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Hi Alice. I understand the hesitation about getting piercings. I rolled it over and over in my mind thinking about what family and friends would think or say but this was something I've wanted for a long time. As I said I waited until after the holidays because I didn't want to answer a lot of questions and I couldn't get piercings before because of work but now retired so time to forge ahead. Not sure your age but as you become more mature I hope you can express your fem self more and go through with it. I really enjoy it now.
Yes Cery it is one of the best things I've done to express my fem self. Even though I can't see the earrings all the time they do make me feel girly just knowing they are there and when seeing in a mirror its a little thrill each time.
I want heavy hoops and dangles and big thin hoops too like I see many women wear. I know there are huggies that can be heavy and look nice on a guy too. So many choices! Making a wish list on Amazon and can't wait.
I keep thinking about getting mine pierced but not sure due to family and friends. I did have my left one pierced back in the 90's but my wife (met and married after I got the piercing) didn't care for it so I let it close. She recently asked me if I thought about getting them pierced when we were at a street fair and looking at jewelry. I told her I hadn't but wouldn't mind getting them pierced. We discussed it at a later time and she said it would be okay for Suzanne but not for her husband. I'm okay with that for now and use clip ons which work for me as it doesn't require any explanation to family and friends (not that it is any of their business). Maybe I'll get up the courage to get them done in the future.
XOXO
Suzanne
Hi Suzanne. I understand about being around family. The thing about piercing is you have to go through a healing period of weeks and weeks before you can take the initial studs out. You would have no choice but to present them to family and friends at some point during that period. Its a case of if you decide to do it then you have to just go for it no matter who sees them or what is said. Heres hoping you find the opportunity and courage to have it done in the future.
Firstly, congratulations, I hope you love them as much as I love mine, which I had done when I was 51. It’s been almost 3 years, and only 1 person has said anything negative to me, and I live in a fairly conservative part of the country. The problem I have experienced with them is I have even less impulse control when it comes to buying earrings than I have with buying shoes, which is pretty much none.
True my indusrial hurt but the most painful were my nipples. after ten years i can still rmember the pain. If I had it to do over or redo them- no freaking way LOL
Hello Jasmine and thank you. I've only had mine about a week and although no comments I've noticed some people I see on a regular basis are checking my ears out. This is a conservative area but I'm a big guy so I doubt anyone will say anything good or negative. I don't care and beginning to get excited about owning many more earrings. Impulse control? Whats that.... lol.
I've been contemplating getting a septum for about a year now but I see so many misplaced or crooked that I'm still hesitating. Maybe a nostril ring first.
I used to have my nipples done too, and I would agree that they were incredibly painful. Not to mention they never quite healed properly. One fell out one night when I was drunk on spring break and that was the end of my nipple piercings 😅 that's another piercing I wouldn't revisit
