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The fates are conspiring against me

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(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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Hi girls. So I'm sitting here late on Thursday evening. My wife and younger daughter are heading for Croatia in the early hours of tomorrow. Eleven months of planning have brought me to the anticipation of spending 10 days entirely en femme. Amazon basket fully loaded and 3 dresses and a skirt in my Roman basket.

Of course, life's not like that, and a number of challenges have presented themselves. 

1. My younger daughter's flat has a sudden mouse infestation. I have, not unreasonably, been deputed to sort this out in her absence. As I see it this means calling in pest control, at not inconsiderable expense. But more poignantly I imagine this will involve me receiving a call at a completely unpredictable time to allow them access to the property.

2. We have had landscape gardeners in for the last couple of weeks. I didn't want this work done. It's expensive and I didn't really see much benefit, but the wife always wins these things in the end. They were supposed to finish last week but have been absent on a number of days, and there's still work to be done. If it's not finished tomorrow they'll be back next week. Which days are unclear.

3. My elder daughter, who is not on the Europe trip, is 6 months pregnant. They've been trying for years so it's a great blessing. Whilst we meet up regularly she's just said something I've never heard her say before, which is that she's thinking of popping over at the weekend, or maybe in the week if her work schedule allows. Her husband is away on a stag weekend. All too vague for comfort.

The bottom line is that I think my grandiose plans have gone out the window. 3 dresses and a cheeky short skirt are not going to happen. I'm sort of clinging on to a slight hope that with a few judicious conversations I may be able to free up a safe day. Sort of Chrissie lite. I don't know if I can swing it but I'll do my best. Frankly I'm heartbroken but we'll see if something can be salvaged. I feel a bit of a fraud after my big build up 😂.

At least I still have my makeover to look forward to next Friday. Sorry to vent girls, but I guess normal life often just gets in the way of our femme dreams.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Lady
(@jillleanne)
Joined: 2 years ago

Prominent Member     Renfrew, Ontario, Canada
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@chrisfp99 omg, I remember days like that in the past. The frustration you feel is completely understandable. You just want to be able to express your feminine self but society is getting in your way. Hopefully you can get some you time in whilst all these other interruptions in life try to mess with you. I’ll be thinking of you during this time.

hugs, Jilleanne

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
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Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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Thanks Jill for your understanding xx.

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(@isabella22)
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Reputable Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
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@chrisfp99 keep high hopes and be ready to take any advantage that presents itself. At least none of them will venture in your bedroom where you can lay out the clothes you want to wear. This happens to me and many others. Even with an accepting partner, she does seem to fully understand the urge to dress. Good luck.

Denise

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(@missylinda)
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Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
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@chrisfp99  I am confident you will find days for chrissie.  Mouse, 1 visit, couple of hours, while the gardeners work, when you, the bill payer tell them to.  then lean on them to finnish.  Your  old buddies just came to town so can’t hang out with pregnant daughter.  I feel like I should be a wedding planner.  You will get there, just put on the big girl panties. Hugs. Perky❤️

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@chrisfp99 

Hey Chrissie!  NO FRAUD!  You can make this work!  Here's a few ideas.

Start on the mice right away.  A trip to the local home improvement store for pest supplies.  It won't cost much.  You'll have 10 days to get the infestation under control.  Save the exterminator for later if necessary.

Landscapers work on your schedule.  Period.  They've already jerked you around.  Tell them if they're not done tomorrow, they have to come back in 10 days.  Remind them there are plenty of good landscapers out there.

You're not available for visits.  Friends/projects/personal time/whatever.  Your daughter can visit some other time.  Or pick a day and tell her this is what you have.  Make your home look unoccupied in case she does a drive by. 

Use the money you'd spend on an exterminator for a few nights at a hotel.

/EA

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Lady
(@jillleanne)
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Prominent Member     Renfrew, Ontario, Canada
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@emilyalt and don’t forget to tell everyone you know, you might have Covid 19. That’ll keep away.

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@jillleanne @emilyalt @chrisfp99 

Plus a big cross painted on your front door in blood, a sign in the front garden saying 'BEWARE OF THE KRAKEN'  and a 100 metre perimeter sealed off with Biohazard tape.

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(@emmat)
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@chrisfp99 hi Chrissy. So sorry to hear of your woes / frustration. A famous adage comes to mind. "Life is what happens when you're making other plans". Try not to dwell on it, just move on and I'm sure you'll manage to come up with alternative plans. Not as good as you envisaged maybe, but ... 

And touch wood, your makeover will tingle you to your toes !!!

Emma xxx

 

 

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(@christineth)
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@chrisfp99

Chrissie, I really feel for you girl.  Maybe you can ‘just do evenings’ rather than all day.  But even during the day…you can always underdress and be ready to slip on one of those dresses when the opportunity comes.

Hope you get at least some time to dress and enjoy the make over, and if you do, we certainly want to see some photos.

hugs

Christine

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(@jacquelinelarkspur)
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Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 

Aww, Chrissie, what rotten luck! I'm gutted for you. Stuff like this always happens in threes.

You could try telling the post control people when you're available for that call,  rather than trusting to their timetable. They're unlikely to come in the evenings,  so there's that. Putting off the landscapers would invite some awkward questions from your wife on her return, though. The same goes for your eldest daughter, too. Perhaps you can prearrange her visit so that it's not a surprise?

I hope things turn out well enough for you to have some good Chrissie time. And you're no fraud!

Hugs

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(@lucyb112)
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@chrisfp99 

Hi Chrissie,

You’re definitely not a fraud lovely.

Having somewhere to vent is one of the reasons you’re here, and why we all want to help.

The first thing to remember is all is not lost. 
You can still get a good bit of Chrissie time.

With the mice I would put some poison down and leave it for a few days. They’re more likely to venture out while the place is quiet anyway. 
You could see how that goes and then  contact the pest control people next week. There’s a good chance they won’t be able to get there straight away tbh.

As for your daughter visiting, just try and tie her down to a time. Tell her you’ve got a couple of trips out planned while everyone is away. 

Same with the landscape people. If they’re not going to finish today, tell them you need to know when they’re coming next week if they need to. If they leave it vague and then don’t turn up, you’ll be even more frustrated! 

Finally, you’ve still got the makeover to look forward to. If you look ANYTHING like you did after the last one, you’ll feel incredible!

Get those big girl pants on and take control of the situation.

And don’t forget we’re here whenever you need to vent, so feel free.

Big Hugs

Lucy xxx

 

 

 

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(@clarissa2)
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Honorable Member     jutland, Denmark
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@lucyb112 crossdressing can make you streetwise 😎 😎 we get good at excuses and explanations and little lies just to be able to dress up. Thumbs Up

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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Thanks Clarissa. Ideally I'd prefer not to have to resort to those tactics but hey ... xx.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
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Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 I really hope you can work out space for this. Even if just for evenings, I hope you can still find your femme time. I know you've lost good chunks of days, but I think if you go stealth mode during day time when you have to you still get the space for yourself. I go through life with smooth legs, painted toenails and I wear shorts most of the time (with knickers underneath!) so even in stealth, Anna is here. I think you just need to work out how you can still make the best of the situation. Remember to enjoy your makeover and have fun when you can. 

There's still a lot you can get away with during the day and then go full Chrissie mode when you can, make evenings a full-on treat for yourself.

Hugs Anna xx 

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(@finallyfiona)
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    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 Chrissie my dear, you are most definitely not a fraud, it's obvious from your posts how greatly you have genuinely been looking forward to next week.  This news is a setback, but I'm with everyone else here that it's most definitely not a raincheck.  If anything, I'm seeing these challenges as opportunities 🙂

Why not wait en femme in the flat for the exterminator (as long as no interior cams!).  I had my TV aerial sorted out on my return to my house this week, while partially en femme, just missing my makeup and wig.  When I booked the appointment over the phone I gave my name as Fiona and told them to let the engineer know I would be opening the door to him in a dress (I think the earrings took him by surprise though! 😉 )  It was absolutely fine!

With the landscapers, you're the customer and that makes you queen.  You could offer them a bonus to turn up and finish the job on a set day, and/or not to mention that you were en femme.  Again, it's fine, they're no-one in your life and they'll probably have seen some out-of-the-ordinary things before anyway.

With the daughter, invite her for a specific day & time for a good long chat.  What you talk about is up to you but like I said, I see an opportunity 🙂

Carpe diem my lovely! 🙂

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

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(@alexina)
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Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 

Not a fraud at all, Chrissie! Sod's Law springs to mind 🙄.

From what you've said in the past, I don't expect there's a snowball's chance in a warm place that you'll risk doing anything en femme if there's even a slight possibility of being outed. I can understand that well.

There's a few decent suggestions here though, I certainly advocate assertively fixing times in stone and locking and not answering the door to anyone selfish enough to ignore them.

Yes, sometimes the seagull of the universe drops one on our head and then laughs hysterically at our discomfort.

In these cases all we can do is embrace stoicism and do what we can.

I hope you can negotiate these obstacles with style and aplomb, hon, you more than deserve your Chrissie time.

Hugs 

Allie x

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Lady
(@harriette)
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Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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@chrisfp99 I know that you were so looking forward to this time, but life happens.

However, all may not be lost. After your daughter visits, she likely won't be back for a while, right? Maybe you can schedule the visit at your convenience, not hers.

Also, it sounds like most of your evenings / nights could be uninterrupted. That doesn't do much to help with your make-up, though.

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@chrisfp99 Chrissie, opportunities will bring challenges. I'm sure and sure all of us in CDH will be thinking of you and how you can still enjoy your planned time to see your femme dream come true.

xxx

Jamie

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Lady
(@candycross)
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Honorable Member     Queensland, Australia
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@chrisfp99 oh that's terrible, how disappointing,  l guess your make over is something. As far as venting, well that's what we are here for, to give support to each other when needed, if you need to vent than keep on venting.  xx  jane

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Lady
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  • @chrisfp99 How infuriating! How about booking yourself into a hotel during the daytime under the guise of 'being out for the day'? You won't get interrupted and can dress away to your heart's content.
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(@lauren114)
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Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
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@chrisfp99 I feel your frustration so much.  I can't tell you how many times I have had my big plans derailed by things outside my control.  Hopefully, you will be able to salvage at least a few days to let Chrissie out.   Its things like this that made me really appreciate the times that things worked out and I was able to be my authentic self.

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(@cdashley)
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Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
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@chrisfp99 I feel your pain as I’ve experienced this so many times. Every time I plan a nice crossdressing schedule with wife gone( which isn’t a big deal as she knows everything) or son something comes up that throws a wrench into my plans. I’ve been let down so many times that now I know better to plan these days as it doesn’t always pan out. Then I end up upset/ grumpy about it.

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@chrisfp99 Wow, when it rains it pours. Sorry to see how the stars aligned to derail your plans. But we all know here that you are a champion of patience. Until next time right? Thanks for sharing.

Hugs, Tamiya

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
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Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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I'm over it Tamiya. At least I got my makeover xx.

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@chrisfp99 absolutely, and glamorously done!

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(@bw)
Active Member     Sydney, New South Wales, Australia
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Chrissie,

The mouse problem can be resolved with poisson which is what the pest guys would probably use.

You can get it at hardware stores.  It seems that the flat will be available and that the landscape gardeners won`t be there .

Coast is clear have fun my dear.

 

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(@caroline2k)
Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 

Ah, Chrissie, I so sympathise with you. So many times in my closet days did I look forward to extended periods of opportunity, only for them to be dashed for some reason or other. It's such a feeling of disappointment that it is almost palpable, isn't it?

I do hope you manage to find at least some time to be able to indulge yourself.

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Topic starter
(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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Thank you girls for all your suggestions, including some that require me to be more assertive and practical than I am naturally 😂. I'm gonna spend today formulating a plan to rescue at least a couple of days xx. 

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(@oliviac)
Prominent Member     Sydney, New South Wales, Australia
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Chrissie

Firstly all these are things that have happened that are not your doing so you are definitely not a fraud. I am so sorry to hear you have all these spanners in the works that might limit the Chrissie time you will have but as the other girls have said all is not lost. With the landscapers you are the customer so it is no problem to tell them it doesn't suit you for them to come for the next 10 days. 

The other girls ideas to buy some mouse baits and just chuck them in her apartment is excellent and there is no reason when you are buying them and putting them in the apartment why you cant be all female under your pants and jumper. 

Congrats that your daughter is expecting a little one. As some have suggested I think if you let her know you have a few plans for the week and will be out and about a bit so she will have to call and check with you if you are going to be around. When talking to her if you can get an idea of what her schedule for the week is it will give you some times where you know she won't be thinking at all about visiting you.

I wish you all the best Chrissie and hope you have an amazing week. I'm looking forward to hearing all about it.

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(@blondsherri)
Honorable Member     Missoula, Montana, United States of America
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Oh Chrissie, there's really nothing more that I can add to this that already hasn't been said. Know though that I've been here in Montana, excited and waiting for your time to come and totally feel your pain, been there, done that. My only suggestion is that you don't purge and instead hide your dresses well, so that even if you only have the afternoon to dress, you can slip one of those cuties on and feel the thrill, if only for a brief moment.

I do look forward for the make over pictures though!

Sherri

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(@rebeccabaxter)
    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Ah, the best-laid plans of mice (sorry) and men (or ladies in this case)...

 

Sorry it's all turning to s***, I know you've been planning this for ages.

 

Big hug

Becca

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Sorry to hear about your situation, Chrissie. However, I am looking forward to seeing your makeover pictures. Cindy is an absolute magician. 

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(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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Hey girls. It is with a heavy heart that I've concluded I cannot go through with my desire to dress this week. The challenges I've already outlined, plus some unexpected interactions with friends and neighbours, have led me to conclude that I don't see a way to have a comfortable and relaxing opportunity to transform into my femme side. I thank all you ladies for your support and helpful suggestions but I can't be doing with lies and subterfuge. As a man I'm so laid back as to be almost comatose but this whole business has left me so stressed. I've been agonising over how to handle things satisfactorily but I haven't managed to find a solution that's going to work comfortably. Heck, some of you wonderful girls are out and about, and I can't even find a way to dress with 10 days to myself. I repeat that I feel a bit of a fraud, and that I've let you lovely ladies down. Frankly I'm heartbroken.

I've still got my makeover on Friday, so all is not lost. And I'm devoting Thursday to another, less time consuming, 'minority interest'. Don't ask 😂. Once again thank you lovely lot for your support. Next time maybe, if there is a next time.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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(@alexina)
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Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 

Chrissie, you know your own mind, you are making your own decision and accepting the consequences, no-one can aspire to more and I salute you for it.

At the same time, I feel your frustration and know the stress involved in being stymied at every turn! I know you'll salvage what you can and hope you don't let it detract from the joy of your makeover.

Hugs 

Allie x

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Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 

Chrissie, you haven't let anybody down, and you are not a fraud. These things happen, and there will be other opportunities for you. Take advantage of those,  and enjoy your makeover on Friday. 

Hugs

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Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 

We feel your frustration Chrissie, and it must be magnified tenfold when you have so few opportunities to dress.

You know you better than the rest of us, and if the whole thing is causing you such stress, then you’re making the best, if not the easiest, decision.

One thing I will take you to task on though. I know you feel a fraud, but as I said last week, you certainly are not one! Life just has a habit of getting in the way sometimes. 

I think I speak for a lot of people when I say that are an extremely valued member of this little community of ours. Your thoughtful responses and insights on these forums is wonderful. You have a lot of friends here.

Big Hugs

Lucy xxx

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(@chrisfp99)
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Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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Lucy this is such a sweet message. Thank you so much lovely xx.

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(@finallyfiona)
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    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 Oh Chrissie, I feel for you 🤗.  I'm so sorry to read this, but at the end of the day you've got to do what's right for you, and stress certainly isn't that. I'll say again, as many other girls have in their responses, you're no fraud sweetheart, you are quite obviously a frustrated girl beset by circumstances beyond her control.  I hope you are able to get the greatest fulfilment from the makeover, after what you've had to let go of this week you deserve it, and I know I'm not the only one who's looking forward to seeing your light shining in the photos.  Fingers crossed for more Chrissie times to come in the future, too 🙂

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

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(@annaredhead)
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Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 Chrissie, I am sorry that your plans have not worked out. However, I hope you have a truly wonderful makeover day.

Hugs, Anna xx

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Lady
(@kerrismith)
Prominent Member     Belvidere, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Chrissy,  I think you should thank God that your family still loves you.  My wife left me and my daughter disowned my.  I haven’t seen her in over two years.  That is grief.  You will have opportunities to be Chrissy, but cherish your loved ones when you can. They may not always be there,

Hugs,

Kerri

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(@chrisfp99)
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Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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Kerri, thank you so much for such a sweet and profound response. I'm so sorry that you've had family issues and I'm so grateful for you giving me such a great perspective in reminding me of my priorities. As you say, there will be another opportunity to be Chrissie. 

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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(@kerrismith)
Prominent Member     Belvidere, Illinois, United States of America
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Thanks Chrissy and I wish only the best for you.

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Lady
(@andreauk)
Honorable Member     CAMBRIDGE, Cambridgeshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Chrissie

Tell me about it I have been there so many times........ But your time will come, hopefully with out interruption, then you have the feeling of complete happiness and bliss. It is very difficult and very frustrating at times, but things will get better, hopefully, and the the time for dressing will come at some point. Good luck, I hope it all works out for you.........

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(@blondsherri)
Honorable Member     Missoula, Montana, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Oh Chrissie, I am so sorry for your time being taken from you, but a fraud your certainly are not. I think the fact that you can except the reality of the situation thrown at you proves that, remember your comfort zone is far more important than forcing yourself into a place you really don't feel good in. I would suggest though that when you're setting those mouse traps, that you're wear those silky panties, it will help put a little smile in your heart and no one but you will know why. Have a wonderful day Thursday and do enjoy your makeover to it's fullest!

Sherri

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(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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Girls, I'm feeling quite overwhelmed by your love and support in my time of crisis (first world problems 😂). I'm feeling quite emotional, not something that usually happens in drab mode. So many understanding and practical responses, but significantly you all seem to inherently grasp where I am mentally, and given my head space I wouldn't have found the profound satisfaction I was seeking. I still have the makeover to come and I'm sure I'll post some pics, but I do wonder if I'll ever get the chance to dress at home again. That's hard to take. Once again thank you my lovelies.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Lady
(@harriette)
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Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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Posted by: @chrisfp99

 I do wonder if I'll ever get the chance to dress at home again. That's hard to take.

This is one of the risks when we remain in the closet, aside from the risks of coming out of the closet. So long as your wife / family go on future trips, you will probably have more opportunities to dress. Just don't plan any major renovations around that time.

I feel for you, Chrissie. In fact, I wish that I could have the same kind of experience, which is why I lived vicariously through your last one. You are an inspiration.

 

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(@chrisfp99)
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Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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Thank you Harriette. I hope your situation is settling down xx.

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Lady
(@harriette)
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Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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@chrisfp99 I 'm working on it.

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(@jacquelinelarkspur)
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Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@chrisfp99 

Never say never, Chrissie. We always find a way!

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(@fembecky)
Noble Member     Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Chrissie, I really feel for you ... after so much anticipation, planning, preparing ... But as everyone has said, there is absolutely nothing fraudulent about this; it just brings back my memories of project planning memes: "Murphy's Law: If anything can go wrong, it will" together with its corollary "Murphy was an optimist".

When I retired, my opportunities for closet crossdressing when away on business ended; I thought "That's it - no more CD for me". But 6 years later the opportunities emerged, things started to change and now I am able to CD openly. So just keep the thought in mind that one day new opportunities may well emerge.

Meanwhile, relish every moment of Friday's makeover. Have a good long chat with the makeover artist (though you might get told to be quiet, occasionally, as the transformation progresses 😉 ), and hopefully you will be able to share the beauty of the final result with us.

And a last thought - would you ever be able to take a day or two away on a break by yourself?

Anyway, many hugs from me, Rebecca xxx

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