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(@sashabennett)
Noble Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

I love reading everyone's profiles, to try & get a bit more of an idea who is who but I think some of the options presented are a bit limited.

Primarily the SO acceptance section. The options only go as far as "Yes my SO is accepting within their limits"  

In my case there have been no limits set & I wonder how many more of you are as lucky as me. My SO has been more than happy to join in with the lifestyle & buy's & makes me clothes / wigs etc. So, is anyone else in the same boat, what's your story?

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Baroness Annual
(@fembecky)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 602

@sashabennett 

I selected "Yes my SO is accepting within their limits", but that option doesn't really feel right. Logically it is correct (the limits could be sky high 😀 ), but "within their limits" somehow seems to imply a fairly low ceiling.

It might not be easy to find a better phrase, but for me "Yes my SO is accepting and generally supportive" might be a more accurate description.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5210

@fembecky @sashabennett 

The options ARE a little restrictive in places - but I'm not sure if any can be added.

I'll try and find out 🙂

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Lady
(@sashabennett)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
Posts: 803

@fembecky My thoughts exactly

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2192

@sashabennett 

Hi, Sasha, I see you're a bit further up the country than me. My wife is quite happy with my crossdressing, she sees the difference it makes to me.

She shops with me (me in drab), helps me to choose clothes, jewellery etc, has gifted me some jewellery and two jewellery boxes...so far 🙄 and gives me honest feedback on the outfits I put together.

If I was to ask for more, the beard would be gone and she would accompany me on outings. Not there.....yet but we'll see. I certainly don't want to spoil things by asking too much too soon and, after all, I know full well how lucky I am to be where I am right now.

Thanks for your post.

Allie x

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Lady
(@sashabennett)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
Posts: 803

@alexina Hi Allie, yup, about as far up as you can get without getting wet feet 😆 Hopefully you are both getting something out of the lifestyle, I know that Mrs B is encouraged to glam up when I do so she enjoys the dress up days as much as me. I've never been outside dressed & don't really feel the need right now so it is unlikely that outings are going to be a problem. As they say, it's a marathon not a sprint so things will take their natural course, we are both equally lucky. 

X

Sasha

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Baroness Annual
(@nickicd)
Reputable Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I'm in the same boat. My wife is very accepting 100%. I am so lucky to have such a wonderful caring wife of 46 years. She sets no limits and is totally understanding and has known for over 20 years. I'm also very lucky in another way. We took the chance  recently and told her BFF about Nicki and OMG I cant get over how accepting she is. We have girls nights together and she always calls me Nicki and refers to me as she or her. I think her friend has also benefited from meeting Nicki. We talk about clothes and makeup together and she is a different person lately. We love talking about clothes and she has totally changed her outlook and wardrobe. I'm truly blessed to have a wife and friend that support me. 

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Lady
(@sashabennett)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
Posts: 803

@nickicd Gosh, that was a brave decision. I'm pretty sure that I wouldn't risk it with anyone other than Mrs B. Totally awesome that it worked out though. Those must be special nights indeed. I must admit to some small amount of jealousy (in the nicest possible way of course).

X

Sasha

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Lady
(@sf)
Prominent Member     SoCal, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

When I married my beautiful wife 42 years ago, she knew I had a feminine side, I liked gals shoes (even had a few pair), colorful clothes and had longer hair.   About 8 years ago I started to do a limited amount of simple crossdressing.  Wifey flipped out and I thought we were done, I did not want to loose my marriage.  After counseling, and open communication - lots of it - she had generally accepted my crossdressing with some limitations, that we both agree to.  

It is not the best of worlds, but I understand her concerns and have to take in her feelings as well.  I am just glad that she has stayed open minded about crossdressing and did not say no.  We occasionally discuss crossdressing in a calm civil manner and sometimes even laugh about it.  She is a sweet gal and I love her mucho.  

Have fun all...   Staci...

PS Finding and joining CDH has been a wonderful help for not only me, but wifey as well.  CDH is a very positive affirming place for a crossdresser and the spouse.  

 

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Lady
(@sashabennett)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
Posts: 803

@sf I'm glad you found a compromise. It must be tricky for both of you if it's not easily accepted but having a laugh about it is something Mrs B & I do frequently. Tottering about in heels or dropping a boob is always good for a chuckle. Keep it light, keep it friendly & you can't go too far wrong. Good luck for the future.

Sasha

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