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Hi girlfriends.
It’s been a month now since I started dressing and I just wanted to share with you all my feelings at this point.
In summary, I feel amazing! 🙂
Due to restrictions at home, I get to dress about 4 times a week on average. Wife doesn’t know and I guess I held off for a few reasons. One, I wanted to make sure that dressing would make me as happy as I thought it would or if it was all in my head - this one checked off for sure! Two, every relationship and situation is different and I (hope) know wife well enough to know the best approach to something like this - take things slowly. Three, telling her (and everyone else for that matter) is scary as hell, right?
The more I dress, the more it makes me happy and the more clothes, make up and shoes I want and I know the collection will very quickly outgrow the back of the drawer where they are right now so I am under no illusion that I need to tell wife. Even more than that, I want her to be part of it in as many or as few ways as she wants.
This forum has been an absolute rock! It’s so amazing to have somewhere that I can chat, express feelings and talk 100% openly without fear of judgement, ridicule or a savage roasting. I feel so loved and welcomed by everyone so I truly thank you for that.
Of course, as time goes on I’d like to be en femme as much as I possibly can and maybe even have a little outing early morning/late evening come the warmer months but it’s dependant on how it goes with wife. I guess at the very least, I’ll always have the 8 hours she’s at work and, as the world begins to open up again, the holidays she has with her friends twice a year. Everything else is a welcome bonus and the fully dolled up day will come.
Sorry, didn’t mean this be a deep and meaningful, more of a ‘after a month, I’m happier than I’ve been in some considerable time’. I’m writing this in a pink bra and panties with black lace and cotton Y top and emerald green sequin mini skirt and ankle heel boots. Yes none of it ‘goes’ but I’m smiling sooooo much 🙂
Love and hugs to you all.
Rachel X
t's wonderful to read of your happiness, Rachel, and once you bring your SO in on it, it just gets so much better. I hope all goes as well for you, as it has for me
Hugs, Regi
Rachel
Love your reflection. Well stated and totally agree.
Hugs
Averyl
Congratulations Rachel, really refreshing to read how happy you are dressing en - femme. My only advice is to take it slowly and not get to carried away with the euphoria of your new passion, you have or could have some delicate situations to deal with coming up. Just take a little more time to make sure this is the route you want to under take especially with your SO. Wish you all the best with love Amanda xx
Rachel.
It's so lovely to hear stories like yours, it certainly cheers everyone up, bringing hope and a boost to the " newbies" and fond memories and a wry smile to us " more experienced" girls...as Amanda has said, take it slowly, remember, this is massive for you, but it's also going to be massive for your wife!!!...
....in the meantime, never worry that your limited resources " don't go together", it's how it makes you feel that counts...at this moment it's not a fashion show, it's just getting Rachel used to the " feel", physically and mentally.....
one word of warning.....you will not believe how quickly your wardrobe will grow....."back of the drawer"!!!...are you in for a shock, haha..
Good luck honey, grace x
Thank you for sharing! I love fun stories!
-SR-
Rachel
Thank you for sharing your story and happiness.
Jessica
