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So, I'm sure this was asked on here before (honestly if it wasn't for the fact I'm a bit lazy today I'd look) but I have a really serious question I'd like to ask everyone.
So as many of you know I've been slammed with the pink fog. Part of the reason is stress from work and other things over the past few weeks, but another part is due to something that I kinda figured out on my own and unknowingly confirmed last week.
So with my job, I stock shelves. I've been through four previous supervisors before the one I have now. She's nice and we got to know a little about each other since we were working together a lot. She's engaged and told me the story of how her boyfriend proposed (she came out of the bathroom, and the ring was on the bed). Anyway, I noticed the usual changes with her over the last couple of months. Her mood was off, she seemed forgetful (didn't call me off when we didn't have to show up). I eventually put the pieces together and figured out she was expecting.
For starters I'm happy for her, she'd make a great mom. I guess what bugs me is that she didn't want to tell me. Now I'm the type of person that if I feel I can trust someone I'll open up to them. I've had a few coworkers I opened up to on their first day and made them feel better and less scared, and a few I've flat out ignored. Well my supervisor is apparently being induced this week, and will be on maternity leave after that.
I guess it's the mixture of her not feeling comfortable enough to tell me, and the pink fog slamming me that the thoughts of motherhood once again ran through me. I've felt these before, all the way back in highschool even. I wanted to know what my one classmate was going through, but I was considered the weird one then and really couldn't ask. Granted my one friend explained her experience to me, but somehow I still felt like I wanted to know more.
I've thought about this for years, even when I was in elementary school since I remember my mom thinking I wanted to dress like / be a woman so I could have a baby. So I thought about making a pregnant belly for myself. I liked at some tutorials, and a few videos, but I also thought I would ask everyone here.
So has anyone here ever dressed as a pregnant woman? And if so what did you use for a belly? Granted I wouldn't be going out in public or anything, this would be just for me to consider to relax around home.
Any thoughts or help from my sister's on here would be greatly welcomed and appreciated.
Thanks
Jessica.
I can't say I've had those feelings. But I can give a few observations.
A male "beer belly" is somewhat similar in shape to a pregnant woman (I bet most men wish they could get rid of it after 9 months!). You may find out how they do it in the movies. While they may have a bigger budget and professionals who can make it look natural, it may give you some ideas.
But changing your body shape is nowhere near feeling like what it is like to be pregnant. We wear breast forms, and while we can feel the weight, we don't know what it feels like to have our breasts be there all the time, be touched, played with during love making, feeling tender as milk production starts, or having a child at our breasts. In the same way, wearing a pregnancy suit, we can feel weight, but it doesn't tell us what it's like to have a child growing in there, moving around, kicking, or the hormonal changes that help prepare a woman for motherhood. We won't experience morning sickness or the extra pressure on our bladder causing us to have to urinate more often. If we get tired of it we can take it off, but a woman has to endure until the pregnancy is over.
Let us know what you come up with.
Thanks, Alison,
Yeah, aside from the obvious changes that we'd never experience, it would mostly be a weight on us as opposed to inside us. Still, though, it would be an experience I would give anything to have. Sure it's not all sunshine and roses, but the feeling of the movement and kicking would be nice.
I do know of some of the movie tricks they use, and with a bit of research, I could probably reproduce one or two myself.
I'll be sure to let everyone know what I come up with.
