Positive Psychology For Crossdressing Persons

Yes...2 & 3...
My wife and I are starting a " finishing school" for CDers wo want to progress in their journey.
She is a professional MUA. BETWEEN the 2 of uwe will give the client what they need to " Break down the Front Door", if that is what they want to achieve!
We love helping on CDH when asked.
I have been out in public since the 1960's in my 20' s.
Love to all...Enjoy Being You!
Dr.T.J.

Hi Teralynn.

Very interesting subject...

1. Acting as, dressing as and just "being" the woman on a daily basis who makes my life acceptable and as complete as I could hope for.

2. CDH has become very important to me, not just for the friendships, but for actually seeing all the different ways so many girls struggle with crossdressing. I have been doing this beautiful thing for a long time now, and I like to think I'm here to help. Any advice I can pass on I will, and if I receive a nice message or a thanks, it makes it even better, knowing I have helped.....

3. The third choice really incorporates 1 and 2....call it a mental health thing...but they both make grace so happy, that the dark side of depression is driven right to the back of my life...although not forgotten, it's too far off to hurt me....so you see, crossdressing is really good for me in every way....

Huggs, grace xx

Hi Teralynn I am listing what makes me happy in no particular order or priority.

The image of a female when i look in the mirror . It just seems so right

Talking with my grandchildren. I love looking at them while they talk. They bring me so much joy.

Spending time with lovely wife. We do not even have to talk. She has brought so much happiness and joy into my life I know I am loved no matter what I am wearing. I love both our girly talk and husband to wife talks.

I love being here on CDH sharing thoughts and experiences with my sisters. I love helping those who are just starting to deal with our life long issue.

I am so grateful to be a part of such a loving supportive community. Do not get me started I am having a lovely day.

Stephanie

Hi Teralyn

1 My children❤️

2 My job👩‍⚕️

3 Letting my inner Bianca out💅

mine are believing in the universal father, helping others, being a good husband when i can,  but there would be more but have to add enjoying my life on this planet as much as i can.   thank you Teralynn

Hi Teralynn

The single most important thing in my life is my wife and family love them to bits.

The biggest lesson I learn't myself is to chill and not react, and I don't react I just be nice if people have a problem with that it's there problem.

I also love the natural environment I find it very relaxing.

Love Sarah

xx

Thanks for your posting Sarah. I wish more crossdressing people in the world had such a positive way to deal with negativity they have to deal with from other people. - Blessings from Teralynn

Dear Grace, thanks for your response to the positive psychology survey. I wish more crossdressing people had such a positive feeling about their crossdressing experiences but we do what we can on this site to make those who join us feel welcomed and accepted! - Blessings from Teralynn

Stephanie you could write my post as well because you described so many things that I love and that make being alive a wonderful thing. - Blessings from Teralynn

#1 my family, they are my world.

#2 just being by myself once in a while for some peace and serenity to give me time to process my inner thoughts and feelings.

#3 working in my therapy group. As I've said before I've had some nasty things happen in my life, now I use those experiences to help others going through the same thing. My therapist says I'm very compassionate and easy to talk to so I get to help the younger patients especially the victims of sexual assault. The hardest part is getting their trust and then getting them to open up and talk. When they've been hurt by an adult all their trust is gone and getting that back is not easy, it's a lot of hardship and pain. The best way I've found is to spill my guts and show my vulnerability too and presenting as Heather as they are usually more open to women.

Heather I enjoyed reading your posting on this subject. Very few of us live a life without any tragedies, serious problems or mistakes. I was delighted to read that you are working with others who have had serious difficulties in their lives. Thanks for posting it. - Blessings from Teralynn

My number 1, 2, and 3 are being able to dress openly and being accepted by all but its never going to happen. A girl can dream.

Yes Michelle one can dream and sometimes dreams come true. Concentrating on all the ones that do accept you - all of you- just as you are and not allowing those that don’t to have a major impact on your life is not only possible but essential to having happiness and peace of mind.  Crossdressing is as much about how it makes you feel as anything else. So don’t ever let anyone take that wonderful feeling away from you. Thanks for your post on this topic. - Blessings from Teralynn

Bringing joy and serenity to all my friends and especially to my cd friends. I know how hard it is for some and just sharing our time together and making them comfy in there own skin has brought happiness to others. The best therapy is learning from others like ourselves who have experienced this journey and how to cope with living in both genders. Love all my cdh sisters now