Sexual Desires

I have little or no desire for anything sexual due to age, medication and the fact that there is almost nothing I haven't already done (no, no men). I like to look at GGs, partially because I like a pretty girl, but also to see what she's wearing! 🙂

I have never fancied men, I don't think they smell nice (no matter what expensive cologne they wear), look nice, or behave at all well--especially towards women. Perhaps that's why I like to dress, to set myself apart from men, even though I am one [some of the time].

I wouldn't want to stop actually being a man though, definitely not transitioning; women have far too many disadvantages--most of them caused by men.

I do consider myself a feminist and get annoyed when men start talking disparagingly about women as if they themselves were in some way better.

Becca

I think it is normal to think about Men when you are dressed, I know I do

As I'm Bi myself I'm attracted to both men and women, I didn't know i was Bi till i was in my 20's , when I've been dressed I've often wondered what it would be like to become the woman of the house, what would i do to please my man, it's a lot to think about X 

Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗 

I'm not attracted to men. I do wonder what it would be like just to be with someone who finds me attractive when dressed.

I love my wife, but she has no interest in seeing my feminine side. That side angers her, or saddens her.

It's fascinating that the adult industry is generating so much content involving men (or women) with CDs and TGs.

I wonder if that reflects a growing interest from the general population. Not that I condone that business.

If fluidity becomes more accepted, then maybe more of us would feel comfortable that sexuality can be fluid too.

I sometimes dress up, do my walk over to a mirror, and introduce myself as Lea. Practice to boldly do that one day. I have so many outfits setup, ready for that. And I wouldn't care if it was to a group of men, women, CDs, etc. It's just looking for acceptance.

Speaking solely for myself, I have no interest in men whatsoever, whether dressed or not.

.A lot of interesting answers. My philosophy is "to each their own". I consider myself to be a bisexual crossdresser (you could say pansexual I guess - today's terms are so confusing sometimes). I've had experiences with both men and women in the past and enjoyed both. I don't seek male companionship but am not opposed to it. I've never been with anyone when dressed but would love to try it, male, female or another CD/TG. When it comes to sex my attitude is don't knock it till you try it. 

Everyone had their own thoughts and boundaries regarding this, no one is right or wrong it's what they are comfortable with. If I've learned one ting since coming out and joining this site it's that we are all unique and different in our own way. Enjoy what you do however you do it, life is too short. If dressing is a private thing or you go out in public it is a personal choice; if you have sex with women, men or both that is your choice as well, no one needs to know unless you decide to share it. There are many people, both male and female, that are very attractive regardless of your sexual orientation. Just because you find someone attractive doesn't mean you want to sleep with them. 

Be your true self as life is too short to deny yourself.

XOXO
Suzanne

My own opinion I say we all have are own feelings but who’s to say when dressed your mind don’t wonder definitely interested life to explore I say 

This is an interesting question. I mean I'm as straight as they come but has crossed my mind that in the right circumstances and in the company of a beautiful crossdresser I just might be tempted. Not all the way though. Just a kiss and a cuddle maybe xx. 

The desire is there to want to try and fulfill sex as a woman when dressed. We all want to be desired whether it is with men or women that is up to the individual if they so want. If dressers want to know what it is like to have oral sex or penetrative sex why not just try a toy. It may not be completely the same but you do not put your marriage on the line unless they know.  

I find this discussion intriguing. Personally, I have zero interest in men, regardless of whether I'm wearing panties or not. I identify as straight and heterosexual, and my reason for wearing panties isn't to adopt a female persona through crossdressing, which for me involves no wigs, makeup, or dresses. Wearing panties gives me a slightly feminine feeling, but my primary motivation is comfort, the same reason I wear Japanese PE sports bloomers.

Overall, sexuality has been a tricky thing for me. I've only ever been with women.  When it comes to the build up, I think I did mostly pretty well, it was the rest of the way that tended to get problematic. I was never feeling comfortable. Everything else seemed to feel great, just never the intercourse. After a bit, I began to do some reading for answers, not a lot was out there at the time. At least, nothing like today. 

I tried all kinds of wacky things. Ultimately none of it helped. I lost girlfriends because they felt I thought there was something wrong with them. It was never them, always me. I know, we all know now what it was. 

In my early 20's I was simply, nope, just women. By my mid 20's I was learning more about the transgender culture and things took a turn from there. I knew I was attracted to those who weren't just genetic women. That revelation took time to work through. But still lots of trepidation. 

Today? Well, I can talk about urges I probably couldn't even joke about before and very bluntly. I don't like holding back. There are thoughts and images I can stop and think of at any time and within seconds my heart is racing and I either start to breathe heavy, or not at all. I have to snap my way out of it again, and I gotta tell you...they are some kind of intensity. They don't even stop at men anymore. I didn't lie, I find men mostly revolting. But in a utilitarian sort of way, there is one part I've grown to be VERY attracted to. 

When I talk about recent floodgates opening. I mean they really REALLY opened!!!

As a Bi Male crossdresser it is completely normal to have desires, usually I imagine myself all dressed up, and the center of attention of 2 or more guys.

Erika

Myself never had any sexual attraction or desire to be with a man but I must admit Aubrey Kate is one FOX