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So something weird happened to me on Twitter, someone sent me a message saying how much they loved me and then sent me their contact info. It freaked me out cause I was like woah, what is going on? I was slightly scared, thinking I had turned on some random guy. Happily I asked someone for some advice, and they gave me some good advice. I told the person I'm not interested in guys, and explained it to him.
Still freaky to know I am attractive to guys, I mean seriously?
I don't know what you've posted on Twitter but from your pics I can say there are CD admirers out there for everyone. The guy was attracted to something you wore... wink wink. Its not a problem unless he stalks you then its a problem and you can block him.
Some guys are just attracted to whatever they think they can get - don't take it personally!
That's not to say you're not attractive - far from it, but, as I am also not attracted to men at all - repulsed is more accurate (It's part of my reason for cross dressing that I find my own masculinity repellent), I have adopted the above as a kind of personal mantra.
It gives men leeway when they hit on me - I understand why they're doing it, and instead of freaking out, I can calmly tell them straight and politely why I am not interested while protecting their egos.
Men have such fragile egos, don't they?
Love Laura
Im not attracted to men either, rather repulsed by men. Though a compliment is a compliment from wherever it comes from. Bit of a boost to the ego
I think you did whats right in telling him you're not interested.
Well he's not on there anymore, Twitter thought his account was strange and suspended it, so that's a good thing. As for what I posted, it was a picture I had on DeviantArt that someone thought I was doing a cosplay of Velma from Scooby-Doo. I don't mind a complement every now and then, but the way he was wording it, he wanted me.
Yeah they do, I thought I had explained it in the bio section that I'm not into guys, but still it just weirded me out. Another crossdresser gave me the advice of telling him I'm not interested. I said I don't mind being friends, but that's all. Though moot point now since for some reason Twitter suspended him.
Thanks, I agree a complement is a complement. I don't mind them every now and then, it makes me feel good about both myself and how I dress, but saying he loved me, yeah that was too much.
Have to play hard to get. Then again some out there just wanting to chat. Then those crazies that wanting more. Be careful giving out personal information on those site. Be careful out there Jessica but have fun too.
Donna
Whoops didnt catch that part, ya thats a bit too much
Stay safe Jessica!
Alice
Dont take too seriously and just move on as you have. There are lots of horny admirers out there projecting and thinking you were looking for sex and showing off his ignorant pick up line.
Yeah, I thought so too.
Oh believe me I'm always careful, I'd hate to wind up on the news as a depressing story. I only really give out contact info to those I really trust.
Yeah, though as far as pickup lines go, this one was a watered down marinara. Weak sauce! (I blame Claptrap from the poker night 2 game for that line)
Thanks, I will.
