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Well today I took another step... after talking to you ladies the last few days... I went to goodwill... to buy my first bras... (wanted to start there so I could see what fits and looks better....) the selection was relatively small sadly... but I did what I normally don’t when my girlfriend and I go and looked myself... it was kinda awkward this time but I think as I shop more it will get better... but in the end I walked out with a blue and grey sports bra and a 34c black Lacey bra... which I’m currently wearing... it’s gonna take some getting use too but it feels great... the cup size is only a little bigger than I am naturally after I put it on... i think a c push-up or even a b- might work wonders for my natural cleavage but it’s a wonderful feeling
thank you all for your advice on what I should do. Now to get my hair looking good and to learn how to do make up
Tonya.
I'm not going to repeat the obvious....but if in doubt....just ask....anything!!!!..
Grace x
congrats Tonya for going through more steps before know it be 2 stepping through it all.
Thank you. I’m currently looking for a quick hairstyle that won’t take much time to do...
Thank you. I think it’s gonna be awhile before I’m 100% comfortable buying them... and I think this is the hardest part for my girlfriend so far... she seemed really uncomfortable with me buying them...
Congrats Tonya! 💖
Sounds like it might be a good time for a talk - just ask how she feels about it, and be prepared to be calm and resist a fight!
Much better to know than guess, IME.
Oh it's a big risk, but, since you're really determined to go down this route (and it seems that this is a deep part of who you are), I think it's best to make sure she's still enjoying the journey with you - and to re-assure her that you are totally there for her.
Love Laura
Congratulations on your courage to go out bra shopping for yourself!!👍👏👏 Maybe, and I am speculating here (no personal experience) but maybe your girlfriend is wondering if you might be wanting to transition. She may be all for a boyfriend who might want to do some part time dress up, but wants to know if she instead is signing up for a full time girlfriend. Maybe she needs some reassurance that you will be there for her "as her man" when she needs you to be. Sometimes when I am really fired up about something my SO needs reassuring that she is still number one in my life. Unrelated question since you brought it up. Is that your real hair in your profile picture- I think it is really pretty. Big hug!🤗
Well done you good luck with your hair and make up.
Best Wishes
Sarah
Congratulations on your win! Each step forward is a victory. Get it girl
