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Hiya girls! Wondering if any of you tuck ‘down below’ even when not dressed?
I’ve found that I love walking through everyday life with it tucked out of the way, even when I can’t be dressed up as my feminine self.
I’m also wondering if there’s more things like that I can do to help me feel more feminine even when I can’t be publicly?
Hugs,
Jess x
@jessicawills Hey Jess. I mean I'm only very occasionally a girl but I've so far found no urge to tuck. I'm confident I can find alternative methods to smooth myself over, even when I'm particularly enjoying being a lady 😉 xx.
Jessica, I don’t tuck, seems like an uncomfortable thing to do, but if you enjoy it, go for it girl.
I like some of the other girls have mentioned, just wear tight panties and tights which seems to do the job and if needed I wear a longer loose top.
I am always underdressed, which helps me feel feminine all the time. I find that smooth legs with (preferably), but even without, stockings is such a great feeling and feminine. And of course, a lacy bra (matching my panties) is a feminine must.
I now don’t even wear socks to hid the view of stockings between my shoes and trousers (especially when sitting down) and I find a flash of nylon covered ankles so particularly feminine.
Happy dressing (and tucking) to you.
Hugs Christine
@jessicawills I wear panties daily and don’t really tuck but like others have mentioned with the right panties and control top pantyhose I find it keeps things in place.
I don't tuck. I did try it once, but it just didn't feel right, so I just use shapewear.
When not dressed, I underdress whenever I can, and over the last year I've grown my nails. I've never been a fan of nails at all, but I love mine now, and spend a fair amount of time shaping them.
@jessicawills I am not living as a woman full time so I'm not in feminine mode as much as I would like. I do have a feminine self care routine (leg shaving, skin care, etc) and that is with me all of the time. I do practice feminine deportment (walking, gesticulation, etc) even in male mode since I want all of that to become second nature to me. It's not the same as being full time but it all is part of me attaining my goals.
Hi @jessicawills! During the past several months, I have been finding myself tucking more and more. Sometimes I’ll wear a gaff to make sure I stay in place, other times my panties (underdressed) or leggings keep me flat in front. It sounds like we both enjoy how that feels. 😊
@jessicawills Hey, I'M "Tiny"....obviously, "no reason to tuck"....hehehe...we were NOT all created equal...."dealing with it"...let's move along, please...!!! 
Hiya girls! Wondering if any of you tuck ‘down below’ even when not dressed?
Yes, Jessica, I constantly tuck, all day, every day, even when I go to sleep. Why? Because I can, and it is good practice to be able to tuck quickly and automatically.
I buy panties with a wide enough gusset that I don't need to tape or wear a gaff, most of the time. Although I need to practice taping more. Both of my testicles are small enough that I always push them up into their inguinal canals. For the most part, they stay there. It's getting late tonight, and I just had a feel. Everything is smooth and right where it should be. The CD world is OK.
@jessicawills Hi Jessica! I was just thinking about your topic of "tucking" and how it mostly applies to dressing in female clothing. But I also started to think back to when I was a kid in high school and wearing boys briefs and realized I was tucking even back then. And still tuck every day. I never thought of it very much unless I was having trouble keeping the tuck in place. It was just something I did on a daily basis. After I started to wear women's panties all the time is when I needed to do some research on how to keep a better tuck for a longer period of time. And this applied to when I was in men's or women's clothes for the entire day. I found that some styles of women's panties were not so good at helping me keep a good tuck for very long, but other styles did a good job. The one that works best for me is the "boyshort" style. It has been the best for either when I was working in men's clothes or shopping in women's clothes. Another one I found that works for me is a long leg girdle. These only go to about mid thigh. Sometimes a woman's brief style girdle works good too. Girdles can also be called "shape wear" these days.
Another thing I started doing at work, was to wear panty hose every day along with a favorite bra that held my breast forms firmly in place no matter what I was doing while working. I also found a camisole to wear under my uniform that wouldn't show. I also started to wear earrings after I got my ears pierced. I also found myself wearing nail polish to work once in a while and blaming it on my 5 year old grand daughter, cause she wanted me to leave it on till the next time I came over! Uh huh! Okay then!
So you may be surprised as to what you can find that will work in your favor, to help you keep the girly feeling longer, for your work week. It can take some thought and maybe some planning and testing. But I'm sure you and others can come up with a solution and the testing can be the most fun part! Maybe because it's more daring! But by all means, have fun and enjoy the results!! Thank you and take care! Steffanie
nope don’t ever do that myself.. seems not healthy for the stick and berries and definitely not comfortable! But I’m just a crossdresser. I can see why a transgender woman would do that .
nope don’t ever do that myself.. seems not healthy for the stick and berries and definitely not comfortable!
If tucking hurts, you are doing it wrong.
At most, if you are taping, you might pull a bit of skin, but then you can learn to tape better. No harm done.
Batter up!
If I wear JC Penney Underscore shape wear panties in one size too small, with pantyhose, the anatomy will adjust, travel, &/or retreat, resulting in a nearly smooth front that is also really comfortable for as many hours as I desire. The leg bands on the panties are thankfully not so tight as to cause discomfort around the tops of my legs. It seems the body of the garment is very snug, but the leg opening was engineered to not be as equally binding. Anyway, throughout the day, it is just plain fun to smooth out the front of my dress and feel that smooth front, like, "wow, there's nothing there."
Dani
I often wear my hip pads under my drab clothes along with a Bralette. The feel of both lets me enjoy the sensation of being Femme all day, discreetly. Every now and then i"ll spot someone looking at my backside. I can see them wondering how did that guy get a behind like that. Whats funny is that its the women who stare, men just look away when they see me as a guy.
I know, i have way too much time on my hands.
My wedding band was my grandmothers. I've been wearing it for over 30 years. The ring will be 100 years old on the 21st of this month.
I have also started using brunette mascara daily.
Little things. They help.
I get to feel femme everyday as I wear earrings 24/7 and have my fingernails and toenails painted all the time.
Last year for my birthday my wife had me get my ears pierced, since then I wear earrings all the time. It's usually studs or hoops but there have been times I've worn dangling earrings out of the house - nothing flashy though.
My wie and I go for mani-pedi's every couple months. I get color on my toes to include during sandal season. During sandal season it is something of a neutral color other times it is a red or pink. My fingers get clear with a pink tinge. They are all gel.
I will on occasion underdress in panties and I have a pair of ankle boots that I will wear out with knee high nylons.
XOXO
Suzanne
No, I've never tucked. I'm quite happy using shapewear to flatten things out as much as possible when I'm dressing.
Just think girly thoughts.
I just discovered chastity. It works wonders and is great around the house
If we're talking about keeping flat in front, I do different things depending on what the season is and what I am wearing. I can use control top winter tights, control top sheer pantyhose, or a panty girdle to keep myself flat in front. But my favorite is from a company that sells gender bending panties. They make several types, and my favorite is a g-string. It is tight, so it acts like a gaff. It has an extra piece of elastic running vertical from the waistband to the g-string. This separates the boys, creates pockets for them, and pushes them up tight to the crotch without actually tuckiing them back in. The result looks like female genetalia, even with a pseudo-split from the extra piece of elastic. Because of the low profile of the g-string panties, it can be worn beneath tight jeans, leggings, and even a woman's bathing suit with no VPL.
If we're talking other ways to feel feminine, I'm often in stealthy women's clothes (androgynous enough to pass) and panties. I got my ears pierced 2 years ago. I keep my hair long and nails a bit longer than a guy would.
Silicone bottoms not only good for tucking but gives you ya a female front so thin nobody will see unless you order a pair with a big hip and butt then might be question what your rump is so big
Im not big anough to tuck, but if we're getting intemate. When im feeling naughty i do wear chastity during housework 🤣
