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So I have finally done it I have sent my Father and Brother an email, about my feelings and all of this, I was a bit of a coward, and sent the email at 1 in the morning. I have also told them about my wish to transition. I haven't heard back, yet and don't expect to until at the least the morning. My heart feels like its going to jump out of my chest. But this needed to be done, I just want to live my life as me, not some random a**hole, Wish me luck.
Good luck, Andrea! I hope it turns out well and they are accepting! Keep us posted!
*kisses* tara 🙂
Good luck! I’m not sure how I’m going to tell my family yet. It makes me nervous thinking about it.
Luck Andrea!!
This I think is going to be the hardest part and unfortunately I decided to tell them super late and now my anxiety is through the roof. Should have waited till the morning, oh well, Yolo.
Best wishes Andrea....
However anxious you are....it's done!!!...one way or another it's out now, so no more worry over hiding anymore...it's now a question of acceptance....so more anxiety!!...but it will get better given time......certainly no coward, in my eyes, very brave.
Grace x
Good luck, Andrea, It is morning now, here so you may already know? you are so very brave, hoping it all goes well, and you are fully accepted
Hugs, Regi👸💕
Your braver than you think. No matter what time of night it happened to be. I hope it all works out well for you. Good luck.
We all deal with our progress in different ways Andrea. Don't second guess yourself. I wish you good luck, and just be prepared for things to go either way.
Regardless of what happens, you need to be honest and accepting with yourself first and foremost. Best wishes to you hon
PaulaF
So its now 1130am, there is still no response from them. I hope they are just taking some time to sort out their feelings on this. I managed to get some sleep last night (surprisingly), although most of it was in front of my computer, at least my chair is comfy. Thank you all for your encouragement.
Hi Andrea,
Good luck and hope all goes well.
Alice
Andrea, I hope things work out for you. I'm sure that must have taken a tremendous amount of courage to do. And, I'm sure they do need a little time to process this, regardless how they end up responding. Be yourself, we can't live a lie or in hiding forever...
Birel
So I just got a call from my brother, and surprisingly he was cool with it, he asked how far along down the road this all is, and if I would be dressing around his kids, which for now that answer is No. His two are very young and I am not comfortable with doing that around them just yet, maybe in couple of years. He thanked me for telling both him and my Dad, when I am early on in the journey.
I was really wanted to let me know that, he will support me in anyway he can. I also got an email from my Dad, who is notoriously bad at emails, telling me to consult with my doctor. However he told my brother that he will support what ever I decide. He is probably going to call when he gets home from his camp, when his girlfriend is not around.
I just want to thank everyone for the encouragement, you girls helped calm my anxiety.
I'm so happy for you with the acceptance you've received. It has to be a giant load off your mind. You were brave to tell them, regardless of the timing. You took the chance, and you've been paid off. Well done you!
Bridgette
