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My wife knows that I dress but hates it, so normally I dress when she is not home. But since we are both retired now we are almost always together. So this evening I decided I would push the envelope a bit, I dressed in a blue jean skirt, ladies tee, earrings, ankle bracelets and heels. I approached her and simply said I am feeling the urge to dress up. Silent treatment. So my plan is to continue to dress when she is not around but let myself get caught dressed up occasionally. I love her dearly but would be 24/7 if not for her.
Hi Dayle!
My Wife does not accept this either. She has never seen me "dressed", and don't think she ever will or want to.
Amazingly and incredibly before we were married, she confided in me that her first husband liked to wear girl things! Don't remember what prompted the conversation. I was shocked, and that actually pushed me further into the closet over this. No way was I going to be able to tell her I had the same tendencies! I was really bummed because she was so against it.
Earlier this year I had begun shaving most of my body, legs and groin area, chest, and that really put her off. So I acquiesced at her request. That lasted about 2 months and I just decided "screw it!", it's my body and I'll do what I want with it. So I'm back to shaving, and at the same time came up with my "hybrid" mode of dressing. Wearing womens jeans, boots and shoes, panties of course and cammies. I can only do so on the weekends however. Not at work. 🙁
My wife has had to have noticed. The jeans and shoes are definitely femme, and I look it. I usually wear a nice (mens) shirt and jacket. I think I dress really well! She did once comment how "cute" one of my outfits was.
Last night however while laying in bed, she ran her hand over my thigh (which is silky smooth), and quickly withdrew. I'm expecting another expression of displeasure, but this time I'm prepared to say sorry, this is who I am and who I'm going to be. I'm in my late 50's and no one is going to determine what I do with my body or how I decide to dress it.
Best to you my Dear! Good Luck and let us know how you do!
RM
