Think about it, How do you feel when dressed?

That I'm One with part of the universe I'm not normally connected to ...

I am clearly a man is woman's clothing, but that is not important. I am simply a human doing what I need to do to feel right, whole and complete.  I still have masculine skin tone, but I do shave from the chest down, but again because it feels right, not to feel feminine. I usually don't think about my penis much, but if I am wearing a dress or tight leggings I will tuck to keep things looking nice a smooth.

Since accepting CDing as a part of me my personality has changed a little, but my personality is pretty consistent and is not determined by what I an wearing.

My femme self is the dominant part of my personality, and dressing and a partial or even full day of pampering just makes me feel that much more femme.  Yes, I have a penis, god I hate that word, sorry girls, but it is totally ignored and is only included in going to the ladies room.  My confidence soars when I am dressed, even if it's just in my night gown and fuzzies, or all the way up to 2 or 3 layers of soft womanly finery.

My male self only comes around when he's needed and then goes back where he is safely away from the world.

PaulaF

The real me is a masculine male.  I do not know what it its like to really be a woman.  I do know from observation how women look and act.  When I get into character as Stephanie, I do my best to look and act like a woman.  I react to the world around me and feel the way I imagine a woman would do.

I just feel happy and comfortable. I don't concentrate on if I am a man in a woman's body or a woman in a man's body. I just enjoy women's fashions better. Do I at times wish I were a real woman, sure I do. But not being a woman does not make me unhappy.

I don't think too much about being a man either when dressed.

I just enjoy being feminine and I love the cloths and shoes so much.

I do get frustrated trying to hide my penis comfortably sometimes but I do love my male sex life also.

Patty

One of the things I've discovered about myself is how much of a woman I am. I love knowing that about myself. Don't think about my male parts when I'm en femme. I love dressing as a woman, I love shopping as a woman, I love it all.

I am a man. I am proud and comfortable in being that man. I am not trying to be a woman.  I dress in the clothes, whether menswear or womenswear, that feel most me.

Though I have deep feelings about having my own breasts, I have no desire to be a woman.  I love my life and who I am.  It is me.  Accepting this was a journey with its trials and tribulations, but I understand myself better.

MacKenzie Alexandra

Ah, the either/or question.  I enjoy delving into both genders as best I can.  I love guy mode for sports, outdoor stuff, beers with my buds, and snuggling with my wife.  But once I put on breastforms it takes me right away to a softer, femme place.  The look and feel of having breasts under a silky top or nice dress flips my emotional state...add the wigs and shoes...and of course many vane glances in the mirror, LOL.

Hi girls, I'm dressed as I write this. I'm male and I'm happy but I'm also happy trying to be a woman. When I am I try and think like a woman. I certainly ignore my penis, its tucked out of the way. Out of sight, out of mind. I feel smaller when I'm dressed, more petite? I don't try and think too much why I enjoy being Liz and dressed as Liz. I'm Liz when I'm Liz and that other person when I'm not.

I am a man in women's clothing. I am still male when dressed, but I enjoy the challenge of looking as feminine as possible. Sure, I wonder what it would be like to be female, but deep down I am male regardless of what I am wearing.

Of course that is just me, and I can appreciate many have different feelings and desires, and I celebrate those differences . We all need to be who we want to be, not who others want us to be.