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[Closed] One step at a time

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As I reflect on my progression I'm gratified at how much I have accomplished this year.  Especially with acquiring clothes that fit.  For some time, I've had 29 pair of panties - that fit!  Today I counted 35.  I guess I must have been browsing and saw a few things, and tacked them onto an order.  Then my bras - 10 pair so far, and I'd say 8 have a good fit.  Good enough to wear for 12-18 hours.  Next was added a garter belt, stockings, pantyhose, and shoes.  Luckily (and from prior years with sizing experience before purging it all) everything fit!  After that came tops, and while a couple of camisoles were a no-go, I found a stretchy satin t-shirt and a casual polo shirt.  In the ensuing weeks and month a skirt was added.

But I still was lacking a genuine everyday blouse which I could wear without being obvious.  Until today.  First try was too small, so two days ago I ordered the next size up.  Today I brought the small one to the UPS store, came home, and found on my doorstep my two new blouses in the right size.  Tomorrow, It will be my first day out - mostly in stealth mode.  With Panties, an A-cup underwire bra, knee-high socks, slacks, and one of my new blouses.  Here in Wisconsin I can slip into my winter coat when I'm out and I will be able to secretly revel in my femininity.

Considering how much time I can actually be able to be out and about, my wardrobe is "pretty good."

Tonight I'm relaxing at home and suddenly was aware that I am taking on the body language and mannerisms of a woman, from the way I prepare my skirt to sit down, how I walk/strut without having to think about it, how I cross my legs, even how I sip a cup of tea.

So many of you have welcomed me warmly and affirmingly, and you are inspiring me with your comments and your photos to achieve more.  So my next goal is to research, learn about, and buy makeup so that I can eventually add a photo of a gorgeous woman.

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@gina2923 very inspiring!

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Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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Posted by: @Anonymous 94392

But I still was lacking a genuine everyday blouse which I could wear without being obvious.  

Angela has it right. Keep going.

I too need to find more stealthy, androgynous women's tops. I ask my wife to keep an eye out for something, too, since she shops all of the time, but she hasn't been any help.

 

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Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@gina2923 

It's good to hear of your progress, Gina. And I'm glad we've been able to help you in your journey. Support and sisterhood is what CDH is all about!

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Honorable Member     Tucson, Arizona, United States of America
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@gina2923 

I would mostly go dressed to my therapy sessions and she told me that I had developed many of the mannerisms of a woman.

Gina, it made my day.

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Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
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It is a wonderful time finding femininity and knowing where you wan to be. Keep going and enjoy every moment.

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Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
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Gina -

How wonderful for you. It is a journey and yours sounds amazing. It is fun shopping for what we need and want. It is exciting when something new is added.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Famed Member     New York, United States of America
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Enjoy the journey Gina!

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