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I posted the other day about me not having any desire to be Cerys.... It's been ten days. Today, I decided That I would dress as Cerys when I got up. New white Jumper, short (real) leather skirt, Boots, jewellery, a spray or two of perfume....
Nothing, Nada... It's doing nothing for me. I chose a nice outfit in the hope that it would kick something, but no. In fact, it's annoying me. My choice of underwear require me to get half undressed to go to the toilet. The zip on my boots is catching in my tights, and the two magnetic balls on my bracelet keep getting attracted to the magnets in the speakers of the laptop.
We're going to friends for NYE and I have an outfit planned for that, but the way things are going, I'll be in Jeans and a jumper!
Cerys just isn't doing it for me at the mo. If my wife decides that she wants to go somewhere today, I'll probably get changed.
Isn't it strange how the mind works. I'm sure the need/desire will kick in soon enough.
Cerys.
My choice of underwear require me to get half undressed to go to the toilet.
It used to be that bloomers had a pee slit. Some modern underwear can't be designed in that practical way.
Give it time. I've found that when the same happened to me, it came back with a vengeance after some time or when I got triggered by something I saw. There were times when I wondered if it would ever come back but it always did. It wasn't something that I could force to happen, I just needed to really feel it.
In my case, when I stopped having the temporary lapses in interest, that was when I know I was really trans. I just wanted to be authentic all of the time.
In any event, enjoy NYE however you decide to approach it!
Yea I have gone for a time with no desire as well and then suddenly it hits me with a vengeance. I dont have a clue what triggers it but it returns every time. Its like we have no control over it but have learned to just accept it as something in our genes or psyche.
Just as I would advise someone having the ‘strange’ feelings to crossdress to just go with the flow and see where they lead, I would tell you the same. People tend to want to see patterns and reasons, and sometimes the complex human brain doesn’t follow those rules - or it least, not in a way we can make sense of.
Your journey is yours. No need for alarm, just behave as you feel fits the moment. 🙂
