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To What Gender Are We Attracted?

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(@cece)
Reputable Member     New York City, New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Greetings, girls. There is always some speculation about the sexual orientation of crossdressers. so let us take a quick and informal, non-scientific survey regarding our here and now. We acknowledge that the spectrum is fluid and that even we feel differently from time to time. Rather than open a wide range with many different options, let us keep this poll simple. This is not at all about activity but simply about attractions. Do we find ourselves generally
^more attracted to the opposite gender
^more attracted to the same gender
*equally attracted to all genders
*do not feel attractions
Feel free to elaborate as you like.

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(@Anonymous)
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O.K. I will start.
I love women. Attracted , yes...touch , no. I appreciate an attractive man, more jealousy if truth be known.
I love women so much, I emulate them. I love getting all dolled up and looking good. When I look in the mirror I want to be attracted to...what I see!!
Hope that makes sense!
I am( like 85% of CDs) heterosexual and attracted to women...
Dr.T.J.

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(@Anonymous)
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Male, attracted to women. I too like to see myself as an attractive woman, wanting to look like the objects of my desire.

Connie

xxx

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Lady
(@jeannie)
Honorable Member     Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Definitely women.

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Lady
(@briellerose)
Honorable Member     Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Definitely sexually attracted to opposite (GG), but find many post-op and pre-op transitioning MTF very hot! If I ever go on HRT, perhaps I'd be attracted to men, but right now I wouldn't want intimacy with a GM - edited, I said GG, but that is who I would be attracted to if she were to me as well!). It would be interesting to flirt with a guy when en femme at a club, and maybe canoodle a little. (●'◡'●)

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Duchess
(@alison-anderson)
Noble Member     Middlesex county, New Jersey, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

For me it's not a question of gender.  If I said I'm attracted to the female gender, it could include a crossdresser presenting as a female.  But for me, I'm attracted to women only.

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(@Anonymous)
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oh gosh...no contest

Grace is 100% lesbian....women all the way for me....

huggs, xx

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Lady
(@harriet)
Noble Member     Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand
Joined: 4 years ago

Definitely a difficult question. As time goes on and Polly blossoms more and more  I find that my definition of attraction has changed…

Originally, being a hetro male my attraction was 100% female therefore I modelled myself as a lesbian. While I still present as a lesbian MtF woman I have begun a to sense an attraction to well presented MtF women as well! What a conundrum!

the truth of the matter is that there are very few heterosexual women who will stomach a MtF woman! So what is a gurl to do? I am rather saddened by all of this…

Perplexed Polly😳

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Lady
(@regine)
Noble Member     Simcoe County, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

100% lesbian, here
Hugs, Regi👸💖

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(@oldregistry)
Honorable Member     Batley, West Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Attracted to Women only.

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(@trishl989)
Prominent Member     Bury, GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi I'm a transgender gal. I'm pansexual, currently more attracted to men, but I do appreciate femininity too.

Love Trish

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(@wanderer)
Noble Member     Stoney Creek , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Cece.  I think this question - and the answer - can become convoluted when we equate gender attraction with sexual (physical) orientation and attraction.  As trans I consider myself female gender, yet having not physically transitioned I am physically - and therefore sexually male.  I'm reminded of that every time I step out of the shower, no way around it.  So..... were someone to show (knowing I'm trans) the wisdom of being attracted to me ( hehe 😉), I would think they are attracted to the female gender, yet....  they would know that there's, how shall we say,  more to me than that.  Put another way, would you still consider yourselves "hetero" or "lesbian"  in such a situation?

I ponder this

Stevie

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Lady
(@angel007)
New Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 7 years ago

Without doubt its ladies all the way for Isla

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(@Anonymous)
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Hi Cece,

When I’m in boy mode (which is the majority of the time) I have always been attracted to women with one particular woman at the top of the list, my wife.

But………….

As time goes by and Jillian evolves and emerges I find an increasing attraction to men.

Jillian

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(@Anonymous)
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welcome back Polly!!!!💓💓

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