What things would you like to accomplish, as a crossdresser, before your time is up? I was thinking about that, recently. I was thinking about what would be a perfect day for me. How much fun would it be to get some other girls together, pile into a '67 Mustang convertible & take a drive to the beach with the wind blowing through our hair? Then, frolic on the beach in our bikinis, playing volleyball, jet-skiing, parasailing, surfing. Then, freshen up, get dolled up & go clubbing. It got me to thinking about what other things we girls would like to do that we haven't yet done. What's on your bucket list?
That sounds very achievable! (presuming either you have a '67 Mustang, or allow some flexibility on that specific 😉 ) Make the plans, girl!
For myself - I may have already checked it off. I've spent multiple days in girl-mode (at Keystone), gone out into the real world dolled up, both for events and just everyday reasons, I've told the key members of my inner circle, and in Dec I'll go out dolled up in another city - I may even opt to fly back as Melodee...we'll see.
I dunno, I think I've just reached a point where I'm not waiting for 'the right time' to come to do these things. My situation allows me to do them now, so I've just opted in! I hope that you find that for yourself as soon as you can! [[hug]]
A trip to the salon in the morning with my wife, getting treated as "one of the girls." After that, we'd get our nails done together, and I wouldn't have to worry about asking for clear! I could actually get something pretty. We'd go to lunch and maybe meet up with a few of you ladies! Of course the follow up would be shopping for a new outfit to wear to the movies that night. The "perfectness" of it would be not having to hide anything, or dress in "stealth mode." I'd love to be out in the open, get treated like one of the girls, and not have to worry about any small detail giving me away.
Very nice, Vecca
I would love to travel to any place in Europe and do what I’ve never done in my life.
Go get a pedi-mani, professional makeup to get all my femininity out, wear a tight dress with 4’ sandals, wig, go to a club and experiment and be ready for whatever comes. (I know, we all dream)
I hope it becomes a reality one day.
This will never happen for a number of reasons but my wife and I would be at the beach. Get up, get dressed for a walk on the beach for sunrise with a coffee, walk to grab brunch, eventually ride bikes to go grab a drink and see a movie, have dinner on the balcony and finish with an evening walk on the beach.
For me, the next big thing is going to the opera or the symphony... just as soon as I find the right dress. My wife is already looking at tickets! Another thing I want is a weekend away or a short vacation that I can stay dressed 24/7. That one feels a lot harder.
For me,I would like to go to the opera with a professional makeover in the morning and the opera that night in a long flowing gown,4 inch heels and departing from a limosine with myself and my sister,who is a real female,having a wonderful time at the opera.Later the same car brings us home and I spend the next week totally enfemme.
Bridal shopping with friends, bachelorette party, dressing for the service, jilted at the alter, back to another bachelorette party.
My bucket list is rather lengthy so I won't bore you with all the details and just focus on the top five....
- As far as piercings goes, at least 2 holes in each ear, navel and a nose stud.
- I'd like to move on to the next step in hair removal and be completely zapped by a laser.
- Get a complete makeover from a place that specializes in in MTF makeovers.
- Have a girly spa day
- Get all dolled up and go clubbing with the CDH girls.
For some girls my list is easily attainable , for me .... well, let's just say a girl can dream.
I've done so many things already that I'm not sure I have many "must do" items left. I've been to many themed parties, even served as a maid for one. I've had makeovers, had a bridal makeover and shoot, dressed as a schoolgirl, worn a quinceanera dress to a party in a hotel, been to Broadway a few times, and been to the beach a few times (although I don't have the figure for a bikini). I've been to conferences before and taken long drives en femme. I've been out walking in my neighborhood, including some costumes over the last few years on Halloween (50's girl in a poodle skirt and petticoats, short bridal dress, Velma from Scooby Doo). I've also done ordinary errands en femme. I'm not really into clubbing, I can't stand being assaulted with loud music.
I've been undergoing chemotherapy, and had to stop it because of a bad reaction. But I may have another round of a different chemo medicine and radiation coming up. So right now I'd say I'd like to regain my strength to be able to resume my neighborhood walks, and to keep (and regrow) the hair on my head. I've lost a lot of volume as well as length (due to breakage), and haven't been able to color the grey out for 8 months.
Perhaps most of all I want to be able to just go out and wear a skirt or dress without necessarily making myself fully en femme and not be judged, looked at funny, photographed (or videoed), or laughed at.
Great question Dawn…I’ve been getting out a lot more which has really been fun. On my bucket list is electrolysis and ear piercing but getting your hair zapped is not a lot of fun. So I would love to grow my hair out (it grows like weeds) and go to a salon for a full spa day…hair cut and colored, ears pierced, manicure and pedicure, some waxing and then have a new outfit ready for me to put on. Drinks dinner and a show afterwards would end the night perfectly !
I am lucky to have had so many perfect days. I never had a bucket list as they just happened as I started to live my true life. I look at them as surprises, and who doesn't just love surprises!
Dreams do come true. I have ticked many of the boxes you all have mentioned, but certainly not all of them
But as they said in "Monty Python and the Holy Grail", I'm not dead yet".
I have been for walks on the beach en femme, lounges by hotel pools and on the beach in a bikini, and shopped in several European cities for dresses and lingerie. I have been to a few plays fully en femme, had professional makeovers, mani-pedis, and dined in restaurants, again while en femme.
I have presented to my wife en femme, except she has not seen me in makeup. So, to get to the point if the OP, my ultimate day would be a day out with my lovely wife. Start with a couples massage, then a mani-pedi with acrylic, long nails, a nice lunch somewhere, then we both get makeovers before putting on our best lingerie and dresses for an evening at a fine restaurant and then attend the symphony. Of course the best part of any date with my beautiful and sexy wife is getting back to our hotel room for a fun and erotic finish to a full and wonderful day. I won't go into details about the last part, but I am sure you can use your imaginations🥰💋😘
Dawn to be honest I've never have liked the beach so I'll pass on that, but there are two things that I would put up top, well maybe three. 1, have my wife fully embrace Sherri. 2, have a full makeover. 3, spend my time with my makeover and my wife on a river cruise in Europe.