The List

The List

General Overview of “The List,” I’m sure that there are many items that I missed that could’ve been added. Though this should suffice for an “out the door” general start reference for communication with your Partner/SO.

Other Variations of the list can be made from this as well to fit whatever you need (IE; Forced Feminization/Sissification, Etc.)

The way me and my SO utilized the rough draft of this list was to label each item as; Green – for “I am good with this” / Yellow – for “I am on the fence about this” / Orange – for “I could be convinced to do this” / Red – for “No, I am not okay with this”

• Group 1 – Under Clothing – General Wear and Use
• • Panties, Bra, Hosiery, Etc.
• • Underdressing beneath regular wear
• • Underdressing with Feminine attire
• Group 2 – Nails – Proper Care and Maintenance
• • Nail Length
• • Fake nails
• • Buff and Polishing
• • Manicures
• • Pedicures
• • Nail Polish
• • • Clear Coat
• • • Colors
• Group 3 – Wearing Feminine Clothing
• • Wearing Feminine Clothing
• • Wearing within the home
• • Wearing in public
• • Accessories (IE; Jewelry)
• • Wigs
• • Make up
• • Lashes
• • Plucking Eyebrows
• • Breast Enhancing items (IE; Forms, padding, breastplate, etc.)
• Group 4 – Body Modifications
• • Piercings
• • Hair Length
• • Shaving/Waxing/Epilating/etc.
• • Supplements
• • HRT
• • Implants
• • Surgeries
• Group 5 – Female mannerisms and more
• • Female Voice
• • Use of other pronouns
• • Use of other name(s)
• • Female Mannerisms (IE; Walking the walk, twirling hair, crossing legs, etc.)
• Group 6 – Girls Nights
• • Time in femme with your partner/SO having a “Girls” night
• • Implies whatever you feel consists of a “Girls” night
• • Inviting other girls over for “Girls” night
• • Agreed upon list of those that you are both okay with
• • Crossdressing for a “Girls” night
• • Whether or not it is acceptable to dress up in feminine attire for a “Girls” night
• Group 7 – Shopping
• • Partner/SO willing to go shopping for you
• • Receiving gifts from your Partner/SO
• • Going shopping for feminine attire/accessories with Partner/SO
• • Having Partner/SO pick out outfits/accessories for you
• • Picking out outfits for your Partner/SO
• • Shopping alone for Feminine attire/accessories for either yourself or your Partner/SO
• Group 8 – Spa Days – Mani/Pedi
• • Going out alone for a Spa Day and/or Mani/Pedi
• • Going out with your Partner/SO for a spa day and/or Mani/Pedi
• Group 9 – Privacy of Crossdressing
• • Agreed upon terms of who gets to know about your crossdressing
• Group 10 – Intimate/Bedroom
• • Leaving this group blank for items, add the items, or scenarios that apply.
• • This group can be as detailed and as in depth as you feel you need to communicate with your partner(s).
• • This is also a good group to dictate which Kinks you may or may not have
• Group 11 – Boundaries and Exceptions
• • Leaving this group blank as well, as boundaries and exceptions will be different for everyone.