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Hello ladies!
when I’ve gone out I’ve always tried to blend in and not be noticed, considering a change!
I am looking for ideas, places to go, things to do, places I might get noticed more.
As much as I would love to I’m sadly not able to get a mani or pedi:(
Would love to please hear other suggestions!
Thank you!
Bethany
Blending is so overrated Bethany.. Lol I am by no means a blendy girl, except for shopping, Ulta, etc.
A great place to go are casino's.. very safe with all those cams & security. I visit one occasionally on Saturday nights when they have a live band, listen to the music, a few drinks, and dancing. No gambling even necessary.
Another is come down my way to Eureka Springs.. not all that far for you, and me & some of the Tulsa girls are planning a weekend there this summer.
Read my recent post on Unexpected Friends for a taste of what may await you.
Emily
How about the theatre, or music concerts? There's a small-ish music venue about half an hour away from me that seats a few hundred. When they have bands that appeal to the more mature demographic, I've noticed the GG's seem to treat it as a bit of an occasion and make some effort to dress up, although obviously not to full formal levels. Potential as usual to stand out as a CD (unless you really do pass well), but at the same time, be able to dress up yet not be too out of place 🙂
Being mainly on my own as Fiona over the summer and not a solo drinker in pubs/bars, I'm thinking to go out to things like this to get out in public. A mani/pedi would also be a nice idea for me!
I like going for walks around my town. I don't know if I blend or not (I'm 6'3 in heels), at this stage of my life I really don't care if I do. I live in the North Burbs of Chicago. I have made pilgrimages to the city, I like going to the opera, symphony, and ballet . If people want to stare, then do so. I am living my best life
It’s not a simple answer in my mind. I’m wondering what “blend” means to you? You’re en femme but low key?
Where I live in a medium size conservative city, I am not comfortable being my female self in public. Of identified, it would be horrendous. However, my male outfits get more female every month. I’ve worn women’s blouses and slacks with bold stud earrings, perfume, and cute socks. Doing my own nail polish is easy and the solid colors come off easily and quickly.
I like the suggestion of theater and music, safer spots that draw perhaps more accepting people. When I was in a big city I considered tourist spots because I would feel safer in that crowd.
our journeys drift over time as we find our ways. Yes, ways not way, because for many of us girls there are many paths that we choose. I wish you a pleasant outing!
I really don't even consider blending or not. I just go wherever I want. I particularly enjoy just doing normal things when dressed. You should know that I mostly dress only when away from home. So, it's easy to dress 24/7 when doing this. However, when out, I pretty much just go and do whatever I want. Appropriately dressed of course.