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(@wendiecross)
Reputable Member     Biloxi, Mississippi, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

My bucket list

1 - Have lunch with a girlfriend, share a couple of giggles.

That's it. It's the only thing I want before I leave this life. *(lunch not sex)*
I'm so sad. I think I'm going to cry.....

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(@Anonymous)
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Wendie, ‘tis nothing to be sad about. I, and many, would find nothing in life more enjoyable than the simple pleasure of sitting in a restaurant or outdoor cafe with a girlfriend and just chatting over coffee.

The possibility that it could happen, for me is a pick-me-up.

I don’t have much freedom selecting times to dress, but if you reach out, I’m sure someone here at CDH would at least have a virtual lunch with you.

If nothing else, initiate a chat. 😘. There are many loving, caring girls here. Please don’t feel so alone. If there is anything I have realized since joining CDH, it is that I am not alone.

Sending you “virtual” hugs,
Much love,
Raquel

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(@richard)
Estimable Member     Terre Haute, INDIANA, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Hi Wendy
Don't give up just yet they're plenty girls here waning the same thing
Rhonda xoxo

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(@loneleycd)
Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Oh Wendie, that is one thing so many of us want!! If I could find a nice GG who was willing to be my friend, sharing a meal, going for a walk, going out shopping (or window shopping), sharing some girl talk-- I think then I would be SOOOOO happy.
Unfortunately on line you will run across more creeps than nice people. I believe most of the girls here at CDH are some of the best!! About the only way you will find one of these girls is go out.
. . .Cassie

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(@claracross)
Honorable Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Whenever I see a post like this, two things happen. First, my heart breaks to think anyone is feeling so alone and lonely. Second, I jump to the profile page to see where in the world this lovely soul lives.

Sadly Wendy, we’d both need to start driving towards each other for about eight hours. We could get together in St Louis but by then the coffee would be cold. So we’ll need to settle for a virtual cup o’ joe together and know that I’ll be thinking of you today.

Meet Me in Saint Louie, Louie,

Clara

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(@michelletrott)
Honorable Member     Wausau, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I'm so sorry your sad today. I would love to have lunch as would many of us. Any trips planed to northern Wi? Hope you have a better day honey.

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(@wanderer)
Noble Member     Stoney Creek , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Wendie!  Having lunch with a girlfriend.... yes, that's on my bucket list too, and I vow on doing it one day.  We would be such a happy time I believe.  I'm sad it hasn't happened yet, but I'm adamant on making it happen.

It would be great if it were today, but I'm willing to wait and work towards it.  Meanwhile I can always share a cuppa coffee with my sisters here.  Don't give up on it hon!

Stevie

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(@ab123)
Famed Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Aww Wendie, You have a simple ambition and you just never know when it will happen. 

keep looking up and believe in yourself that it will happen.

A big CDH hug for you.

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(@prudence)
Reputable Member     Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

If you meet in St.Louis let me know. I would be Happy to join you! Hugs!

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(@wendiecross)
Reputable Member     Biloxi, Mississippi, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I wouldn't be so sad about it if 2+ years hasn't gone by and I'm still alone.

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(@wendiecross)
Reputable Member     Biloxi, Mississippi, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

No immediate plans to travel. I spent all my travel money going to Vegas to see the races. I also had a blind lunch date set before I came home. I got stood up so I came home sad and still alone.

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(@wendiecross)
Reputable Member     Biloxi, Mississippi, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I go out all the time en femme & drab. but still coming home alone and sad.

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wendy that a great bucket list or at least one thing. Don't give up hope one day one may sweep you off your feet when you least expect it. Like myself would never thought could find a guy to be dating now for over 2 months and has no hang ups and 100% supportive too. That funny thing want to call it that is live in a REP area and he dating a transwoman.

 

Keep the faith Wendy

Donna

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(@birel)
Honorable Member     Iowa, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Wendie, I feel for you. Being alone is really, really hard. All I can say is, hang in there. Because, as hopeless as it may feel now, the bad times don't last forever. They will eventually pass, and life often takes us in unexpected directions. In the mean time, I hope you can take a little comfort from all the support here on CDH.

Birel

P.S. And there's nothing wrong with a good cry, if that's what you're feeling.

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(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Wendie nice to meet you and wish you some fun times ahead you will make it there girl never give up as beenmarried 38 years now with a wonderful supportive wife but was quite lonely befor joining here on CDH still have never net any girls face to face but the plans are in place to someday good luck girl ..

Stephanie Bass

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