Welcome to Crossdresser Heaven, a safe and welcoming place for everyone in the crossdresser community.
Join Crossdresser Heaven today to participate in the forums.
I recently told one of my best friends that I crossdress. She was surprised and supportive. She asked if she could see me dressed. She actually helped me pick out one of my outfits. I dressed right in front of her. She also helped me with my makeup and wig. She saw my wardrobe and was surprised. We are the same size in clothing and shoes. So she started dressing up in my clothing with me. It was nice she did that for me. She asked is she could borrow a outfit or two and my pumps
Wonderful and so happy for you.. certainly an amazing experience for you and having her know now it sounds like many more beautiful times ahead.
Stephanie 🌹
What a fantastic experience that must have been Shawnee. To open up to a dear friend and be met not only by acceptance, but active support, is a dream and hope for everyone.
Tho being the same size, it does sound like there may be future fights over the clothes. Lol
Stevie
What a wonderful experience that must of been for you Shawnee! I hope you and your friend can have many outings together as girlfriends. 🙂
Take Care,
Rachel
Lol. She already borrowed an outfit and my black ankle strap pumps. We are going shopping for panties and bras.
Hi Shawnee Its always so special when you have a friend that enjoys dressing up and feeling cute and pretty as much as you do. I hope its a two way street when it come to borrowing. She has so much to teach you I am sure. Have fun sharing your feelings about what makes each other feel better about each other. Its amazing how much better we can feel about ourselves when you find someone that is supportive and at the very least try's to understand how we feel is right for you.
Luv Stephanie
I am completely out in public now, 100%, although now and then I will have to go somewhere that has only seen me as a male. Point is that I do not hide or change clothes just to accommodate someone or some place. Reactions, comments, and acceptance varies.
In more conservative settings, such as military veterans' organizations, I expect to encounter a little negative feedback. However, I have never been asked to leave, because of my attire. Moreover, most fellow veterans could care less and view my being a CD as my personal business.
I have one male neighbor, out of my entire subdivision, who does not approve. He is Mr Macho, and sometimes I wonder what he is hiding in his personal world. We are on speaking terms but only when necessary. Incidentally, his wife and daughter love seeing me cross dressed and will ask me all sorts of girly questions and make girly comments.
Among family members, they are all accepting, except for one sister-in-law with whom I continually get into Scriptural discussions with. She is a charasmatic/Pentacostal and will attempt to condemn my being a CD, using the Bible. I am a Bible-believing Christian but not a Pentacostal, and I will argue right back at her, using the very same Scriptures.
Then there is an old Navy shipmate who is religious, but not a Bible-believing Christian. He's Catholic, and on that basis alone, he knows my being a CD is wrong. Unlike my sister-in-law, there is really no way to have a discussion with him, he just "knows" I should not cross dress.
Ladies, embrace your femininity! It is part of your personality, not a separate personality, and it needs to be let free, for all to see.
Free to be she!
Some men play golf. I play girl.
God made you, God loves you. Go thou and do likewise. What else is there?
[postquote quote=370328]
Hang on to that friend. She is the best.
Janice
XOXO
I am so happy for you! Having friend like that is awesome. 💕
Hi Shawnee,
What a great friend! You are so lucky.
Alice
Hi Shawnee,
That is really awsome to have a best friend like that.
Now you have a shopping buddy too what fun.
Patty
About 30 years ago I told my two best mates, (fellas with whom I went to secondary school), plus a Canadian lady whom I met in my overseas work travels. She has no brothers, I have no sisters, but we have been "as good as" brother and sister ever since.
My mates accepted it, but only one ever saw photos of Caty. Sadly he passed two years ago.They even put up with lots of bad "one liners" about Caty and her dressing.
My "sister" was very very supportive, but did not wish to see me dressed. She is very, very broad minded and the fact she was living in Toronto's gay quarter at the time may have helped!!
About 20 years ago, Caty went into hibernation for quite a while.. Why does not matter here and "all of the above", except my "departed mate" thought then and still do that the hibernation is still ongoing.
But of course its not and I really don't see the point in raising the subject with the two remaining people. Wont achieve much, so...
Last but by no means least, via CDH and a now almost defunct Australian site, I am very good"internet" friends with about another 10-12 CD's, three of whom live close to me and I have regular coffees with one of them.. Hi Dani... That's when we are not in stage 4 "tight as"... Bug lockdown.
Happy dressing
Caty
Yes. It’s awesome. We dress in front of each other and she gives me advice how to match clothing and shoes
