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In a few other conversations I have mentioned my favorite item of clothing is bras. I'm up to the highest count for me at a dozen. <giggles>
I picked up a Torrid "shirt bra" sort of like a sports bra with no shaping or very little. It has skulls on it. Hey, I can pretend I'm trendy - right? I really like it and another great thing, under a hoodie no one would know. I sort of accidentally proved that.
With my SO - it is DADT - and don't "flaunt" whatever that means. Sorry I digress...
I have been shopping at Poshmark lately - not the cheapest but then again not the most expensive. There are way too many bras on there that I love. I've gotten a few that I am really fond of. But the one I got yesterday is top of the heap now. I can just look at it and feel happy but putting it on - wow! Top of the charts. A bra is that item that when I put it on I feel the most femme, calm and happy. It's like the hug I've always wanted. But more. Almost ethereal.
It's a Cacique in a yellow flowered pattern, front clasp (my first) with the straps and lace going across your back similar to a racerback(?). I'm in love. The front hook, the brilliant colors, the straps across the back. Ahhh... It's like I want to tell it "where have you been all my life"? LOL.
I just had to tell someone. Thank you for letting me share. Comment as you like - tell me your current "absolute" favorite!
PS I have another Cacique coming with front hook - read & black. Ha ha!
Oh Dani, there's nothing more feminine than a well fitting bra. Except maybe heels. And a nice dress. Girly hair. Makeup. Stockings and a suspender belt. Nails. Oh stop it Chrissie! xx.
I love all my bras. My smaller cup push up bras which I can wear without forms. I've got enough up top to form some cleavage. And my larger cup bras for my forms look great under my clothes. I also have been unable to find a nice fitting front closure bra, but I have no problem hooking up in the back. I love talking under things
Much as O love bras and I've got plenty of them, my favourite is hosiery, I love wearing them over freshly smooth legs
Dani -
How wonderful for you, finding a bra that fits is so nice.
I must agree that wearing a bra is a very femme thing. I have front closure, back closure an pull over bras and love them all. The front closure ones I have I got from Woman Within (I love that name) and they have eight hook and loop clips. My bras are either B cup or stretch cups to mold to the body. I come close to filling the B cups and the others just mold to me. I don't have breast forms but do have breast enhancers I will wear sometimes for a cleaner look in some of my dresses. I went to Torrid once and got a bra fitting and was told I'm a 44B, it is nice having my own breasts, I'm sur it is because of age and meds but no matter why they are mine and I love them.
XOXO
Suzanne
Once you have put your first Bra on there's no going back, I must have about 15 to 20 Bra's I've not counted them i love lacey one's the most, I'm after buying a new one in green i haven't got a green one of course I'll buy the matching panties and then maybe green holdups,
Hugs Roz 🫂
I have no trouble fastening a bra behind my back but I admit that long-line bras can be more difficult to do (with ten or more hooks and eyes) and it's really annoying if you miss one and have to unhook to put it right.
I don't have one, but there used to be quite a few long-line bras made with front fastening and I can see the attraction of that. I did have a front fastening (not completely open) corselette and that made getting into it somewhat easier.
I think I must have about 20 bras now. They don’t all fit me but I love their look and feel.
I bought a new one last weekend. It’s a 36A “two sizes bigger” bra which fits perfectly and gives me super perky boobs without any need for inserts or forms. It’s also the first black one I’ve ever bought as I normally prefer bright white or pretty patterns. I had to get some black panties and glossy pantyhose to match. I don’t know whether the salesman worked me out or not - but it didn’t matter.
I can’t wait to wear them with a black shift dress I bought recently…!
What is a "36A two sizes bigger"?
I do that a lot when wearing a dress or blouse. It doesn't look right without projection and shape. But I feel better if I don't add artificial shape but just an unpadded bra that shows what I have .not much, but it's all me , and aside from the fact most dresses and blouses look better with shape, not all women have much but still look good to me. So I feel I'm on the fem spectrum at least, without being artificial, which has its own pleasures. I feel I NEED a bra when wearing one without padding that can conform to what shape I have and not looking totally flat-chested.