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Hi gals : over the times I've been here listening and reading all the Articles here I found a lot to do with hair removal. Many talk about shaving of legs, all areas. I see facial hair most interesting. We talk about beards, eye browses but haven't heard much about mustaches. Over the year or two I have done much into shaving most of what's been necessary to develop my feminine persona but one thing I have left to do my mustache, since my early teens I've always had one never being without one. Even my wife of 39 years hasn't seen me without it. Now I am reaching a point. To shave it . its a hard decision ,I do like it but now more important is my new feelings and I now know it's day is number. I do love my femininity and like it or not the mustache has to go. In my case this is a hard thing to do but being a girl is more satisfying so very soon I think it's going, mind you a glass of wine or two will probably help (LOL) my wife's just loving this. She said if you do this I know you are destined to be my girlfriend giggle!!!! Yes there's a question and that is has anyone had this dilemma and how did you handle it? Love to know 🌹
Hi Stephanie,
A tache is a great thing. I've always wanted one, never done it. Like you though I recently arrived at a facial hair crossroads but mine was sideburns. I'don't not been with it them since I was 17, so 25 years. They moved up and down, sometimes to my chin, sometimes to my earlobes, but they were my ever present companions. About 3 months ago I shaved them off, telling myself I could always grow them back, but I haven't looked back. I love my more feminine face, and I can still grow the if I want to, it's just I don't want to!
My advice is to do it, nothings irreversible!
Susanna x
I know what you're feeling Stephanie. I had facial hair most of my life as well. It was either a mustache, beard or goatee at one point or another throughout the years. I did occasionally shave it all off. While my knew why, the kids didn't. They never really looked at it as a big deal. Probably because I was always doing weird things with my hair as well. Long, short, colors, you name it. It's been for about the past year or so that I decided to be clean shaven all the time. My wife likes me with a goatee but she understands why I shave. Not that she loves it but she understands. It did take some getting used to at first. I do agree with my wife, I think I make a better looking man with it, but I prefer to be as pretty, as feminine as I can as often as I can so I chose to shave. I don't see going back to facial hair, although there was a big party a few weeks ago for my wife's aunt and uncle's 50th anniversary and I let it go for a couple weeks. I told her I was butching up for the party. I shaved the next day though. Anyway, once you let it go it feels natural. Like I said, this is how I plan to remain for the foreseeable future.
Until last year, I had a goatee for almost 20 years. I finally decided to shave it off due to the grey hairs. I had so many people do double takes and compiment me that I won't go back to facial hair. I am actually wanting to start permanent hair removal before the end of the year. Find what makes you happy though.
