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<p style="text-align: left;">Alarm clock went off this morning and I pushed back to snuggle into the wife for 5 minutes before we got up. She put her hand on my side and I thought she felt the Bra strap under the satin nightshirt and pulled away, resting her hand on my hip. Enter paranoia. She is normally accepting to a point so had no worries of the cuddle but what went on today. Called her in work and apologised if I got to her this morning. Apparently it’s in my head. She had slept on her arm and it was numb slightly so dropped her hand to be more comfortable.</p>
Why is paranoia an integral part of my being. I need to trust her feelings don’t change by the second, just mine :-/
I'm not married but I have the same type of thinking constantly .....
Lisa
hi lacey. maybe it was just innocent. maybe it wasn't but she did explain in fairness to her so I wouldn't beat yourself up over it. at least she accepts to a point, you are much better off than most! 🙂 . I think you are worrying over nothing 🙂 .
take care! love fiona xxx
You are so right x
Hi SometimesLacey,
Not uncommon. I feel this a lot and I'm certain this is why my SO will not lay a hand on me much anymore. My legs are very smooth, so I know she does not like rubbing up against them with any part of her body.
I'd love to wear a bra, but I freak out thinking she may feel the straps of my cammies when wearing them on weekends. If I can, I usually wear a jacket of some kind just to make sure they do not show through my shirt.
Don't feel lonely, you have good company!
R.
