I think we're all guilty of it. I was out yesterday at Walmart, and saw several women wearing clothes I'd love to be seen in. But, unfortunately, I was unable to do anything further than a glance as my wife was with me.
