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I just adding to see if any one likes to share but I read a lot of wonderful articles and forms here but what I haven’t seen is what dose everyone do outside of crossdressing hobbies sports maybe nothing I haven’t a clue myself I greatly enjoy working on 18 wheelers golf with my buddy’s more so see who can drink the most and chase the golf balls around or loose also enjoy the great outdoors hunting fishing as much as I like to say we all would enjoy doing these hobbies dressed but unfortunately due to being a closeted dresser not going to happen I just curious and figured be a fun form if ya like to share your hobbies outside of crossdressing If not no worries understand TC all
@erinb I was trained as a band director and now retired after teaching for only 15 years. Prior to teaching I worked in business and it was my hobby. Nowadays I work on my house and outbuildings, looking for things I could upgrade and improve the values. Jacked up an outbuilding 2 years ago to give it a new foundation, added drywall the the detached garage. Modified/updated the HVAC system in my house. Rehabbed the plumbing drainage system to replace cast iron sewer pipe with PVC. Cleaned up the cobbled mess of electrical wiring in the garage and added 220V for an EV simply because it might increase the value of the place.
I also very much love to travel throughout the Dakotas, Montana, & Wyoming. I picked up a Sienna and made it very much ready for long trips. Obtained a life pass to National Parks and I'm ready now to do some exploring.
Dani
@danikiss22 wow can ya come to Ohio I need some work done to my place busy busy I should say them areas I hear as truly amazing and beautiful to adventure to I would love to do that myself hopefully you able to thanks for the reply
@erinb Knowing how to do those tasks, and having the ambition to do them must come from my childhood. "No choice. It's got to be done," I say to myself. Just like as a 5th grader our house had a bad septic system, but my father stood there, pointed, and told me, "You're going to take that toilet out to the back yard and clean it all out." No help. No instruction. That abusive guy, you did what you were told. "It's got to be done.. no choice." But today my projects make the place more valuable, like making money if I sell. I bought an 8x10 WWII wall tent off my first boss in 1979, had the corners repaired and its good as new. After all these rears I still have it. I want to set up somewhere for a few days. That's my new adventure goal.
Dani
@danikiss22 understood the childhood indeed do as your told or get the belt that would be a fun adventure for sure
@danikiss22 as a musician, we have similars tastes , it would be good have a meeting in one of the events of crossdressing if we assist them and play some instrumental pieces with my traverse flute and one piano would be awesome!!!
Also I like to make inventions, I have my own power supply with a some battery banks and inverters ve electricity when blackouts happen.
Regards
Odeth
@erinb Erin, this is a great topic you bring up. I get the point about being able to dress while doing other hobbies. My interests outside of science, which is the hobby that brings in the money so I can buy dresses and heels and lingerie, I draw and read, both of which I do whilst dress. I read a very wide variety of books…history, politics, art, religion, psychology but also lots of fiction. I also love exercising and as I have a home gym, that too can be done while dressed in tight gym skirts and bras. I love visiting musea and art galleries, but sadly I am only underdressed for these trips. In my younger days I was quite sporty, playing a range of team and individual sports, but only the table tennis remains, sadly no longer competitively, and since I use a table tennis robot (at home) that too can be done dressed in female sports clothing.
As old age creeps up, I find it increasingly pleasant to sit in cafes, sipping coffee, nibbling a french croissant, reading a book and watching the world go by….roll-on retirement, so I can do more of this!
Hugs Christine
@christineth thanks for the reply unfortunately age creeps up fast and time goes by so fast anymore but sounds like lovely time indeed you got going on
@erinb Hi my dear
I would say that besides the crossdressing, I enjoy a lot play music!!!
I'm a musician , I started very early at the age of 12 years, first with the harmonica , later with the flute, guitar and electronic keyboard.
Basically I can play any instrument I use, I think is like my super power, I am a fast learning in almost all the fields.
Reading it another of my passions.
I started at very early maybe 6 years old, but once I started , never stopped me, I love the maths books, as well as the science, astronomy, Physics, Quantum Mechanics, And science fiction, Isaac Asimov was my favorites, after that I liked the stories of Jean Pierre Andrepov, Jules Verne, Alexander Dumas, Rabelais, Dante Alighieri, Voltaire to etc.
Also I love learn new languages, actually I'm learning mandarin, Urdu and French. Later will follow with German and Russian.
In sports I like volleyball, I am an average player and love playing at the beach.
- Chess is another sport I like and when I have the chance I play with my ex college classmates.
- Numismatic I have started many times, collects coins and currencies of all cover the world but always something's happen and I lose all.
Finally I love ,love the puzzles!!
My first Rubik cube I got at the age of 12, and in one year I have figure out my own method to assemble it. My record never was close to the world records but I feel happy to know that I have my own way to crack the 3x3 Rubik cube in 45 seconds.
Kisses to all
Odeth
@lujan2099 Amazon to have that music talent tuff to learn I say you indeed have some Amazon hobbies thanks for sharing
@lujan2099 Hi Odeth!
I gave the rubik's cube to my dad for a Christmas present. I had to wait until he gave up on it before I could use it. I think it took me close to 18 months to figure it out. I think I was 14
Hugs,
Autumn
Hey !!!
That sounds me like we are sisters with same skills, for me that times were more exciting and valuables, in that time we didn't have internet or cellphones, less computer!!!
Now there are a huge quantity of information to how to assemble not just the 3x3, also the rest of the family puzzles, the piramix, 4x4, 5x5, etc.
But for me it is more like a 1rst prize Winner create or figured out our own way to assemble it instead of read a step by step Friedrich method manual.
Kisses and hugs
Odeth
@lujan2099 so true unfortunately I wish they made a manual lol 😆 i honestly tried so many times and could never figure it out
@erinb Hi Erin
- As far as I know there are a step by step even in YouTube, sadly it is threat, many of the step by step Always forget that there are at least 16 variants for assemble it and the steps change for each case.
- Mine method only has 4 variants and take maybe 30 seconds or less to assemble it, I cannot reduce my time by a lack of my handling, I have a speed cube a Dayan brand for competition, but my hands are not faster enough, probably the limit in my method could be 15-20 seconds, maybe 10 in hands of a skilled master Rubik assembler.
@lujan2099 wow 😮 that’s very interesting and impressive indeed do you actually do competition or just fun
@erinb I do just for fun, I haven't have competition but locally the records are from 12 seconds!!!
Muy own records is 48 seconds, I haven't got reduce it and I think it is my limit in my handling, perhaps I could reduce a little , but not so much as 12 seconds!!! Gosh!!!! these records are made it by teenagers , they have been practicing many years on that and they have the youth at their side!!!
@lujan2099 I gave my dad the Pyraminx later. He was happy he could do that one. I did pryraminx, 3x3, 4x4, 5x5, and the 12 sided one. The 12 sided one was only a few years ago. The funny thing is the one I can't do is a 3x3 cube with photographs on it. It always works out that when it is solved there are always 2 sides where the center of the photo isn't lined up right.
@augustvaliant I have seen that problem before....I had once a Rubik with images, and with my method is not as complicated, because that is the first step for starting, align the centers, ones I have the centers, I start to make the whole corners at the same time!!! it took me a little while figure it out but once you have all centers and corners , the rest is pretty easy !!!
@erinb outside of crossdressing, I an avid triathlete and compete in Ironman triathlons. I am also into overlanding. My male and female couldn’t be further apartz
@saleena79
Same with me on the Ironman events, although calling it “compete” is probably pushing it a bit for me. I’m happy just to finish without a trip to the medical tent 🙂
@erinb Such an interesting question and fascinating to read everyone's interests outside of dressing. following a long career in commercial design (Product, Interiors, Architecture) I continue to design my own furniture, do a lot of renovation projects and landscape/gardening. My main focus at the moment is making art (which has always been a passion), learning how to sew and make something unique. And vintage/thrift shopping for clothes and accessories ( a new passion!)
Evie
@3s3eve great hobbies there as well and must say some very talented hobbies amazing thank you for sharing
I have a lot of interests and irons in the fire.
First wheels, Trucks allsizes, cars preferably old trains and planes.
Like the old saying. If God wanted man to fly. He would have given him lots of money 💰 and understanding wives!
I'm currently working on my Funmover super C camper. It has a 10' garage in back with a power lift gate and roll up door. I'm remodeling it. I call The Hen House.
I also have a '68 Camaro bracket car that I have drag raced.
Also on the list is a couple of motorcycles and a 3 wheeler named T-Rex.
I'm a retired aircraft structural repair mechanic. I hold a private pilot license. But haven't flown in many years. Would love to fly enfem!
Years ago a woman named Shirley Sahann. Went by the name Dragon Lady. Drag raced wearing gogo boots and a mini skirt. All while shifting a 4 speed manual transmission. What a gal!
Fran 🥰
@gafran Wow, I used to have a 55 Chevy gasser that I raced at the old Detroit drag way. Still have my private license but haven’t gone in years. I’m into sailing now, have sailed em femme.
@shawndyglitterfiend always like seeing the old gasses don’t see them much today
There making a comeback. There's a '55 Ford called Scarelane on u tube. That's bad A** complete with a older hottie backup girl.
Every June around Father's day at Bowling Green Kentucky. There's a 3 day nostalgia race with old dragster's, funny cars, passers and pro stock races. Plus a Saturday night cackle fest! Car show and swap meet. It's held at Beach bend raceway.
Fran 🥰
@gafran fun facts indeed also seen on YouTube people build pro mods street legal there insane
@gafran I’ve been to Woodward dream cruise a couple times, too much traffic. Big block kept overheating sitting still in 90 degree heat.
Hot Rods,
Don't like idling in traffic.
I was a long hauler in the 2021 Hot Rod Power Tour. About 3,500 sorted cars and trucks. A regular rolling car show. A definite bucket list item! 🥰
@gafran especially a big block with a big lobe cam and 2 4 barrels with a blower lol my dream engine lol 😂
@shawndyglitterfiend that’s definitely not good not sure on what type of cooling system being ran but most swap over to electric fans for that reason
@erinb I had a 4 core, electric fans, it just didn’t like sitting still in that kind of heat. I had a 69 Deville that I put in a bored and stroked 500 Eldarado. Had a local speed shop make a dual qual intake that sat under the hood, headers. Was running high 12’s low 13’s in a 1 removed link
I had a chance to buy a '55 Belair when I was 15. It was set up as a gasser with straight front axle, fiberglass tilt front end. Painted in Dodge color Plum Crazy. Three hundred dollars. My dad wouldn't let me get it because it was a roller. He said it doesn't have an engine.
I've got my complex time in a T-34 Mentor. I had belonged to and worked on our local Air Force bases aeroclub. It was an A model serial number 08 1952 1-6 were dismantled by the manufacturer Beechcraft. Nobody knew the whereabouts of number 7.
One of the Dumb A** club managers traded it for a twin engine. Last known residents of number 8 was Hanscom, AFB .
Fran 🥰
@gafran wow wish I could find one today for 300 with no engine lol classic cars today are insane
Wow, those were the days!
When I was a kid I lived in New Jersey and frequented Atco and English Town.
Both are sadly gone now. Used for storing salvage cars. Yuck 🤮
The Atlanta dragway which held the Southern Nationals for 40 years is now filled with condos and other housing for an electric car battery manufacturer. Yuck again!
Save the strips!
Fran 🥰
@gafran wow I definitely say your staying busy gota a nice collection I definitely would have like to seen dragon lady impressive
Shirley was quite a hottie in her day. So was Linda Vaughn, the Hurst Golden Shifter Girl.
Fran 🥰
I used to attend 3 NHRA National events every year. Now I just attend the Gator Nationals. I could attend 3 races years ago for the price of one race today! 🥰
At Gators we are in TEC Top Eliminator Club. It's a 4 day ticket package. Stands angled on the pit side starting line with seat backs. Jumbo screen across from us.
Our on bathrooms, enclosed area for eating. Catered meals on Saturday and Sunday. Drinks too. 2 Coke or 2 beers per day. A TEC exclusive event hat. Event pin event program book. Our own parking area and a mini Nitro Mall. Not cheap but when you figure the price of eating and drinking and seating. It works out. So 450. Dollars isn't so bad! It's like a mini vacation with sound! Lol 🥰
@gafran indeed early this year at the stripe it was 6 dollars a beer for 12 oz can so no that’s not bad at all
A year or so ago. My friend Rus and I went for a ride in his '55 Belair sport. Powered by a '57 392 Chyrsler Hemi. Burning regular fuel. 2X4 Barrel carburetors. On a deserted country road we stopped and he opened the exhaust cutouts. Stomped the gas and off we went! I felt like a teenager again! Shades of the old days! 🥰
@gafran that’s awesome 🤩 get 2 4 barrels to work properly takes some talent I say cut outs I haven’t seen since in grade school at the vacatinal school the auto teacher had them on his grand national
@gafran I would love to go old school just price of them today plus parts my favorite are a T-bucket love to build with a big block 57 Chevy 2 door again big block lol 67 chevelle definitely big block lol many others I can go on forever lol but by fare my most favorite dream car be a 67 stingray with a 427
Speaking of a T- bucket. Probably 30 years ago give or take. I was offered a deal on a small block Chevy T- bucket, open trailer and a late '70's Suburban for 10K.
The one I really kick my butt over is about 10 years before that. A red with a black convertible top and interior. '68 Shelby GT 500 KR 428 2X4's automatic. 10K.
Just a money poor dude back then. Heck a Detomaso Pantera was 10K, new in the early '70's 🥰
@gafran crazy of the what if’s should have bought could have bought back then and if you still had them today the value of them who knew a car in late 60 be worth 1/4 million today
Your so right there girl.
I wish I could find my first car. It was a '70 Boss 302 Mustang. Medium Metalic blue one of 400 that color. 4:30 Detroit locker rear gear. Drag pac. Came with an engine oil cooler. Shaker hood, magnum 500 wheels, close ratio 4 speed with a factory installed Hurst T handle shifter and a folding rear seat. I offen wonder what happened, to it. 🥰
@gafran that definitely would be a nice ride hopefully in a garage sadly most probably didn’t make it
Like the Daytonas and super birds if there around big money cars I personally never seen one on the road
I knew anything guy who owned a 440 powered Superbird. And another who had a Daytona with a dealer installed 6 pack on his 440.
I once passed a used car lot in Nashville Tennessee. There must have been a dozen winged cars on that lot. This was in the later '70's. It was late at night when I spotted them. Sadly I never went back to check them out during the day! 🥰
@gafran that would have been something to see my dad told me story about seeing the AC cobra he said that is one sound you will never forget
A 1963 movie staring Steve McQueen and Jackie Gleason called Solider in the rain. Has a scene where Steve's character is eyeing a Cobra in a parking lot. An officer gets in it and fires it up. Sounded sooo good! I would have loved to play that part for free! 🥰
@gafran would have love to seen what Ken Miles could have done for Shelby unfortunate accident least he passed in what he loved doing
It's amazing how great talented people can attract other great talented people!
My second grade teacher's son had a '67 Shelly GT 500.
In '68 I set in the driver's seat of a dark green GT 500 at a local Ford dealership.
It didn't take long for a nervous salesman to ask me and my younger cousin to get out of the car! Nervous Nelly! Lol 🥰
@gafran 🤣🤣🤣 that touched home and reminded me of when the viper came out and my dad took me as a kid ya they wouldn’t even let me sit in it lol 😆🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some years back a couple of my friends got to ride in a Chrysler Turbine Car!
I wish I could have joined them!
The car is owned by a retired Chrysler engineer who worked on the Turbine project. He knew which parts were missing, and made the nessary parts to get it running again. 🥰
@gafran thats really interesting i honestly never herd tell that’s super sweet wonder how that was learn something new tonight
@erinb Erin, have you read the book called "GoLikeHell"? it is what Ford v Ferrari was based upon.
@briana sadly no mostly due to my reading ability I was never good at reading books pics yes
@erinb These days , Music , Camping Snowmobiling.Tinkering , Gaming , Travel and Outdoors. used to hunt , scuba , mt biking , fishing. you name it guy stuff ya know. though my wife does most of that with me so its all good. Cheers RC
My main hobbies are making music and writing stories, which I then post to my website for anyone to check out. These hobbies lead me to finding new music to listen to or new stories to watch/read. Sometimes I get the urge to do art. I've shown some sculptures at art shows. Nothing fine, just outsider stuff. Sometimes I DJ, which in my case is just playing music, but I might try taking up record scratching. I also like to examine electric circuits but I don't do nearly enough of that. And every now and then I mess around with some code. This just goes to show that there's more to us than just some pretty frocks.
My main interests include outdoor activities and travel in North America and Europe. Having spent my entire youth on a farm, I am very appreciated of nature and enjoy exploring it. I derive satisfaction through creating with my hands and have always been involved in two of my favourite activities, cabinet and furniture making and gardening. My most complex project was an entire kitchen made out of solid wood cherry.
@isabella22 ok no lie again sorry for my words but bud ass home made especially from cherry is something I absolutely would love to do here that’s awesome thank you for the reply
I too like outdoor activities but rarely hunt lately so it's mostly fishing along with watching sports with friends. Cooking gatherings in or out along with festivals is a large part of this region so that keeps me entertained.
@rikiinla nothing wrong with a lovey time with friends and family is a lovely time and relaxing I say thanks for sharing
Well for me it's astrophotography and 3D printing. Also playing a bit of blues on my harmonicas and gardening
@kdmon I apologize but what is exactly astrophotography sounds interesting but I haven’t a clue i apologize I do have to say love the sound of a harmonica with the blues very relaxing thanks for sharing
@erinb It's taking pictures of objects in the sky. I use a telescope but you don't have to.
@kdmon understood that’s actually amazing see a lot of neat things that most would never see or even hear about
@kdmon i used to do astrophotography, but haven't in years. I even have an observatory so all I have to do is open it up and get to viewing. I need to clean it up and get back in to it. Problem is, I'm old and bedtime comes earlier these days.
@astrosteve Haha I get it. I haven't done it in a few years because I moved to a place with too much light at night. I moved again and it might be possible from here. I an so jealous about the observatory!
@astrosteve don’t feel bad I’m still on the younger side but bedtime still comes early as well
My two most prominent activities are Boating and Traveling. I most often do them both while dressed. Or in my swim suit.
@robertaf always enjoyed boating life but gets very expensive mostly for fishing I’m definitely not going on with a bunch of buddy’s dressed tho they probably throw me in and leave me lol 😂
@erinb I love taking my boat out while dressed. Unfortunetly i'm always alone doing it. Not many CDs in my area and even fewer willing to go out like i do.
@robertaf lovely way to spend time and enjoy it, travelling it is one of my favorites things to do , but requires money!!!
So the only time to travel is when I have to work overseas, visiting Dominican Republic , Panama, El Salvador, Mexico and Honduras.
Lately my hobbies are reading, playing my guitar (I started taking lessons about 3 years ago (I am not very good and only play for the pleasure of my wife and myself), doing diamond dot art (it's like paint by number but with little plastic dots). I also enjoy fishing - haven't gone for quite some time, I need to dust off my equipment and go. I've also dabbled playing golf which I also need to dust off the clubs and get out to do. I also cook and bake, it is fun trying new recipes. For that hobby I need to get one of those frilly bib aprons like Grandma used to wear. I haven't yet but think it would be fun to do some baking and cooking while dressed. Maybe this years Christmas cookies.
XOXO
Suzanne
@cdsue have to dust them rigs and clubs off I tired playing the guitar I was no good what so ever came clear I was not a musician
Great topic, Erin. I have a bunch of hobbies that I no longer can do as I get older. I used to do all kinds of home improvement that included woodworking, wood refinishing as well as home repairs, but now I just pay someone to do those for me. I also used to race sailboats competitively for many years, but that’s in the past since that’s a more expensive hobby that usually requires more than one person. My latest interest is classic cars and cars in general. I attend shows with my cars as often as I can. Fortunately I can still do the cleaning on them, which is very rewarding. I still think that my most favorite hoppy is crossdressing though and I’m not going to even think about giving that up, you are never too old to wear 4” heels!
@jennconn understand indeed I always loved sail boats never been on one but there always fantastic to see as fare as racing that’s amazing they get crazy at times wouldn’t mind a classic car myself like that vette you got but todays prices are just threw the roof anymore
Erin, I used to play loads of sports. Mainly football (soccer), rugby union, cricket and golf. Now at my age only the golf remains. I also like to cook. I often say, rather cruelly, that my wife has no interest in cooking, and I have no interest in eating anything she cooks 😂. But by far my greatest love is music. I've played in bands all my life and am currently playing keys with three local bands. My main one has been together for 27 years and we can pull a big crowd locally. We also travel all over the UK playing weddings and the like. Once went to the West coast of Ireland, and nearly the south of Italy, but the logistics didn't work out.
Sadly none of these activities have been done en femme 😢.
Hugs, Chrissie xx.
@chrisfp99 hear that would be something to golf in a lady’s outfit lol your music carrier tho is absolutely amazing tho congratulations on that that truly an amazing achievement
@erinb Erin, a number of girls here have played golf en femme. I must admit those short ladies golf skirts (skorts?) are very sexy. Of course I'm by no means ready for that. A lot of the ladies here are musical, and there was a lot of (fantasy) talk of forming a crossdresser band. Performing live is basically the highlight of my life now, but the thought of showing up to a gig dressed as a beautiful woman just cracks me up. I am literally the last person any of my family or friends would expect to be a secret girl, so Chrissie will have to remain private for now 😢.
Hugs, Chrissie xx.
@chrisfp99 I have a question for a girl in a band in the UK Chrissie…(or guy since you haven’t played in Chrissie mode).
Here in the US there’s tons of “oldies playing oldies” bands all around. Especially when you retire you become very aware of them. Another thing I like to crossdressing. They’re old guys still rocking and we’re old guys still rocking the dresses…(at least WE think we are.)
My issue with these bands here in the states is this: They all seem to have the same playlist. When I was on the West Coast and now on the East Coast. Go to one of these “gigs” and you will always hear: Mustang Sally. Brown Eyed Girl. Mony Mony. You Really Got Me. The Twist. Pretty Woman…etc, etc, blah, blah, BLAH. Same with the deejays too…same songs over and over!
Hopefully your bands play a decent mix of tunes at events. I know I’m generalizing here a bit - but there sure is a sameness in the music of what bands and deejays at social events think we want to hear.
If I never hear “Old Time Rock & Roll” ever again, it’ll be TOO SOON. (That’s truly one of the most horrible songs ever written IMHO). Ditto Bohemian Rhapsody and…for crying out loud, “Sweet Caroline”…with the audience participation thrown in: Bah, bah, bah! Bah is right, and throw some humbug on top of it!
Nothing gets my pantyhose in a twist like the “Playlist for Oldies” that I hear over and over til my ears bleed at every social event I attend since retirement. It’s enough to keep a girl home on the weekends playing dress up!
So, Chrissie, what’s on your playlist?🥰
GP
@erinb OMG, totally! When I hear those first couple notes then “Turn it up!” I think, no, please, I can’t take it anymore….🤬
I'm in my seventies now and by all accounts, I'm supposed to like rock 'n' roll, The Beatles and Motown: I don't.
I like classical music (always have) and still listen to heavy metal and prog rock. I do like to go and see a good opera now too, although that is a more recent thing, as is ballet.
When I was in a band, playing tenor sax and blues harp, quite a few years ago now, the lead singer refused to do any covers and we only did original music. This was good in some ways but it would have been nice to throw a few popular covers in there.
Still, in the end, we had over two and half hours of original music consisting of 25 - 30 songs.
There isn't much of the music left on the internet as the band broke up after about four years citing 'creative differences', isn't that always the way?
There's a couple left, plus some of my own stuff. If you are at all interested, you can find it on Soundcloud and search for Martin Baxter Liskeard. Look for the picture of the collie dog holding a yellow ring in his mouth. The track Tassology was played on BBC Radio; it's my only claim to fame.
Becca
@rebeccabaxter sorry to hear about the break up that absolutely amazing the time you had tho sound like you all had a wonderful time heavy metal heck ya my favorite 😍