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I use to have that problem many years ago. Until i had to go on prostate meds. It has diminished the urge and have seen a little breast growth . Right now experiencing both sides i wish they would get rid of the man bits and make them into women bits.
Stevie
More and more you dresses up less it happens and till than think of it as your boy mode giving your girl mode a complement like wow you look good can buy you a drink or something like that
My situation is a combination of most of the above answers.
1/. Arousal when dressing /even thinking about it.... For many years it was quite strong. I was in a broken loveless marriage, so when Caty appeared "in all her glory", I was in love with her instead! a gaff and one size too small reversed control panty held "the mainmast" in check.
I still do the above whenever I am in Caty mode, as it combined with my breast forms and wig, give me the "feminine form" i seek to achieve
2/. Age... I well into my 70's and these days as I go through the motions of becoming Caty, "rising to the occasion", (hope that passes as an innocent remark!!), only occurs infrequently...
The irony of 2/. is that for another separate medical condition, the naturopath I'm seeing has prescribed testosterone pills. They may be assisting the condition above but in terms of the "nub of the matter" above, not an iota of difference
In fact I think its made it a bit worse...
Caty, (the Ancient One)
Hi Hun, well for me in the past "raising to the occasion" for what always happened. After my first time venturing out it doesn't happen to me anymore. As Caty said gaff and added tighten undergarments will put Mr. Happy in his place.
Arousal should have no gender. It is a delight I enjoy.
Many GG girls have "spontanenous" events all the time.
The first thing I would say is that you should feminize your...um...plumbing.
Name it something soft and sweet like a soft furry rodent or feline rather than the usual dumb things a man might call his junk.
When you dress you might want to imbue some ultra femme lotion onto it before you tuck it away.
Maybe tie a silky pink bow around.
BTW. In an unexcited state I am not so big down there and so I am able to tuck "everything", and I mean everything..inside. Most times after going out Thommie has made a little "mess" down there....
For what it’s worth, I’ve tucked for the past 11 months at least 80% of the time. Around 6-8 hours each day. I had a few hard times, but then stay flacid there after. My wife has to work it in hopes of getting it hard. I just wish it was gone.
Celeste, from my own research there are two parts to HRT for transgender MtF. The Estrogen that feminizes and the Testosterone Blocker that reduces masculinity. Both are usually ingested together in dosages prescribed by doctors. I started using topical Premarin cream prescribed by my GP in order to just reduce my facial and chest hair. Been less than a month and there is a distinct softening and slowing of my beard growth. Skin texture is improving too. Too soon to tell about any changes to my boobs yet but we are starting from an A- cup. 😉 Below decks there has been absolutely no change to the frequency and no sign of ED either. If there is then I will probably just reduce the dosage.
Warm hugs
Rowena 👩🏻🦳
It is not a problem but a normal reaction. Just go with it when it happens and enjoy yourself!!!