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Okay, so this is going to be pretty tame compared to what some of you ladies do, but it was a big deal to me!
I walked to our local coffee shop today wearing a pair of women's shorts and a women's top. It wasn't overly obvious as neither item was particularly frilly but just knowing I was wearing them, it felt amazing. Nobody commented. Nobody stared even though I walked right past several people. I'm nowhere near ready to go out in a dress or a skirt but at least I have an option to get my outdoor CD fix.
Hi Diana have you been out before ?? As this is a great first step girlfriend and hope for many more for you
Hugs girlfriend
Stephanie
That's a great start Diana, and I quite understand. I think my very first time out in public was in guy clothes, but I was completely underdressed, including pantyhose. The undies and pantyhose of course no one could see, though the feeling of the smooth pantyhose on my legs was amazing, however it was the padded bra which gave me kind of like "A" cup boobs poking out. So I went into a coffee shop for a coffee and a snack like that.
I was so terrified!!! But I didn't look all that out of place, not like having big boobs hanging there, as I wasn't any larger than some guys normally have. As far as I could tell, I didn't get a second glance from anyone at all. Just a regular looking guy getting some lunch. If only they knew!
So, like you said, pretty tame by comparison to others, but a rather nerve wracking experience at the time.
Like the old analogy, you have to learn to walk before you can run, the same idea holds true here. Take baby steps till you get the skill and confidence to go further.
However, like yours, mine was successful trip out, from which I was able to make many more.
Good Going!!
Amy
Hello Diana,
I am so so happy for you. 🌹You just enjoy yourself. Take your time. Find your comfort zone. A little bit at a time Luv. No need to rush...
I am so glad you got out. Its such a wonderful, tranquil feeling.... Pure bliss...😊
Again, I am so happy for you sis
Hugs girlfriend
Natasha💋💋💋
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Stephanie, I've been out in femme shorts before in our local supermarket. But this is the first time I've been out in femme shorts and top. It was just the first of many times. I loved it!
These little things are big things for us! Wearing panties every day and feeling my pants glide over them at work helps calm me and keep me centered. Pantyhose in the winter too. I’m looking for some ladies dress slacks I can wear in drab for the same reason. I found a yellow silk button-up long-sleeved blouse that I think will pass at work with a tie.
Having a little “sexy secret” ALWAYS makes the day go better! Sitting in an important meeting with colleagues, and thinking “If you only knew what I’m wearing under this suit...” keeps me in light spirits during these times that can really bring us down.
Keep up with the “stealth”!!!
Thank you! 🙂
That’s dope^_^. Congrats
Good for you, Diana. Most of us have to work our way up to full-femme mode. I started with ladies' tees, then jeans, and only recently worked up to girly tops and shorts while in stealth mode.
Thats awesome go sista
I have never gone out enfemme ,but love to go out underdressed with panties and pantyhose ,just recently going out with soft cup bra on covering my own smallish 'breasts', what a lovely feeling don't want to take the bra off ,but if the weather gets a hot ,can only wear one layer and I don't want to take a chance as I am a secret dresser . Michelle xx
Diana!!!.....how's your heart girl????....little victories build the confidence, I'm sure you are looking forward to your next trip "out" already..... huggs to you, Grace xx
That sounds great. I dressed like that when I was 17. Then when I was 18 I went fully femme. Going out in shorts and top was comfortable to me. I even went shopping a lot in that attire. I even added platform wedges to that outfit.
Then when I was 18 and went fully femme, going out in that attire took a whole new level of, courage. I guess it' good to start out small and gradually build up.
Hi Diana,
Congratulations! Taking that first step is huge! I've been out in women's shorts and jeans. I'd like to add a nice top to my next adventure.
Congrats on your first steps. I remember my first time out wearing women’ jeans over my panties, a bra and forms, sweater and jacket. I had to drive to a corner store. I tossed the jacket on the seat, drove to the store, got out of the car put on my jacket and went in . My first thought was what to say if confronted, when that did not happen I was elated.
