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I was messaging my good friend Starfire when this flowed out of me.......
CDH helps me so much. I might not be able to dress but when I log into CDH, I’m Autumn. I don’t see Autumn as an escape. Maybe I can put this into words…. I have a feminine side that went dormant for just about 50 years. Even when I was a child it was almost never allowed to be expressed. But just like a muscle, exercise makes it stronger. Even if I can’t dress, being on CDH makes Autumn stronger. I don’t see it as being him or being her. If I had strong biceps or pectorals from putting in the time to work out they would be bigger and stronger and as always, a part of me. Autumn is no different. It’s not a multiple personality like Jeckll and Hyde. I have said this to someone here before. It’s a facet of my personality. Maybe a grouping of facets. A diamond can be cut into many different shapes and some look completely different when looking at them from a different angle. The diamond doesn’t change when you turn it to view the other side, but you see it differently.
Hugs
Autumn
⭐️💕
Autumn,
As a diamond, you a flawless! ⚘
Kay
Very well said. We are not one or the other, we are both. We are whole.
Hi Autumn,
Thanks for presenting our different sides that way.
I like that analogy.
I for one am glad you like it here because you always make our day brighter and show us how to be kind and caring.
You definately are a Gem.
Patty
Very well-said, Autumn - and accurate, also. Being on CDH has done the same for me.
Hugs,
Bettylou
A diamond 💎 with a shine I do see through you. Hard with facts but soft in heart. Your genuine with a true light that shines everywhere with us here. 🌷
Sparkle, brilliance, fire, scintillation! It is all the same light that shines on everyone, but up to each of us to let it in, to see and believe in what shines back at us.
Autumn, thank you.
There is nothing g I love more than coming on site and reading a beautifully written post that makes me think - " Yes!! That's it exactly!!
I hope you know you are pretty remarkable. Dont you Ever forget or doubt that.
Stevie
I also don't feel like two different personalities. But there are a fair number of people here who do, judging by other posts and questions. I don't think either is right or wrong. You should just go with what's right for you.
Hi Autumn,
Well said and so very true. Your glean is like that of a diamond.
Alice
I love this! Thank you for posting Autumn. You are a wonderful woman.
-Jen
Yes, I'm much the same. I went through a time when I thought of "Amy" as something different, but she really isn't. It's like to my children I'm "Dad", and to others something else. Likewise with my guy persona and my femme persona.
I too like to log in here for a while in the evenings, sometimes I just look at the new pictures, sometimes read the posts, and reply at times. But the point is exactly what you've said Autumn, here I'm Amy, no one else!
Amy
Well said, Autumn.
Thank you Autumn
No matter which way we have the light shine on you, you could be the focal point of any fine tiara.
Whether on full display or a hidden gem, we all have the ability to have this beautiful faceted light shine brightly back upon and within ourselves.
