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Private vs Public CDing.

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Lady
(@sivvi)
Estimable Member     Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

I'm private and wife knows. Doesn't really want anything to do with it but she trusts me when I say it's good for me. So that's a big win. I dress when I can. It's become harder since she works at home since Covid. I have thoughts of going public. If anything just for personal growth.

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Lady
(@mindymills)
Trusted Member     Leesburg Virginia, Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

99% private but I have gone out into public a handful of times.

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(@Anonymous)
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Hi Mary Jane.

being single, grace is about every minute I'm not working...I go out a lot, mostly shopping or just touring the town...I'm sorry but I go to a lot of trouble to TRY to look nice....I couldn't just sit at home and " waste" it.....life is a blink, and I'm determined that this girl is never going to die wondering!!!....

I know so many girls here who for one reason or another, do not get the opportunity to live their dream very often.....but if/ when you can.....go for it my darlings!!!

apprehensive?...no good at make up???...it's never been easier...make up your eyes, put on a mask and your " glad rags"....and get out there.... even if it is down to the end of the road and back.....the buzz is a wow!!

Love you,

Grace xx

 

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(@Anonymous)
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Hello Ladies,

I guess you would call me a private dresser because I live  in the Bible Belt of the US and I  would probably be stoned if I went out dressed. I have never gone out fully dressed en-femme. In my apartment I am always completely dressed 24/7 with Bra, panties, half slip, stockings, dress or skirt and top, earrings and perfume. I go out underdressed. I do have looooong hair 20"+. I use to wear it in a high pony tail but since my SO left it is now very difficult to put my hair in a ponytail because of a bad shoulder that I have.

Kathleen

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Duchess
(@elguapo)
Reputable Member     The Villages, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

I am private only because of spouse's insistence that I not go out. I have been out and found it exhilarating.  I answer the door when en femme so staying in doesn't make much sense.

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Guest
(@Anonymous)
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I am private for sure. I have gone out in public but nowhere around very many people and definitely not close to other people. My SO knows but does not participate nor want to see it so I really have to keep it to myself. She also does not want me to go out. The few times I have are when she is not around. She is okay with panties and stockings and have seen me in those. I wear panties most days. So like many here I sound like a confused privates crossdresser

Holly 🤪

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(@picturingpamela)
Active Member     Downers Grove, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I'm public. To me (and this is my own personal opinion about myself) it just doesn't feel right to dress up and then not do something.  My outlet is is outdoor photography, it is so much fun to go out and be creative

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(@Anonymous)
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I share Pamela's opinion: It just doesn't feel right to get all Dressed, then do nothing. True, there aren't many places to go currently, but I get a lot of shopping done...and I have an overflowing closet to prove it. My wife has met Bettylou (after The Talk), and accepts her, albeit reluctantly.

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(@trishl989)
Prominent Member     Bury, GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Mary, I'm a recent public dresser. I currently have no SO so no restrictions there. Im out at work and plan to do all my morning shifts en femme.

I live above a shop and most of the woman that work in it know. Only one doesn't. I'm telling her next week as she's got a tendency to put things online and I want to know if it's her if she does so I'm delaying telling her. Unfortunately she does have to know as I have to go though the shop to leave.

Love Tish

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(@Anonymous)
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Tish....

Leaving through the shop, dressed, made up and giving her a wink......may just tip her off!!!

Heehee, grace .....love you !!!

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(@Anonymous)
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Bettylou darling....

how could your wife not accept you....with Ziggy on your shoulder.....giving her the " look"?...

( 🎶Bright eyes, burning like fire🎶)

haha

grace xxxxx

 

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(@trishl989)
Prominent Member     Bury, GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Thats how the first one in the shop found out. Well almost. It was with a strut and a "hi honey". Popped down the next day to explain my attire.

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(@paula1)
Prominent Member     Newport, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 9 years ago

I'm private wanting to go public, wife knows but still have not worked out how to tell them

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Lady
(@sharongf)
Estimable Member     Chippenham, Wiltshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

I was a private dresser for 50 years, it was beaten into me as a child that it was wrong and so I hid it, and got very good at hiding it to protect myself.

Then my dysphoria got so bad I didn't want to live, so I figured I had nothing to lose by coming out, as I was about to lose everything anyway.  I haven't worn any mens clothing for over 6 months now, so pretty public now.

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Sharon....

how bloody marvellous you have turned it around....go girl !!!

Grace ❤️❤️

 

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