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So I want to thank all the ladies here. Some know that I have a habit of purging alot. You all gave me much support. I did what some mentioned and put all my girl things away in a container and in the back of the closet. So no purge. Let’s face it I spend a lot of money on my attire.
so the feelings of dressing returned. I pulled out the box and got dressed and had so much fun. I tried this dress with those shoes, those shoes with this dress. Which panties didn’t have lines and it was like a whole day of shopping. It was glorious and of course it ended with ordering a few things.
so thank you for all the support and I love you all.
I'm glad we've saved you even a little money, Rosiebeth. What you do with it is up to you but I can't think of a better way to spend it 😊.
Just today I said, in a reply, we don't just claim to give each other support, we do it. So nice to hear that you enjoy it.
Allie x
@rosiebeth Good for you Rosiebeth. What a lovely experience for you. I think it's generally agreed that this just doesn't go away. I shut Chrissie away for 40 years and she's come back in spades. I'm not handling it very well 😢 xx.
@chrisfp99 I’m sorry if you are struggling. Feel free to send me text and we can chat.
OMG! Three-point shot for the win! Purge is the ugliest word in our vernacular. So glad that didn't happen.
Yes, the girls on CDH walk their talk. Glad we were able to help.
Liz xx
@rosiebeth It's so great that it worked out for you Rosiebeth! While I will never do it again, I purged a number of times in the past. The waste of money is just foolish but for me, the feeling of losing some things that I loved to wear is worse! Like my Nine West boots, shearling jacket......etc......
A wonderful feeling Rosiebeth and I too have a problem ordering online when dressed
Rosiebeth, I’m so happy that you’re happy. It never really goes away. It seems best to just embrace it when you can and be happy. 🥰
Excellent decision, probably most of us have done it at one point in our life. I have done it around 4 times, but now when the desire to dress diminishes, I just put everything away, especially my shoes as they are good quality therefore not cheap.
Hi Rosiebeth,
Happy to hear you’re doing much better and letting Rosiebeth out. Hope you found some lovely items for Spring. Let your smiles out.
Alice
True, purging is mostly just a waste of time and money. I have never really purged, but did a semi-purge once, but mostly things I didn't like anyway and kept a small handful of things and continued wearing them. Since then I have just come to the inevitable conclusion that I am going to wear femme things until I leave this world.
I've purged before. Fortunately, I hadn't accumulated much so the losses weren't catastrophic. When I feel like doing so these days, it's more along the lines of "putting things in a box, and hoping the desire passes."
Fortunately, it never does, or, at least, not for long.
Kathe
