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Hi girls something weird just happened to me my sister phoned me this evening and said I've got a photo of a woman on her phone with my phone number, have i just been outed, I'm not sure what is going to happen now, I might ask her to send me a picture message and see if it is really me, I might look at it with my wife and go well don't i look nice as a woman,
Hugs Roz X
Well ... now none of us are going to be able to get to sleep until you give us an update!
Ellie x
PS... for some reason your post originally ended up in 'Crossdresser Heaven FAQs'. I've moved it to the 'General Chat' forum.
Thanks very much Ellie, as soon as i look at my sisters phone I'll let everyone know what happens,
Hugs Roz X 
@rozalyne I’d tell her you got the same thing the other day. No idea how it happened. Tell her to just delete you and you will send her a new contact request. That’s what you did and it worked. Darn phones! Lol
Hi Jill I'll just see how things go, I might be able to bluff it out, the pictures Tracey took of me look nothing like the real me not the man on the outside,
Happy New Year Jill,
Hugs Roz X
@rozalyne sorry to hear this Roz, no one needs that kind of stress… take care… jo
Hi Joanna I'm not really stressed about It it's just one of those things,
Have a Happy New Year sweetie,
Love Roz ❤️
@rozalyne what about the background in the pics, are they familiar to anyone else?
Hi Jill, no there is nothing to worry about there the pictures were taken in Tracey's salon so that's not a problem, I must have been convincing if my sister thought she was looking at a woman,
Love Roz ❤️
my sister phoned me this evening and said I've got a photo of a woman on her phone with my phone number, have i just been outed
How did she get the picture onto her phone and why is your phone number linked to the image? To me, more info is needed, to figure out just how did this happen.
Someone else sent it to her? How is that possible? You accidentally sent it to her? She found it on her own? How?
I'm not sure how all this happened but I'm going to investigate it,
Happy New Year Harriette,
Love Roz ❤️
Hi Anna that's the way I'm thinking it's just nothing to worry about,
Happy New year Anna 🎉,
Love Roz ❤️
Hi girls i managed to change my profile picture on my phone, it's a picture of me with the status of liberty 🗽 in the background, so if it gets sent to my family it won't be me in a dress,
Thank you all for your concern it has been a great big help 🙏,
Love Roz ❤️
@rozalyne you could say that someone has tried to clone you and it needs deleting
Hi Gwen that's a good idea, I'll just see how things go, I'll not comment on it to my sister I'll let sleeping dogs lye,
Love Roz ❤️
I think it was one of those share things where your phone or tablet share data with your contacts, i switched it off so now nothing gets shared with any of my contacts,
Love Roz ❤️
@rozalyne So long as she doesn't mention the incident again, maybe you are safe.
Well I'm not going to mention it, I won't be seeing for awhile so she might have forgotten by then, here's hoping,
Love Roz ❤️
@rozalyne Hi Roz how have things progressed with your "something weird just happened". Hoping its turned out well.
Love Gwen
Hi Gwen i think I've sorted it i changed my profile picture and I'm hoping nothing more will crop up, i won't be seeing my sister for awhile so she might forget about it,
Love Roz ❤️
Wow, what a way to start the new year! I suggest you wait and see what happens. Could very well be nothing. If it does turn out that you're being outed, you can try and spin it off as one of your mates pulling a prank with one of the newfangled AI photo filters to make you look like a woman.
Or maybe you could own it. I mean I think you look stunning!
Hi Chris I'll just play it by ear and see how it goes, hopefully it will all work out,
Happy New Year Chris,
Hugs Roz X 
Hi Roz, this could be serious. For the moment, do nothing. Just see what happens next.
Hi Christine I'm not going to let it worry me I'll just see how things go,
Happy New Year Christine,
Hugs Roz X
Hope everything works out for you Roz. Have a Happy New Year
@allisonwannabe
I'm sure it will Allison,
Happy New Year to you too,
Hugs Roz X
She just got a new sister, I would add, please make sure to give us an update.
Happy New Year 🍷
Hi Carla
It looks that way doesn't it I'm her long lost sister , I'll keep everyone updated with how things turn out, if the worst comes to the worst or it might be the best thing to happen Roz is coming out to the world 🌎
Happy New Year Carla,
Love Roz ❤️
Roz -
Happy New Year
Sorry to hear what happened. I hope things work out for you.
XOXO
Suzanne
Happy New Year Roz. You certainly don't need that sort of thing to deal with at the start of a new year. It is a testament to how amazing you look that she hasn't put two and two together. I hope you can get it sorted out and if it turns out you have to tell your sister, one way to look at it is maybe her finding out was meant to be. I do hope if you do tell her it won't affect your relationship.
A funny episode I had involving my sister was a neighbor spotted me driving down the street as Olivia. When they mentioned a few day's later they saw a woman driving my car I said it was my sister who had borrowed the car. Thankfully they accepted that no questions asked.
Hope it all works out for you.
Hugs Olivia
Thanks very much Olivia, I'm not sure what will happen next, maybe it might be a blessing in the future if i decide to come out,
I'll keep everyone updated on what happens next,
Happy New Year Olivia 🎉,
Love Roz ❤️
I bet you have an iPhone. I bet your sister has an iPhone. I also bet in your contacts you have a picture of yourself crossdressed. iPhones will automatically update your contact information in other peoples iPhoness including the picture.
Thanks very much Cathryn, my sister has just got herself a new phone 📱 and i think you might be right,
Happy New Year Cathryn,
Love Roz ❤️
The nig question is, will your sister care? If not, no worries and just use this as an openining. Of more concern is if this is happening to her phone, what is happeninig on every iPhone in your contact list?
Beware of how many apps have access to your photo gallery. Any such picture taken needs to be move to a secure folder immediately or they will be backed up to variois cloud storage options, and then pop up occasionally when those storage options create things like "this time last year" photo catalogs.
Hi JJ i think I've found the cause, on my email there is a picture of me wearing a dress 👗 it's one of the pictures Tracey took of me when i had my makeover so i need to take it down, I've already disabled the app for other devices so I'm hoping that it doesn't send anymore pictures to my other contacts,
Happy New Year JJ,
Love Roz ❤️
wow not sure the whole situation but if your using Apple phone and add a profile pic it will send it to all your contacts have to watch these phones know a days as well things can leak out unexpectedly sorry to hear this and hope everything turns out well TC
@erinb hi Erin,
That's what i think happened somehow a picture of me wearing a dress 👗 and makeup has been put up as a profile pic and I've got to take it down, it's one that Tracey took when i had my makeover,
Happy New Year Erin 🎉
Love Roz ❤️
Any follow up from your sister?
Wow, Rozalyn! That's an eventful start to the New Year! Sounds like you've got to the root of the problem as to how this happened. Looking forward to hearing about any further updates, if there are any.
Unfortunately, you're post has probably raised my existing paranoia regarding having my photograph taken 'en femme' to a new high!
Judy. X.
Hi Judy it's just one of those things that are sent to try us, I've sorted it now and I'm hoping that's the last I'll hear about hopefully,
All you need to do is go on your phone and turn off the things that share your data with your family and friends and that's what I've done, and if you have a profile picture on your email just make sure it's one of you in drab,
Love Roz ❤️
I have a easy way to solve your problem Roz. Be like this old geeezerzer!!!!! and use and old flip phone. Cant muck anything up then!
OK I do have an old.. i phone with all my music on it. That's onlys cos my I pods died (RIP)
Yes, that has a sim card in it, but it aint used much other than for the music
Caty
Hi Caty i think I've sorted it i just changed my profile picture on my email account, and if anyone says anything I'll just blame it on Ai, problem solved,
Happy New Year Caty 🎉
Love Roz ❤️
Hi Roz, sorry to hear about your pic 'escaping'. I use an iphone but without a SIM as there is far too much happening behind the scenes is so much of today's technology. All my phone pics are transferred by cable to my laptop to prevent this sort of thing happening.
Having said that , I love your pictures at Tracey's. I had a great time there last year - first time out!
Hugs from (almost) another Rosalind
Thanks very much Rosalind i had a lovely time with Tracey, she made me feel so comfortable with everything she did and we chatted about the things i loved to do,
I think i got my pictures sorted out i managed to change my profile picture for one of me with the statue of liberty 🗽 in the background,
The next thing on my todo list is to go out Enn Femme and meet up with some of the girls,
Love Roz ❤️
Thanks very much Rosalind i had a lovely time with Tracey, she made me feel so comfortable with everything she did and we chatted about the things i loved to do,
I think i got my pictures sorted out i managed to change my profile picture for one of me with the statue of liberty 🗽 in the background,
The next thing on my todo list is to go out Enn Femme and meet up with some of the girls,
Love Roz ❤️
