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That woman used to wear cute bras and would take care of them.... years ago.
Pet peeve... she wears the wrong size constantly, throws them anywhere, and needs an intervention where a few are forcibly thrown out for being so tattered.
Only a CD husband would care so much. I've helped her measure her size, encouraged her to get a bra fitting, and so much more.
Any of you run into this either as you our with your SO?
Mine has taken to wearing boring sports bras......🥱
I dislike the trend greatly.
Not me. My wife is a little ocd when it comes to her clothes. Everything is put away neatly and in colour order and all has to face the same way. Shoes kept in the boxes which are labeled to what’s in them. She has had bra fittings and has fairly expensive lingerie ( bras , panties, camisole) and takes care of them. Well I should add that I do 99% of the laundry so I guess it’s me that takes care of them at that time. Placed in lingerie bags and hung to dry.
Yes, always giving the wife fashion advice.
Lanna
Yes! Oh my god! I had this exact conversation with my wife just yesterday and I insisted she go buy some new bras. I also suggested that she go down a cup size. That's when I learned that my 56 year old wife did not know how to measure herself for a bra. I measured her and she agreed to let me buy bras for her. I'm planning to take her for a day of pampering and have her properly fitted.
Mine just treats her bras almost like an appliance, there, needed, necessary, but boring. Despite encouragement from me she still will only wear fairly basic bras, even though I've offered to buy her some.
Amy
My wife is more of a guy than I have ever been. Everything she owned before we were married was purely functional. I buy almost all of her clothes now. Especially her lingerie.
At the moment there are 5 bras hanging on the door knob of our bedroom. They are my wife's. This is how she "stores" them. When she wears them it is obvious they are sized improperly. I discussed the improper sizing with her offering to take her to get measured and fitted. No interest on her part.
Is it not ironic that I (we as CDers / trans women) should know and care more about these specific details of female life than our wives?
This speaks volumes to me about just how real my femme personna is.
Blessings,
Charrie
Truly ironic. We appreciate and value things, like bras, that we think of as invaluable.
I like "appliance"!
Lol, that sounds like me
I agree and find it amazing that women don't seem to care about their bras. Last woman I dated had bras that were just down right boring, ugly and old. She wore the cheapest bras she could buy. But I guess for someone that has worn them since getting her first training bra they just don't seem like a big deal and she admitted that she had never been fitted for a bra. For us girls bras are fun and I can't imagine wearing a worn out dingy bra that doesn't fit correctly.
Sandy
I agree, women wear sports bras like it is the only bra made anymore. I understand the functionality needed during impact sports but daily wear...just not flattering in my opinion.
I like your view, it's different, and fair. Maybe she is bored of her breasts, her bras, her being a woman.
Then, I say to her, stop holding me back from enjoying being feminine. After all, those things don't make her the person she is deep down inside.
As for breasts, nothing stops her from buying and using all the same things we CDs do to try to be more feminine. Unless, she's tired of it all.
