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What a fantastic day!
It may seem a very small thing to some, but my wife told me that she really, really liked my dress, and that it's the sort of dress she would like to wear.
There's background that I won't go all the way into, but long story short, she is not the accepting type, more the putting up, out of sight, out of mind type.
She worked from home today - which, being a Friday, is my usual Laura time, so I was a bit put out, and bursting to dress.
To start today off, she gave me 2 dresses to take to the dry cleaners. Lovely, silky dresses that she and my daughter wore to a friend's wedding at the weekend.
Haveing my own wardrobe, I can resist the urge to try on my wife's clothing, and would NEVER try on my daughter's - but the feel was too much! Laura had to have her time.
So the moment my wife jumped into her bath, I put on my silkiest black dress, and proceeded to do the housework (with a nice pinny, of course).
She surprised me by coming into the kitchen and talking to me perfectly normally, then followed me as I went out of the room to fetch some things.
As she turned to go upstairs, she looked at me and complimented my dress in no uncertain terms.
Yes, I realise she wasn't complimenting me in it, but the feeling was the same - a massive rush of joy and deep love for her.
It was a real OMG moment - do you have similar?
I have had a few similar moments. In my wife's case, it has often been her comments how it feels normal to be folding only panties with the laundry. Or perhaps, the time she commented how surprised she was at the style of dress that I was wearing. Apparently, she hadn't thought it would be a style that would appeal to me. In each case, I embrace the growth in understanding this dynamic in our relationship.
MacKenzie Alexandra
We were dress shopping in a relatively quiet mall on Black Friday, and it was such a joy to allow myself to be interested, and to admire the garments without asking for the BHC (Bored Husband Chair). 😊
Donna - that never seem to get old - no BHC for me either, as I love shopping now that I can relax and enjoy it instead of worrying that my wife might suspect something!
She will also ask me for my opinion, as she is becoming more aware of our different tastes - and where those tastes overlap. It doesn't mean she necessarily acts on my opinion of course, but it's an open communication channel that feels very feminine.
It's moments like these that bring us closer together - and if it wasn't for my being CD, they just wouldn't happen.
I'm happy that you are experiencing this too!
Hi Laura, love the post, a real feel good story.
I don't have any omg but 2 smaller ones. Wife commented how nice and soft my favourite bra is (even the band is supersoft). 30 mins later she offered me her old boob tubes she doesnt want as she wont wear them. (I have not actually been given them she probably already forgotton).
Maria, thank you for your kind words.
That sounds OMG to me; My wife has occasionally put some of her clothes on me, which is reaally amazing - but to be offered some of her clothing, or have clothes bought for or with me are moments I look forward to!
The slow journey certainly has benefits - and it's the company that makes the difference, turning simple moments into enchanting experiences.
I think these moments are well worth sharing, as they may help inspire others.
Hope there's plenty more to enjoy on your shared journey. Things like this help me through the tough times.
Love
Laura