This is a support site...I would ask for some now please

I'm so sorry that I feel your pain.  It seems the human race is on social decline.  Not all obviously, but we're seeing more than usual.

In regards to crying.  Be you!  If you're an emotional being, it doesn't matter if you're male or female... everyone needs to cry and feel free to feel those emotions.

I remember dating a woman who was used to dating more "manly man" types (also drinkers, abusers, etc.).  Yes, not my best pick, but I had this "save the woman" attitude after my divorce.  Long story short, I got emotional through a movie, and she had this attitude like "don't cry, why are you crying, men don't cry"... so the next day, I kicked her out of my house.  Simple.

I don't need that kind of BS from ANYBODY!

I'm a survivor of spousal abuse. My ex wife used to abuse me something bad. My mother was also an extremely abusive woman. I was covered in welts from a beating with an electrical extension cord a number of times.

So I don't buy into any of this bullshit its wrong for a man to hit a women, (leaving it open that its ok for a woman to hit a man.)  Its TOTALLY wrong for anyone to be voilent towards another, (unless its self defence.)

Grace. Big hugs. Glad the perp was arrested. Sorry it happened in the first place.

Hi Grace there are always some idiots in the world who think they can do what they want, even attack a woman,

All you can do is just be a shoulder to cry on for your friend, it's ok for you to have a cry too , all the girls will always support you in everything you do,

Huggs Roz X

So sorry that happened Sweet Grace. Your work team is strong because of the strength of each of its members. I’m sure all of you collectively feel the sting of what happened. An injury to one is an injury to all. But because you have each other and because you have all of us here pulling for you, it will get better in time. Love beats hate.

Clara

WTF?  Violence is nothing new. And men have no monopoly on it, but are generally the more violent sex.

Im sorry your friend was a victim of some a$$hole’s thuggish behavior.

Crying is okay, regardless of who you are. Share your feelings with her and let her know you care (I’m sure you probably already have).

And know we share your pain just like we share your joy when good things happen.

Much love,

Raquel

No excuse for raising a hand to an innocent lady. Throw the book at him.

Connie

xxx

ps Men do cry.

Hello Grace

Sorry to hear your upset it is very upsetting when you see someone close getting abused, very glad to hear this thug got arrested. I really hope your colleague can move on from this, thinking of you both.

Love Sarah

xx

Grace, I am so sorry to hear this hon!  All violence is evil, pure and simple, regardless of whether it is a man or woman doing it.  I am glad (hope?) your friend came out of it without any lasting physical injury.  Now she will need her friends - like you - to help heal any emotional pain.

And men, just like women, are allowed to cry.  And if anyone says anything different, ignore them.

Stevie

Grace sweetie, you are never alone. And I cry at the drop of a hat. Easily and unstoppable, from cheesy movies to remembering a past pet. Your empathy is not a weakness but a  strength. Showing your strong character. Big hugs girlfriend 💕 Katie

Oh my dear Grace, that is what makes us who we are. In general women do not get angry or want to retaliate , they just need a hug and a friendly shoulder to cry on and an ear that listens. 

Your girl needs support not male bluster and you are doing the right thing by her. That's why it is called a sisterhood and, unbeknownst to them, you are part of it. 

Why not cry? There is no shame as this is your strong female side coming through and even men cry. Crying is a response to something that has happened, an emotional release. It's the reason behind it that matters.

Someone who has or is suffering with depression needs to get it out and talk about it. So you are also ticking a big box here too. 

You may never prevent a shock but knowing how to deal with it straight away is key to it not eating at you.

You have our support Grace and thank you for sharing.

Never ever touch a lady this lady will have to get a can of whip a## after the person no matter if a man.

Bigger they are harder they fall.

Donna...how come you didn't surprise me ??....girl power!!!!

Thank💓 you xx

Sorry grace late to the party Or would have for sure. Shame and glad they locked the guy up would have to lock me up too for whipping on the dummy too.

Donna

Stevie ( Auntie )...i have known my beloved Stevie  ( Nicks ) for what seems a lifetime...thank you 💓💓...I'm glad we rock a little...and your profile pics get to show the real you a little more each time you change them...huggs, Grace xx

I so sorry for your friend and for you.
What happened sucks, plain and simple.
What to do? Well, first have that good cry! By all means! And yes, men cry, especially good men.

But what to do?

Focus on your friend, supporting and loving her the best way you can. That’s what she needs now.

All the best to you and your friend. May everything work out for the best.
Hugs
Jukes